At what time would u start a relationship?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by mingming2006, May 4, 2008.

  1. mingming2006

    mingming2006 Well-Known Member

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    At what period would u start a relationship?

    In the sense of bf/gf or lesbian / gay relationships, when do you think it would be the right time to go for one? I'm thinkin when i go to uni or after...but then again there would always be factors against it - like work/ education / distance...
     
    #1 mingming2006, May 4, 2008
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  2. bbes

    bbes Incredible

    well i don't rele think there is a time as such, its more of meeting the right person and then going for it. but its prob safer to get one at uni i guess cos now wouldn't be the best time unless they are going to the same uni as u.
     
  3. Phoenix

    Phoenix *~Though she be but little, she is fierce~*

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    i dont think there is a specific right time...i think you just start a relationship when you think its right..cos regardless of where you are,what you doing or what uni u going to...them factors u mentioned is guna come up anyways...u cant let it stop u so when u feel its da right time...just go for it......
     
  4. qkchrissy

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    Yep thats very true... When you meet someone you like you will know if you want to have a relationship with them or not... There is no timing really.. just depends on your own heart and feelings at the time.
     
  5. lala_bel_tempo

    lala_bel_tempo Well-Known Member

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    make time for it. you will always be busy throughout life.
     
  6. MunMun

    MunMun Well-Known Member

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    whenever you feel ready to have a relationship
     
  7. the right time is whenever your pants get tight when a chick you dig walks by...........

    lol but in all seriousness, when ever you feel confident things will work out for your future and you really want to see how things go with this person then by all means go for it! (of course not by ALL means, no crazy stalker mode and crap)
     
  8. most of the time i start relationships around 5 am.. and quit them around 1 pm..

    nah jks :p
    doesnt really matter, somtimes they just come and go xD its the same as money m8 :p
     
  9. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    lol prob when ur at least 18 and u know what Love is , lol dont listen to Akki, hes talking bout the time to start sex ^^
     
  10. fookjay07

    fookjay07 Well-Known Member

    start wen eva u time its time to and wen eva your ready for it
    there is no time on when to start...
     
  11. mingming2006

    mingming2006 Well-Known Member

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    lol its quite a coincidence that I am already 18...hmm, wel just askin for some opinions - cos i like someone right now, but not sure when it wd be the right time for both of us. And it makes it worse, when shes one year younger than me - and gona stil be in college, while im at Uni - (hopefully)....mayb it would have to wait, but we both feel we still quite like each other...
     
  12. bbes

    bbes Incredible

    u mean when ur in a bar at 11pm and u quit at 5am the next morning. lol.
     
  13. Phoenix

    Phoenix *~Though she be but little, she is fierce~*

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    minh...just go for it like...what have u got to lose?
    its like the saying: 不 怕 天 長 地 久, 只 有 [tung] 經 擁 有
    something like that...so go for it...
     
  14. mingming2006

    mingming2006 Well-Known Member

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    yea gues so, thanks may ^ ^
     
  15. Phoenix

    Phoenix *~Though she be but little, she is fierce~*

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    welcomes like...i support you ^^
    who's the lucky girl? =p
     
  16. Chibi12

    Chibi12 Well-Known Member

    I guess the right time is wen u meet the right person, u mite plan to start a relationship at so and so time, but if u dnt find some1 u like....... My first relationship was at the beginning of uni (18), though uni was main priority, i still found time to spend with my guy, its a matter of balance and understanding by both parties, otherwise, work will always get in the way and u wnt have time for a relationship until u retire!
     
  17. bbes

    bbes Incredible

    ye if u rele like something u always somehow find time for it.
     
  18. vangirl86

    vangirl86 Well-Known Member

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    Only book worms plan their time to date :D.
     
  19. vangirl86

    vangirl86 Well-Known Member

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    Do yo you mean, "If you really like SOMEONE, you always find time for it somehow?".
     
  20. mingming2006

    mingming2006 Well-Known Member

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    yea - im tryin 2 find time for her n she wants to do the same. Hmm, i gues theres no prob in waiting, n tbh - my feelings are only for her only - so time wont affect me, ^ ^, hehe