the last time that happened to me was when i was 13 probably... of course when u have a long relationship it can happen that someone catches ur eye or u might think someone other than ur partner is attractive.... happens a lot....but most important thing is what u do with it...thats all that matter remember: the grass always looks greener on the other side
if it doesn't happen to you then you aren't normal..... lol there will always be someone that you may so happen to walk by and be like WOW, but as angie says long term relationships do tend to make one or the other think of other people... as humans we are just get bored of repitition...
to have feelings for someone who already has a partner is such a hard feeling...it makes u sad and very down...
actions and decisions are for me to control but i cannot seem to get out of it... relationships has always been one of the weaker spots in me.
trying my best being trying to get away from it for about 1 year but no sucess.... if i try to avoid they will contact me some how.... its very confussing my situation very hard to explain... we are basically acting like a couple arguing, care for each other, get jealous or each other and so on....
i mean its human nature... i guess.... but yeah i mean as long you still love them and you never think of breaking up because your attracted to someone else then its okay
hmmm.......liking another during a relationship is quite common, as everyone else above has said, you control what actions and decisions you do... but my advice is to throughly think things through because...you dont want to live with regrets, and when you try to fix it, sometimes it might not be possible to fix cause its too late. But think about it this way...if you truely love your partner, you wouldn't decide to leave them purely for a momentarily attraction, and also, you wouldn't want your partner to just suddenly do stuff behind your back with someone they suddenly find attractive.
that is very true and also the other person u fancy could be just lust not love and be skin deep only. wat if u decide to break up with ur current gf to ask her out to find out that 1. she doesn't find u attractive and 2. that after knowing her u don't actually love her. wouldn't u regret it then and be left with nothing.
I understand the situation because I'm right now inside it. Its like I have a girl friend year go. We meet in internet and love each other. After a time here is some mis understanding between us.We ignore us.After a time I meet with some one else fallen love and the old one is back again in my life. So i don't know what to do ? leave the older one or new one ? Confusing....
Maybe for those of you guys out there in a love triangle.. if you think its serious.. think about if you can see yourself with them in 10 yrs. Or think what it is you want, a serious relationship or just something for fun temporarily. I'm not saying playing to hurt them but if your going to have fun, make sure they know that too so in the end, it won't go bad though most of the time its inevitable.
if you're finding yourself liking other people. you should just break up with your bf/gf because its only going end up being a big mess or someone going cheat.
Love is a work in progress when you are in a relationship. You cannot be "in love" all the time. Your relationship with your gf/bf deepens to new levels. New relationships will always make you high (like a drug I suppose...INITIALLY) and you can't seem to get enough of each other but this tapers off. When you are in a relationship and you start having feelings for someone else, then you are in trouble. The responsible thing to do is to break it off (new or old) and not drag on. Ahhh, the excuses I have heard... "but she loves me and we have a history together", "i feel so guilty for abandoning her", "he is so nice to me, i can't be so cruel and do this to him" Wtf, just make up your mind. If you made the wrong choice, doesn't matter. Your ex deserves better. Don't go mess up his/her life if he/she is already with another. Remember it's not all about you.
i like his friends just like friends... theyre my pals... if im in any trouble... theyll help me as well =)
