i don't mean clothes ... it's just human nature to be attracted to beautiful people. no matter what anyone says, looks always matter. because when a person meets someone, the only thing they can judge on is appearance, because they don't know the person yet.
i thought it was all about the eyes...the chemistry...if a female look like a dime piece but no chemistry ill jus walk or play a lil..its either you have it or you dont...human nature is blind its all about the vibe you get from the person, so i dont really think appearance matters at all, if a person is ugly its wudnt matter what you wear you still gonna be ugly
Alright fine... since Kdotc said it, appearance does matter under my circumstances. Gotta be hot to blow my spot.
This questions really depends on age brackets. The younger you are of course your needs are different. But as you get older you see things in a totally different perspective where looks don't matter any more.
It matters to some extent. However, exceptions always apply to incredible personalities and remarkable traits.
yeah..appearence matter for most of poeple... but i wont care if my boyfriend isn't the hottest guy i've ever seen
i bet when ur 30 ladies will think like "hes cute but does he have a house? can he support me or our future kids? next..." anyways confidence wins in life
I admit appearances is the first thing for me when I talk to girls. It would be embarrassing if I go up to a hairy girl or something and start talking... thats one bad thing about me. However I have plenty of friends, some are ugly, some arent. I learned that looks arent anything. Theres this one viet girl I know who isnt that pretty but shes fun to talk to. So yeah, appearances help alot, but they shouldn't be controlling your life xD or you know something wrong
the person you wana be with must be attractive, imo anyway.. don't really understand how you can be with someone if you're not attracted to them.. like they probs aren't the most good looking person in the world, but at least you, yourself should find them attractive/sexy/cute- what ever works for you.. but as well as appearance there's personality and talent ))))))
honestly....i wuldnt date anyone i dont find attractive at all... he doesnt have to b handsome but at least have something that attracts me but then again if a guy is alittle bit ugly but has a great personality there is a small chance that i can fall for him im100% sure it matters more to guys
u might not see Miss A as pretty girl...but ur friend might see her as pretty girl... depends on individual......... even sometime we fight about which actress is pretty.... right?
thats quite scary, can he support me and our future kids. what about us thinking is this woman going to be able to help out in supporting the house, the mortgage and future kids. ye i agree, they don't have to be the best looking but in ur eyes u have to find them attractive and there has to be chemistry. i never fight about such petty things. just usually agree that both actresses are pretty. arguing about that is a waste of time i think.
No matter what anyone says Looks Always matter. But it depends on the person putting a value on looks. Some girls would consider Looks as a Bonus, others would consider it a requirement. It would always depend on the girl. So no matter what your GF says about you not neededing to look Good, you know they will be happier if you do look better.
wat makes me laugh is some girls are so needy and have such high requirements but they themselves don't even look gd or have a nice personality. those are the ones u should avoid.
u can say whatever u like but besides looks which is a huge deal when a guy select the girl as wife theres also other things... such as will she be able to be a good mother , will she not be lazy and can she give my kids the best and not be selfish other than that is she not just using me as a mealticket.... for women its the same........but what do women need if they will have to devote most of their time on keeping a family going....financials right? women need to be sure that the guy is not a loser with no ambitions n future at all... not tryin to say he has to be very rich n all that....but def initely not: one whos gonna be jobless, sit at home playing GTA and wait for their wife to come home to cook their dinner
It is quite normal that women think that way, you really need to watch at discovery channel. Animals act the same way, when finding a partner
ye im just saying that with every relationship both ppl have to work hard at it and not just rely on the other and just stop. obviously u wouldn't expect one person to do all the work, financially as well as all the chores in the household with the other just to be jobless sitting at home playing GTA unless ur filthy rich lol. but even then, they would expect the other to do more. i mean wat is a relationship if only one person puts in all the effort. its about both of u putting the effort in together.
What? If you thought your boyfriend was 'ugly' then why would you go out with him in the first place? Don't people normally hook up with others who they find ATTRACTIVE ? :S Everyone has different standards & ideas of what they consider as attrctive and unattractive. So therefore appearance matters,whether it be massively or not, depending on the individual. You need to find your OWN partner attractive & not how other people perceive them to be. & yessss... a guy who's a fitty & rich & has a nice personality will always be a winner :] But they don't exist.