dunno if anybody post this up already but anyways.... let's be honest. As for me, im an autoTech on flat rate, so sometimes i earn less then my girl. She's in business managements.
As long as your girl's alright with it, you'll be fine. This world isn't a guy's worlkd anymore. You see more and more women make more than men nowadays.
Nowadays, theres no such thing as a family where the husband in teh bread winner and the wifey stays home. Its mainly duel income. I think as long as both parties are comfortable with it, its fine. I work in a non profit agency, which automatically translates to not a lot of money. But its a passion and im donig a community a great service. Im doing something i ENJOY and LOVE. so i def. wouldnt mind the significant other made a little mroe.
No, it doesn't matter to me at all. Just as long as you are happy in the relationship then how much each person brings home doesn't matter at all.
i think as long as both of you make enough to survive it will be ok think of it this...way...anything more? just a bonus..
lol Actuallly Girls do Mind, its why u see Girls around those Rich Peoples and Rich 花花公子, its all about the money so no money no talk.
alot of girls care about money, thats just an fact xD they prolly will denial it, and say that he just loves you, but lets be honest if you dont earn enough money, does she still wanna mary you? and ofc some doesnt but its rare xD
yes you need money to survive and if you both make enough to survive no big deal. as for the "gold diggers".......enough said! if she doesnt want to be with you becuz you dont make as much as her you wouldnt want to be with her!
in my opinion ppl tend to marry within their status of wealth. so a rich person usually marries a rich person so that way u know that they won't be marrying u for money. on the other hand thats not to say it wouldn't work out its just in general.
It looks much better if the guy earns more than the girl... its about ego here. That's why I'm very hungry when it comes to this situation lolz
for guys....i think lots/most of the asian guys do care...its a pride thing for me...my perspective as female....atm...im ok with it.... if he earns less then its ok...not a prob....as long as hes not like super broke ass and i have to pay for his everything and give him pocket money =/.... thats just wrong...im no suga mum! but if i'd wanna get married.....i dont think im okay with it...let me tell u why.... i'd wanna have kids if id get married....then id wanna work part time...to keep some social contact (in order to not get crazy being stuck at home 24/7 like desperate houswife) and for a bit of extra income..... why not work fulltime....to spend time with kids and take care of them because their mine... my responsibility with a guy that makes less than me.... i dont c that happening... if hed earn less than i do now....we would be in a financial crisis...! i dont wanna live like a tight ass... i wanna be able to buy my kids what they need, do fun stuff and go on holidays once in a while so am i a moneywhore...i reckon im not hehe...i just want the best for my future kids -lol
As a girl, generally i think it wont be a problem. Unless both of u start living together, and living paycheck to paycheck and struggle to live, have to pay his expenses, then i will mind...
now now angie no need to spoil ur future kids. if dawn is right about ur spending, u spend quite a lot of money in general and what if the guy wants to look after the children. then what would u say.
i wont spoil em... but like i said i want to b able to buy em what they need.... hahaha...ehm...well..then i dunno... maybe i should go and make money and work fulltime and he should do all the housework but ok seriously...even tho its more common nowadays...i dont c it happening....im a bit traditional when it comes to that....
