Does having sex ruin a relationship?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by dreamere89, Feb 23, 2008.

  1. dreamere89

    dreamere89 Member

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    i've heard from people over and over again that if u r in a new relationship, if u jump into the physical stuff too soon, you end up ruining it. Is it true or maybe only to some people? what do you guys think?

    thanks~
     
  2. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    It depends on why you like a person, if its only for sex, it wont last long...

    Sex is a bonus to a relationship, but shouldnt be considered as the most important aspect...
     
  3. xmichelly

    xmichelly Well-Known Member

    well if you jump directly to sex, then it seems like the relationship is FOR sex, and any relationship like that isn't very good to begin with
     
  4. smallb

    smallb Active Member

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    Hmm.. From what i think.. I think it really depends on individual lor.. But seriously.. I think sex helps to tighten up the the bond in the relationship.. Hard to say for others.. But for me.. It does..
     
  5. yes it does if ur with someone that's only looking for sex...

    but if there's love in the relationship then love making should b beautiful...
     
  6. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    Sounds like a line straight out of romance paper back novel of the 19th century. :shifty:
     
  7. then the guys probably just an ass who just wanted to get physical.. they stay in there playing games and when ya finally give it up.. then there's nothing more to the relationship..

    so a good guy will still hang around even if ya jump into physical stuff too soon... unless ya jus really horrible in bed.. -lol

    omg listen to chelly!! she speaks with experience! you go girlfriend :biggthumpup:
     
  8. Kai-Wah

    Kai-Wah Member

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    If you jump into sex in a relationship too soon, then basically it's just sex with no love. In most cases it's the guy that just wants more physical. But for couples that have dated for some time, then have sex is basically the next step in their relationship.
     
  9. although some might think you're too 'easy' if ya give it up too fast...

    lol sorry for the wording.. can't think of a better sentence at the moment..
     
  10. xmichelly

    xmichelly Well-Known Member

    not experience >.< just intuition!!!
     
  11. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    ^ Intuition?!? i must say thats a first that i hear something like this...-lol
     
  12. could b :p.... j/k i dun read romance novels...

    anyway i think sex n ML r different...
     
  13. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    sex keeps the relationship goin ;)
     
  14. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    lol if u only want sex go find a 雞, i mean after a period of time, whre u both think its right then have it , not like have sex after knowing for like a day or somefing
     
  15. sex ruins the relationship if they're not getting their moneys worth..
     
  16. jmcd4ever

    jmcd4ever Well-Known Member

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    If sex is started right from the get go for first timers, how great would it be for first timers? It's alright to have some experience under your belt if future partners don't mind.
     
  17. Hustler

    Hustler Well-Known Member

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    Yea I think so ,having sex or asking your beloved for having sex just in the beginning can ruin the relationship . You can have sex with your dating partner after when you believed that you have developed relationship with her/him .
     
  18. rockman3

    rockman3 Well-Known Member

    Definitely it will coz u will be bored after sex !!
     
  19. wow... sounds like buyer's remorse -tongue2
     
  20. babs

    babs Well-Known Member

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    have sex when you feel it's the right time. there is never a wrong time to start having sex with your bf/gf as long as you are both ready. dont do it if you feel you have to in order keep someone or that ppl are saying should. do what feels right and then you wont have any regrets.