say you like this one person....could be he or she.... at first u thought they were pretty cool and nice but later u know they are just shady...lies to you but gets caught but doesnt know....he or she got caught...and still try to be ur friend... sometimes i dont know if they are telling the truth or just really bad liars or....really tryin to be ur friend but not good at expressing themselves?
hahaha... yeah i met heaps... n i can't say i've never lied either... but the world's full of those kinda ppl... especially when u start working... u'll meet HEAPS of them
Are you in the position of liking that person? If so, have a talk with them. If not, just take it as a life lesson that the world is not as rosy as it seems to be.
"Cause I'm Slim Shady, yes I'm the real Shady All you other Slim Shadys are just imitating So won't the real Slim Shady please stand up, please stand up, please stand up??"
i sorta do like the person but....talking to them? what good would that do? its not that im negative...or anything...i know the person doesn't feel the same way....you just do sometimes.....but prefers to be "friends"... i duno what to do...i been just keepin it casual w/ that person...i try not to start any conversations....and she normally starts it whenever she wants to...
awwww... everyone likes to b liked (but i'm not sure abt BB)... she mite tell a few lies or give a couple of signs to lead u on... n then shove u back to the "friends" position rite away... if u think she's not worth perhaps u can try not seeing or talk to her for a month or 2... u might find the feelings not as strong when u c her again... cheer up...
yea. windo....just say stuff that she likes to hear...not that you lying -lol lying so she could be liked...wow...like wow...."I got 15 university degrees?" that type of thing?
wow... so u'd go for someone with 15 uni degrees?? i was thinking more like "i'm not wearing a bra"... j/k nah i meant stuff like "i hung out with the girls on the weekend" where as she had a date with some guy...
not sure if it is a turn on...but I;m sure guys can tell if a girl is wearing one or not yea. lots of girls lie to guys,,,a fact...that is why before the dna tests, guys say that aint my baby,,,it is still being use now -lol but the only thing now is...there is dna to prove it...ask eddie murphy,,,it wasnt me
it's harder to tells since they invented those stick on bras... it's not like guys r saints... they wouldn't admit to cheating even they r caught in bed "we're just sumo wrestling" -lol
-lol i was referring to a serious talk not just random conversations. @ OP, if you feel that shes the type that only wants to keep it as friendship, i would suggest to forget talking to her about it. Just act casual and distant.
wat u mean by shady? like they are like pathological liars and just makes up crap about everything or like talk fibs about stuff so they have something in common with u?
we do have things in common but she lied about silly things....and not intentionally to hurt you.... i try to keep my distance to her....and heres what happened... online "convo"...hey...whats up? me..only short answers....but normally we both have a lot to say or talk about....we both like the samethings...like these series...music and movies....same sports and what not... so i kept my distance again right? she goes...r u mad at me?i was like no....shes like u seem so...quiet...or upset...or....not so friendly....just not normal.....and i was like ugh...i duno what to say? then later on i just went back to talkin to her for a bit....but yah.... sometimes i feel that when she wants to chat....and i dont...i feel kinda bad...for ignoring her or kinda like giving a cold shoulder...you know? i just thought...as a guy....should be more "gentlemen"? fung dou? in cantonese?
She wants to chat doesnt mean that she wants to take the friendship to the next level. In this case, just dont put your hopes too high and be normal to her then. Having same interests is not very hard to find but having mutual feelings is... so just wait and dont think too much into it.
i agree with wind... like i said girls likes having admirers around... u can block her if u dun wanna b cold to her -lol
what if she finds out that im blocking her? for example: aim...easy...just use a diff screen-name right? wind: i am in agreement with you and thanks for pointing that out to me! mutual feelings is a good way to describe this. when you say be normal? just talk when i want to talk?
I dont think you need to block her completely if you want to keep her as friend. As being normal, i mean just be your regular self minus the expectation part of her liking you back. Should it not work as bf/ gf relationship between the two of you, at least you have a friend that you can chat with and share the same interest, so why waste it?
