Well all this began 2 days before holiday at school... That day I was walking around in the school with friends, we had a little break (hope u know what I meant like every school have 10-20 minutes break) suddenly a friend phoned me and told me that there are two girls who want my phone number and asked me to go to her. I went to her and there was a girl, she said that a friend of her wants my number...She gave me her friend's number. After school I wrote a SMS to that girl to ask who she is. So we wrote SMS to know each other. The other day she asked for my MSN, I gave her and started to chat with her on MSN. She seems to be a good person. She asked me to go to the cinema. The next I went to the cinema with that girl and 2 friends(1 girl 1 boy) of her. At the beginning I didn't talk much, but more and more I began to speak with that boy, well he seems to be a good person too, he asked me for my number...I gave him. That boy is in a foyer (place where the people go, when they did something bad or when parents left them or no parents...) When we were watching the film, everything were going normal, but suddenly that girl's friend( the girl ) took that girl's hand and put it on my hand ( she wants me to hold her hand )... I refused, I put my hand away... That girl put his hand on my shoulder for some minuted, then she put his head away. Then I said to that girl, it doesn't disturb me when u put ur head on my shoulder... After watching the film, I went home. On MSN that girl said that she loves me, so I said I love her too... We started to chat and chat on MSN. Since this day, I always wake up very early. That day I haven't anything to do, so I made a Photo Editing for her and sent to her... She put on her hi5 and wrote a comment under the picture ("A friend made this for me, I very like it, Thank you") At night a unknown number called on my phone... It was his ex-bf he asked me if I said "I love you" to that girl, I said no it was that girl who said "I love you" to me, that boy told me to do not touch his ex-gf. If I touch her he swears that he will kill me.... He said that he asked his ex-gf who she would choose me or him, and he said that his ex-gf said that she would choose him. I asked the same question to that girl and she said she would choose me... After this call, his ex-bf called me 5 times I didn't take the call, then he sent me a SMS and wrote: ----> Take Care of your life, I think Petange ( the village who I live ) is the place the most secure for you. I want you dead <---- Well the SMS had many spelling fault. I phoned my friend and told him everything. He told to my brother and my brother called that guy. He spoke with him with a low volume (speaking) then he began to increase his volume, My brother told him to do not provoke me again. That boy said " I have 18 years (he was lying he just got 17 ) old and you guys just got 16 ( he thinks that they all got 16 because I'm 16 years old ). My brother and his friends ( 6 friends all about 20-25 years old) began to laugh. And another took the phone and said stop provoking my friend ( me) or we go further... Since my brother called him, that boy didn't call me back... I though everything is going well now... But.... One day I took a appointment with that girl, we wanted to go to the cinema, just me and her. That day was the day where everyone don't work (24 March). Well I met her at the train station and we took the bus to go to the cinema, when we arrived his ex-bf and a boy were waiting at the bus station he started to talk with us. He asked me how long I was with her together, I answered 4 days. He said that that girl wrote him a SMS the morning that she loves him, that girl said that it was the last week where she wrote the SMS. I asked the boy to show me the SMS, but he said he deleted it... Then that boy asked me a question : "DId u already have sex with her?" I said "no" He gave me a punch with all his strength on my belly. I was paralysed. And he continues to hit me an hit me, my glasses felt down on the wet sand ( there was snow ), he hit me till someone stopped us. I sat down and he spoke with that girl, he said that she's a bitc* and spit on that girl's face. Then they gone, I asked that girl if she goes well, so entered in the cinema. In the cinema there's a glass wall which u can see outside and there's some doors too. When I was walking with that girl inside ( A on the image ) That boy wasn't just with 1 boy but with another 2 girls. He entered in the cinema ( B on the image ) and said to me " COME OUT! " I said " NO " he took my neck and put me on the wall and started to hit me again... And that in public... Someone stopped us and gave me a card with his phone number, and the boy went outside and disappeared. I continue walking with that girl, that girl said "It's better to do not watch the film" she phoned her mom to take her home... I went to toilet to wash my face...I was crying like always like a girl.... I can't control my feeling.... I always cry for everything I don't know why! I don't want to cry!.... My friend came as fast as possible with his car and he called my brother too. 3 friends came and we were searching that boy, but no success. But I knew that that boy is in a foyer, I called that girl to ask her where the foyer is. We went to that foyer and the teacher of the foyer said better go to police. I went to the police and the police said that they will past to him tonight... After going to police, that boy called me and asked me if I can go to the foyer, he said he wanted to say sorry. I went there with 6 friends and we went in. Then the teacher came and said who let all those ppl come in? And sent them out. So I was with that teacher and that boy. I said that I can't forget him because he hit so much and I can't accept the sorry... He said that that girl is a bitc* and that she plays with boys. I asked him a favour if he can say to that girl that I don't wanna talk with her, that boy said "No,no" Me neither I don't to talk with her! I asked him "how can I trust u?" He said "u can touch my heart..." After that day I went to the doctor, the doctor gave me some medicaments 1 for the pain and 1 for the stomach. The day I've been hit, I got pain on my belly and the following day too... That girl wrote me SMS that she was sorry and that we can just stay friends for the moment. I didn't answer the girl SMS and deleted the number. After holiday the first day to school at the break for eating, I saw his ex-bf on the bus station at school. I was asking myself was he there for me or for that girl? At night I asked that girl why he was there, that girl told me that they were eating together. I said u are funny.... That girl didn't understand and said "Is it prohibited to eat with someone?" I said said " No No it isn't prohibited!" And I ignored that girl... Thank you for reading this... The questions I am asking myself are: Who is playing or lying? Is that girl playing with me? Or That boy is just lying because that girl left him? How did that boy know that I will go with her to the cinema? Will he pay for my glasses? Because I want new glasses! He won't pay for a new pair? He will just repair my old one? But I want a new one! I decided to left this girl behind...
lmfao, you told her that you love her after going to the movies once? damnnnn, you crazy french people
wth .. you should seriously ask him to get you new glasses =\ i mean if he really is sorry, he'll do it and i don't know about this girl .. why is she eating with this guy when he did that to you AND called her a bitch and spit on her face? weird .. :nuts:
lol he sure act tought beating on some1 2 years younger w/ a buddy besides him, if i were you i'd get your bro and friends to kick his ass, seriously..
Ouch...I hope you're ok...I think those two temporarily broke up because of an argument and she used you to see if her bf still loves her or something like that and now they're together again, stay away from her if I were you, nothing good comes from any girls like that
dude no one says i love you after meeting once its probably just the girl playing to make her "Ex" jealous
um... I think it's kinda weird how u let the guy beat u up and then let him say sorry as if it was nothing... If i was u i would've ended up in a fight with him anyway i don't think that guy will pay for ur glasses after reading how rough he can be... I mean he didn't have to start a fight with you, you did nothing wrong. Oh well... good luck on ur glasses etc and i think you made a good decision to leave the girl behind.
u should return the favour and give him a black eye, then tell him to pay for u glasses lol. why didn't u fight back, it seems to me u just let him beat u and it would have been wiser just to have left the scene after that, not carry on like it was nothing or to phone ur bro after he beat u the first time, thats what i would do.
just get your brother and his friends to get the guy to pay for your glasses. she was the one playing. that girl played you for a fool to make the ex jealous. she was the one who told him where you guys were going and she told him everything you said to her. leave that trash in the garbage where it belongs!
OmgZ!! Didi -hug This girl is a bitch how can she say she loves u and stuff then see u get beaten up because of her Then turn around and act like nothin has happened? Wtf is wrong with her... that boy spat on her and stuff T_T Didi u can do much better than that forget about her -hug
yeah man i totally agree with you @ tundra, that really sucks for you, take care and hope nothing like this ever happens again
Hello everyone, First I wanna Thank you guys for reading. Sorry that I wrote so much... I didn't defend myself, because I've never had a situation like this, he hit me and my glasses felt down and I couldn't see anything... It was probably my fault, because I shouldn't simply say "I Love you" to that girl... Today I passed to his foyer and gave the list with the Total.. The teacher said they will have a meeting with all the teachers together on Monday, so he will give me an answer. After going home that boy wrote a message to me and said: 600 euro is too high, didn't u found a higher one...? Damn you, I see u have avenged well! You'll see we will talk about it together. I won't pay for it... My friend told me to do not answer him, just ignore him... and then I said, what should I do if he comes to my school to beat me? My friend said just let it go, beat him...But I can't do it, I'm not enough strong.... And then the girl wrote me a SMS too: What's this shit, that anonymous(I don't say the name (Name of that boy)) must pay 600 euro ? (And she left a mad smiley at the end) I wrote to that girl : You know what it is, and everything is ur fault... I really got the stress now... I hate those ppl. I don't wanna see his fcking face anymore.... Everytime I see his face, I wanna hit him... But if he hit me again, I can go to the police and he will be sent to prison for childrens... And in 2 months we will get his 18 and my friends will give him a Happy Birthday gift(at 18 ur adult and my friends who are older than 18 can beat him >_>) Damn....that girl is a bitch... It's better not say hello to that girl anymore....
o wow, that sucks... i think that the girl may have liked you... no love. but then after she witnessed that you were letting the dude beat the crap out of you has probably changed her mind. girls don't like wusses... they like jerks, especially ones that are stronger and not to mention older. sorry to say all that tho, it's just my opinion. guys need to stand up for themselves and not get walked all over. if anything, (this won't solve anything but it may make u feel better) you and ur bro/frenz need to go kick that guys ass. FIGHT BACK! o and then make him pay for your glasses while your at it.
lol tundra, ppl on this forum relaly got the msg, thje girl was a bitch, and u fell for the trap, you got played like a ps2, that goes to show you, being frineds w/ the girl b4 saying " i<3u" should be always first.. and not after that one date (double date @ that..) type of thing.. oh and if you're relaly mad, i'll also beat up the guy you gave the phone # to on the double date, obviously he was in on the whole gag by giving your # to the ex, if he's 18 i'll fuk him up for you, this whole grup of friends you have really pisses me off, you're the scumbags of the teenage world
Yea after all this, now I know what to do... Yea we can say I've got a punishment what I did. Never say to a girl "I love you" simple like that... Sure that boy really stress me... He said to that girl that I played the cool on da phone...I didn't He was the one who played the cool, he said he was 18.... But that girl stress me too... she just manipulated me and now she does like nothing is passed. I really hate that facking girl.... why are those girls so fake? They can lie, they can act like a good girl.. FACK OFF! Hitting the boy won't solve the problem... Because he will hit me back and then my friends will hit him back, this won't have an END... So now I can just wait till he paid the bill, everything is fine. Or maybe he will come to my school and beat me... I DON'T GIVE A SHIT.... That girl feels very happy to manipulate me like that....I really wanna beat that girl...but boys don't hit girls... I've made that Photo Editing for her, I wrote her to delete the Photo Editing and I blocked her on Hi5 and MSN. Well, I hope he will pay the bill...
Ok I will! Yea i don't like the SMS she wrote, she always writing "lol" on all sentence on the SMS.... I'll try my best to defend myself! You think I can do it? =/ He just needs to take off my glasses and it's finish for me =( And where should I hit? -mellow