Update: Gf and I broke up. All misunderstandings have been cleared up. We both agreed to this, and now I'm just, trying to move on. I've cut off my ties with her for the time being, so I can study for exams and etc. Hopefully time will tell and things will be better after the summer. ^^
Breaking a girls hearts is always tough, and you pulling away was all it took when she hooked her arm around yours, girls take such little action to mean something much bigger and you can practically say and do anything and it won't help the situation at the present moment..... she needs to calm herself down and think about it, her friends will definitly be telling her how she doesn't needs you and basically anything and everything to cheer her up and all YOU can do is sit back and TAKE IT, cause frankly its inevitable that is how this is going to go... and when she said she never wants to talk to you again, she is lying....-_-; girls respond with that line ALLLL the damn time.... just give her a few days and she will answer your phone calls, if you still wanna talk/fix the situation. its gonna be fine, don't beat yourself up so much, i know how it feels and i know you will be hurting for awhile but that is just how it progresses.....
she broke up with you because of family issues not because she doesnt care. when you did what you did she feels that you dont care about her anymore. i'd be mad and i probably wouldnt talk to you. text her again and explain that you were crying and you didnt want her to see you like that. that'll make things a little better. is there a chance you guys can get back together? if not then let it go and move on. dont drag out the inevitable.
Well, I don't know yet. Like what Akki said, I'm just leave her for a few days. Yeah, after calming down, I know what I did made it seems like I don't, which is untrue, but the same goes for me. The past week, she made it seem like she didn't care about me either. When she hooked her arm around mine, at that moment when i pulled away was me letting out all my frustration out that was built up since the past week.
give it few days and then sit down and talk. clearly the two of you are giving each other mixed messages. you two also need to seriously figure out whether or not the two of you have broken up because if you have broken up you guys should not be reacting the way you are and about the other person snubbing you and acting like they no longer care. if you guys still care so much about each other, get back together BUT give her a lot of space for her to sort out her family situation.
After replying to your previous response, I too realized that we both have been giving each other mixed messages. =T.
persistence is the key action here. dont give up. as you said before, it is because of family issues, its not you, so you can turn it around. misunderstanding is a common thing that causes break ups, so its good if you guys can sit down and clear things up, but right now just sit back, give her some space but at the same time, watch over her
hm i'm guy and been in that situation, very similar to you. Its going to hurt for a while, later it is a lesson to learn, time will heal her and you. time is the key to every thing.
I wish I can watch over her. But really, I'll have to leave that to her friends. I'm already thinking of making a card for her with photoshop. Teaching myself right now, so hopefully it'll turn out okay, and hope by next week that things will be better.
I'm pretty decent with photoshop, let me know if i could be of any help. I know exactly how u feel... my ex wants to be friends but I get upset sometimes and I want to just push her away but I figure what's the point in pushing her away? I think too much sometimes, that's probably not good for me... I always think before I do something.
lol. I think too much too. My problem is that I try to over analyze the situation. -_- Edit: thanks for the offer wheezo
thinking too much may be a bad thing sometimes. sometimes it could just be simple but we think too much... but usually nothing is ever simple with girls .
Oh man, I really hope it works out between you too. Try to sit or down in person and explain that it was all a big misunderstanding. Tell her that you were really frustrated that you had to break up, even though it was for family issues. Make sure she understands why you feel bad too, Remember, nothing is ever one sided. I hope you good luck :] be lucky!
it's obviously not like she doesnt like u anymore, i mean when she hooked her arm around urs was a clear sign...and that text msg, i dont believe that her feelings can change that fast...just leaver her a couple days alone...then try to talk to her, and show/tell her how much u actually care and will stand by her until she figures everything out...if u guys still love each other, u'll find a way to work this out...
Man...these shits r too affectionate for me to comment on this.......but dude, y girls on PA? y not guys on PA? is it because guys hate these affectionate things? unfortunately, im one of them...lol. im not trying to offend you, but im trying to question u. tat's all. tat's not gonna work. I guaranteed you that. playing games will get u piss off.....
