Depends on what the discrepancy is and what guy's job is. If it's just a small difference, there's no problem at all. The type of job is a lot more important to me. If I work in a professional field and my guy is more into blue collar work, then it's not so much the difference in salary (lots of people in construction make lots); it's the difference in thinking, etc.
im a girl :T and......to be honest...i do care :T LOL cause i dont want to work after i get married -blush
LOL HERES THE PERFECT PLAN, FIND A RICH YOUNG LADY, MARRY AND U ENJOY LIFE WHILE SHE WORKS ^^, ISNT THIS LIKE EVERYONE'S DREAM, 骨氣可以儅飯食嗎？ NO IT CANT =p
its time to get a sex change.. its more free being a women >_< haha... naaa.... its ok to be single anyway.. I love what I do.. as long as im happy... its ALL GOOD =]
i don't like uberberries plan of action, gettting married and then suddenly stop working. if u have children then its fine but if u get married and immediately stop working, that is just plain lazy.
So you gonna rear him couple kids then?!? if not, i doubt any guys will like the idea of having a wife doing nothing at home unless if he happens to be loaded with dough.
If your gona raise the kids and be a house wife getting the house cleaned and cooking my food and everything else then im down with that.
ye but there is no mention of kids in there, just the fact that she will stop after she gets married lol. that is completely different.
@uberberries.. if you are willing to be a house wife and just clean cook and take care of the kids... will you marry me? LOL =]
yep that is true indeed. its better if u both work though cos u then find u have more money to spend lol. also u will be living in the same house, so u won't have to each individually buy house items and pay for ur mortgage by urself.
Well just to throw this out there...but in today's working force (especially in America) men still get paid higher wages than women for doing the same job. I agree with above statements that in today's world you need a dual income to really support a family and that it's not longer men have to work and women stay at home. Not that I would personally do this, but it's okay for men to raise the kids and such. If a couple goes in with the understanding who's going to be bring in the cash then why not let it work for them. But really if women want more equality and all then by all means they should compete for the same jobs, demand the same wages, and if they make more money then their spouse they should, because they earned it. Probably girls do want someone who can make money though, I mean that just means for stability, success, and freedom for yourself later on in life, right? It's a good investment.
it doesn't bother me but it bother the hell out of my boyfriend that i make more than him damn i'm an engineer, what am i suppose to do?
woah engineer. not many girls do engineering. go you! what type of engineering u doing, general, civil etc?
i dont think my girl care about the money thing. however, i dont think she like the work im doing anymore, lol. Back then, she doesnt care if i earn less money than her or wat type of work i do. But now, i think she hates it. Since im never really at home and i come home late alot due to work (im still at work now, lol and it's 8:20..yea..TIRED) she always do the cleaning in the house and the laundries.....My work clothes r usually cover wit oil, grease, sometimes refrigerants, which back then, she doesnt mind washing 2 or 3 rounds of clothes. But now i think she does...........Also, because i always come home dirty, by the time i step on the house, she will tell me to go straight to the bathroom, and shower or i'm doing the cleaning......
