guys why do i feel down when i know my ex gf got a new bf? i do have a gf now.. its her 2nd bf and i feel sad wheni know she have a new bf.. honestly, i love her more than my current gf.. is it normal to feel this way?
yes....its normal if ur not over her....and ur obviously NOT over her.... u need time to heal n recover after a break up...n since ur not over her yet u should really reconsider what ur doing with ur new gf... do u think its fair to her?
nah.. definately not fair for her. what can i do? i know i couldnt treat my current gf as good to my ex gf. Its just so natural i neglect my current gf so much. I appreciate what i got now but, i just couldn't control my feeling. I am happy for her to have a good bf but at the same time i feel down. Its already 2 years since i last saw her.
i feel sorry for u ronald....-flow not much u can do...usually things get better when u take some time to think...heal wounds n when the time is right u will hopefully like someone ele 2years is quite a time....but oh well...if its ur first gf....its normal i reckon....if not...... not much u can do about it as it seems as shes already moved on
was she your first GF? and how long were you two together? its definitly normal what you are going through but i have learned to ignore it and think of the positives for them and i haven't been jealous for a long time... you are just probably going through a short phase which will end soon... and plus look at your current gf, if you can't see her than its pretty bad that you got into a relationship half heartedly...
nah she wasn't my first gf but she's the one who make me ditch my first gf. Thanks guys i know what you mean. I'm just trying to let go my feelings here .. cheers
wow.... interesting... yeah with something like that it should be blowing buy fairly quickly be happy with wha tyou have and appreciate it
^^ sure sure ronald.... no worries haha pa is the place to be for the unhappy lovers ....seen so many of this kinda stuff around here hmmmmm....so u ditched ur ex gf for her and then got ditched....ouch.... unfortunately..its all in the game of love...some things u just cant control....its a pain eh....
some ppl do seem to rebound rele quick whereas others such as u are not as fortunate. must have cared about her a lot.
Just concentrate on what's in front of you, which is your current gf. I feel what you're going through. Going through a bit of it right now, although I don't have a gf right now.
Im pieces and i think that explains all . Thanks guys. I saw her updated her profile on friendster and her smiles really makes my day. I smiled and feel relief. I never had such a smile for quite some time. Am so happy for her. Hey, she did post a very good song. Hope you guys are up to have a go. Its called Friends Forever. Go download it and enjoy!
ye u concentrating on ur current gf? cos she should be the one u should be concentrating at not ur ex considering she has moved on.
ronald.. there's 2 options for you to choose.. 1.. swallow it and be a good boyfriend with your current girlfriend..be as good as you were with your ex at least..try.. and be even better if you could ..since your ex got a new boyfriend..i dont know if she's happy or not but if you do love your current girlfriend..try to get over it.. and be a good bf .. 2..{ the one i took } lol.. tell your current girlfriend that you sitll have the feeling toward your ex..and you couldnt get over it.. you think that's unfair being with her while thinking of your ex..and since you love her you wanna be honest ..tell her that this might hurt her but its even harder for you to make such a decision.. and its for her own good.. and then..wait for your ex.. or..give you some time to get over it..chilling out with friends..and yea.. what do you know...maybe someday.. she might come back to your side ..
Hmm Thats little hurt. Because Its happens with me already. But you don't have to worry about just make a chill. Because in start you feel and remember her . Because the new one is not like her . Its because of time. After a time When you both understand each other I'm sure that you forget the old one. But yes this is true like if you love someone true then its very hard to forget it.
hahaa oyu know its funny ronald, im actually in the current situation too... im seeing a guy...but im going to stop because well...i still havent gotten over my ex, and its been like a year and a half... I tried to fix it though, but I guess for me it's too late, I was the one who broke his heart, now I guess I'm getting a taste of my own medicain >.< But you know, everyone says, it takes time, you will find that someone who keeps your attention on them and forget about the past, dont worry... we're both in the same boat, we'll get through this together! ^^ x
