My good friend has been dating a guy for about a year now but then the guy told her that he wants to break up with her. I don't know why he did it since they've been really good so far but she's having a real hard time dealing with it. It's her first relationship and she's really confused and depressed. I'm also not that knowledgable in this field of stuff so I want to know if you guys have any advice for her on how to heal a broken heart.
well i think the best thing to do is to stay strong and move on. the quicker u move on the better u feel. besides just keep urself preoccupied with other stuff and then u will stop thinking about him. like they say time is a gd healer.
-ball ur eyes out wondering why he wanted to end it -eat ice cream till u can't move -get all pissed off, make ur gfs come over and all decide to talk shit about him and then voodoo his ass -realize he's an idiot for letting u go and that u can do better -hit the gym cause of that ice cream -find the hottest outfit, go out with gfs and accidently(*cough cough) bump into him by accident to show his ass what he lost. -find a hotter bf
lol, lots of things there from lee-lee. but seriously watching movies can be quite gd actually. watch some comedies. rele up ur spirit.
well im sort of in the same situation, and my ex that i dated for two years now has another gf, so instead of crying all the time just go find things to do and keep yourself busy, the best thing you can do for your friend is to actually listen and be there because the least thing she needs is for someone to tell her that she'll be fine, you just have to let time do its thing...
Thanks thanks, I'll tell her what you guys said. Talking shit about him will be fun for her, since she's been all depressed. Crying it out is also actually good right? To let your emotions out and to just let out all the unhappiness?
Well, she's been all cooped up these days. But she isn't doing much to make herself feel better, more like just sad all the time but not crying or anything. And she took this really seriously since it was her first time having a boyfriend. I think she's at the stage where she doesn't want to talk about it yet, and it's all jumbled up inside of her so she's all confused.
well thats why u have to help her to feel better. though naturally through time she should start to feel better.
Well yeah, all of us friends has been with her a lot these days, but we don't want her to rely on us that much you know? We want her to be able to get over it herself instead of leaning on us the whole time.
That's what we want too. Like there's more guys out there, her boyfriend wasn't that great either. But they liked each other at the time so my friends and I were fine with it. But getting a new guy and showing it up to his face will be nice. -lol I'm pretty sure over time she'll get better, she just needs to let it go I assume.
go shopping and buy some really hot looking clothes. then go out for a girls only night. dont worry about her and if you dont want her to rely on you and your friends too much back off a bit and let her come to you. if she comes to you she needs you. everyone handles things differently she probably needs her security blanket and that's you. it's hard going through your first breakup of your first 'real' relationship. just give her some time. going shopping always helped me!!!!
Ahh, shopping is nice. Get some nice clothes, a makeover too would be good. Gets her feeling fresh agian. And we have been trying to let her work it out herself, but sometimes she comes to us before she even tries to figure herself out. So we want her to get herself together in her own time instead of constantly running to us.
Give me her number and ill make her forget all her sadness Joke aside, the only thing that you can really do to help her is be there for her. You can try distracting her and things like that but eventually, she has to come to terms with herself to give up on the guy.
We've been friends since we were 5, so we've been together for a long time. She always helps me out and this time I don't really know what to do except let her figure it out in her own time so I wanted to do something for her.
