lol the thing is why would you write a note saying "i hate you" thats just being a sore loser man.....if you failed then just move on, it's not like she ever accepted you anyways. Also you might've gotten the wrong impression man. But that thing at the end of your story man.....i don't know what to say, that's just childish. MAJOR TRIPPIN' here.
damn yo....i would have never go thru all that stuff for a girl that i like but don't show and love bak......its ok mang..u learn from ur mistakes......u play girls and u get played...its all goood
lol i'm sorry but i laughed at the part where you said you wrote "i hate you" and if she really was, then she shouldn't have led you on. but maybe you just got the wrong idea? i mean she never really told you to keep trying and guarantee that you two would hook up. so if she's going out with someone else, it doesn't really have anything to do with you. you just have to get over it. she probably didn't even think of you in a potential bf kind of way
lol yer i hate it when ppl only play with ppl, usually its a Dare or something but its just mean, playing with ppl and then humilating them =(
Dude...you assumed that she liked you...she never did say anything about her liking you, the rejection means that she doesn't want to be with you and at the same time she doesn't want to hurt you...
you embarrassed your self by " i hate you " lols...could of said it face to face which prob shock her.
ye i think she prob didn't even know it was u who wrote i hate u. also, i think she said that to break it down lightly and then when u did all that stuff she was pleased but then ignored u to show that u two are not compatibible. so u should have just stopped there. i think she just liked u as a friend.
ehm sorry but she never accepted u so...its all u whos doing the effort for nothing... n having a cake with kiss me while u guys not even a couple n u dont know for sure if she likes u is kinda....u know u probably made her feel uncomfy...based on what uve wrote up there i feel like its not like she used u...but u did it outta free will trust me...theres no such thing as "i dont think we should be a couple cuz im almost going to college" if a girl likes u enough she wouldnt say that so u probably should have got the hint right there.... sounds more like she wanted to turn u down in a nice way... u were the one who was listening to others too much.... after doing the first few things u probably coulda figured she not that interested + yeah like the others said its kinda childish feeling hate for one who doesnt like u or turned u down... &&....calling another guy gay cuz she picked her is kinda fail tbh..... besides this werent u the guy who was having a friends with benefits relationship with ur friend? so that was going on while u liked this girl....if yes...then u ask urself how serious u are urself? oooh and....one last thing....i dont see how she played u? &&&&&& no im not trying to flame u.... im just giving my honest opinion
^ I agree what has writen above According to your story, you said that you have confested to her and she turned you down. Which was basically a hint. Your rushing + unusual gifts made here feel uncomfty with you. That's why she doesn't want to be with you anymore (she sees you as a stalker). Since you guys were only friends from the begining, she never *played* you, in the first place. You only assumed that. And the *I hate you* thing that you did............., That was 1 bad move,
thinking about it further its more like ur friends played u in telling u to go for it so early when u were uncomfortable about it. also she kissed u on the cheek at valentine's u sed u expected more, well that was more of a thank you but i don't want to be with u thing. lol.
You guys are right, I guess I was being childish and immature at the time. But she did tell me she liked me, and that something could happen, but we just gotta wait and see. I guess I was just mad, I felt led on. And no, the whole friends with benefit thing didn't even start til this whole thing was over. But I'm done with all that.
^^ I think you would've had a chance if you didn't come on to her too strong... I definitely do not think that she "played" you and at least she wanted to stay as friends... gl luck in the future but you should probably move on...
