Awesome... a cheating situation. That dude is emo, he going to hurt himself for a girl. Oh boy, what has the world come to now...?
woah, that is one long essay u wrote there. i can't believe i actually spent like 5 mins reading it all just to find out that it was summed up below. grrr. but ye men can hit girls, its not like a law or something its just civilised ppl don't hit girls, which is the majority of the ppl. whats with the bold type btw? also, it seems to me that the boy may need some psychiatric help but tbh it does seem more like he is an attention seeking person, cos if he rele needed the psychiatric help he prob would have tried to kill himself, instead he seems to be threatining to kill himself which seems to me he wants the attention and wants ppl to go on his side. either way the relationship isn't going to last. this seems so like the things u see on trisha or jeremy kyle show. but i think just incase u should stay well away from him bcos u don't know what he is capable of and he might just end up killing ppl.
The "Man Code" passed down generation, after generation... one of the longest lasting traditions of the Male populous... unwritten laws of which men everywhere(with the exception of gays, not to directly exclude them negatively, only because they would have a more femanine approach) follow as a way of life... they're laws in which men don't really talk about, they are just inherently learned and are expected to have been learned with age and experience... further more, men who dishonor "The Code" or fail to uphold it, will be subject to punishment of being ridiculed by peers till honor is restored... Often times leads to guys being completely intoxicated and floored... in anycase... your friend needs to get her emotions straight... and pardon me for saying this, but if she ever came under my radar, she'd come off it just as fast for being so completely insecure... it actually might be best if you can get in a good talk with her and have her break up, and be single and try to be more independent... the problem seems like your friend doesn't want or can't emotionally handle holding herself up so to say... girls night out at a club/bar could help...
by the way you're describing him, he probably has some mentatlity issues. has he been diagnosed with depression or anything? anyway, why were you on your own talking to him when he has a knife in his room!!! he's your friend's bf, not your friend (is he?) be careful next time girl! but i mean going looney over your bf/gf because you thought they cheated on you is understandable (though his was pretty extreme)-- and i mean you see it in films, the dramatic irony and saying "just listen to their explanation! and stop jumping to conclusions etc etc" it's easy when you know the truth, but if you don't then your mind gets fucked.. especially if you really love that person- it's just natural to jump to conclusions like that- but he slapped his gf and made her half deaf? fuck man, that's so messed up.... and what's this about her parents disowning her?? they listen to her bf instead of their own daughter?? are their families really close? because i don't think my bf's mom would drive all the way down to uni to talk to me lol.. seems like you want your friend to break up with him right? because he seems bad news.. but if your friend really has moved on from him then she should just go for the breakup, i mean either way she's in a lose lose situation- fair enough if she wants to stay with him so she can take care of him/make him better or whatnot but if she really doesnt love him anymore then she's trapped. i mean if he keeps saying such suicidal words then have you guys talked to his mom about this? it's pretty serious.. if not then he's just wanting his gf to stay by his side.. next time he waves a fucking knife around then tell him to do something with it, or he probably just wants attention "don't-leave-me-alone-or-i'll-hurt-myself" kind. hope you and your friend thinks of something
Like i totally understand his point of view of things But he doesnt see it in any other way It's like hes blocked himself from everyone and what they have to say It's more like listen to my story... if u dont take my side then get lost I wasnt left alone with him... My and my friend was in his room But he kept tryna kick us out when we proved him wrong or disagreed with him Okie... Like before i swear he was 'normal' But like yeh they used to argue ALL THE TIME... But whateveR didnt think anything of it But then like in Jan he did somethin like this before But i think this time he crossed the line and its inexcuseable And like the thing is he doesnt take a step back and think of any other posibilities Its all him and that head of his The disownin thing is rubbish duno where he got that from :nuts: I mean yeh maybe his side of the family... But the thing is he broadcasted it to like everyone which i think we unnecessary He even brought me into it I'm like WTF ><" At the end of the day its between the two of them and by involvin other people I think will just make it worse (obviously dependin on who) But because so many people kno now there are so many different views Like i think she should just finish it which his mum thinks so too But her dad was like next time i see u two i want it back the way it was T_T Tbh... i dont think he will do it But u never kno maybe this time he's for real? But then this will just probably repeat But are u willing to take the risk tho...
On a serious note, has anyone actually thought of professional help like a counsellor for both of them?? Cause this problem aint gonna go away easily and its better to get it sorted out properly
no really... as a friend... try one more time to get your friend to just leave this relationship... it is getting quite serious... if she doesn't then as a friend it really might come down to you getting some professional help for the two or going to the police... he's got a knife out... it's not a joke... remember ur also in the equation now, so you could be in just as much danger as your friend :(
just get her to move on by finding her another bf. simple. lol. @dim8sum, well those shows do offer counselling for free.
i dont think she should move on until she has found that lad some help, cause he seems pretty unstable, unless its all an act to keep her... but thats pretty messed up as well..... bbes: as well as wreaking your life after everyone hears of you -kekemad I dont actually know why people go on them shows
^ I agree, you guys better stay out of his place. That emo dude, even hit his *girlfriend*, so you never know when he goes bananas And since he has a knife in his room, I dont think it's wise to go in there...... It seems your friend is very unsecure,....... erm..... she is apparently waits for a better guy.... and holding that emo guy as backup...........(dont know how to say this)...... we can blame all of this on that emo-dude, but also on your friend...... If she dont love him, just breakup.....getting blackmailed isn't a reason to *stay* with him.....
He's sucha loser cos he kicked us outta his bedroom then we was walkin away... Then he opens his kitchen window and was wavin the knife around Then he was like i wanna talk to her (me) I was like im scared -cry2 My friend was like she aint talkin to u when u got a knife in ya bedroom So he was talkin to me and she was lookin for the knife Then she found it and he was tryna snatch it off her... Scary mannn coulda stabbed me ><" Then he put it above his warbdrob (is that how u spell it cos it looks funny ) Neways yeh... But before i left early today he was like dead No energy cos apparently he blacked out But the whole thing about him tryna get hold of a gun is crazzieeeeeee!! The thing is okieee im sayin hes mad and stuff But i dont think hes up to that stage where he needs serious help I think its more to do with the way he is 'tryin' to handle the situation Which i think is really extreme and that he wont let anyone say anythin without him flippin ><"
you guys really need to find a 3rd party somewhere... or someone he respects to smooth this out... it doesn't have to be professional as long as you can find someone that he doesn't have the nerve or power to say no to...
spelt wardrobe? by the sounds of things i reckon he needs professional help, cause the situation isnt exactly your typical lovers tiff.... professional help doesnt mean ur crazy and need to go to a mental hospital, but it sounds like its a situation thats beyond the scope and experience of most and someone who knows how to help properly sounds like the best option
