What would you do if you only had one week left with yout bf/gf of a year and a half? Would you carry on as you normally would? Would you do as much as you could together? Would you have deep meaningful convos where you get everything out in the open? Would you try to block them out knowing it would hurt you more if your more attached to them by making new memories with them?
^ emo much? lmfao if i had a week left with the girl i loved, i would make her finals days the best day's of her entire life combined....
Buy a webcam and save up for plane tickets Just carry on as you are but emotions will take over as the day grows closer and closer... been there done that... it wasn't easy :(
mun mun you going to live in HK arrr? and yea if you try to forget him i would slowly build off by not seeing him that much so the pain wont be so hard to bare when your in the other continent... but if you want to keep the relationship, i would go out with him/her everyday and enjoy the last moments before you leave
im going to HK as a holiday... but he will be going hk to live and maybe china/taiwan because he wants to further his career. guess the real reason im going to hk is to run away for a bit hence it was a last minute decision to go hk >.< paid £100 more than my sis because she got her ticket at few months ago we are living together at the moment but i will move back down to my sisters place this sunday and officially break up. (even in the same country we live at least 3 hours drive from each other) and we did that for nearly a year until i moved in with him meaning i sacrificed everything for him just so we could stay together. the emotions have already gotten to me. just the thought of counting the days left.
i would probably do whatever i can to make that one week last forever. great memories will last forever
why dont you re-locate wit him? you sound like you love him so much and you've put so much into your relationship. i can say that i honestly wouldnt know what to do if i were you. one part of me would want to spend all my time with him and the other part of me says to say goodbye now cause the more i see him the harder it will be. i wish you the best and i really hope that things dont get too rough for you once you say goodbye.
^^^ I agree with babs. What's stopping you from moving to HK with him? Do you already have your own plans in the UK or is it generally not worth it? Long distance relationship can work out, as you may already know, even if he's in another country. It all depends on whether it's worthwhile or not. But it sounds like you 2 have already discussed about it and come to a conclusion of breaking up. I know 2 couples who are in the same position as you & they're still very much content with their situation. It could be better yes, but they see it as a test & think its worth it cos they're that serious about each other. They still see their other half, but not as often as they would like to. Anyways, don't feel all shizzy about it... make the most of what you have right now. There's no point in secluding yourself away from him... cos thats just gonna hurt you even more in the end.Regrets?! It's always better to end things on a high note right? *girly hugs* :] You 2 can still remain in contact with each other as friends, if thats what you want... cos it'd be a shame to lose the friendship.
im not ready to move to somewhere i dont know anyone at all and i dont know my way around HK and it is so much harder to find a job in HK especially if i havent got a degree. yes i have thought about moving to hk with him which is why i decided to move up with him at first but now hes saying things like i will probably not like living in hk because of the job and the pay and because i wont know anyone there etc etc.... i was going to move back down when he went to hk in aug/sep but now its just hurting more as each day passes so i want to end it as soon as i can. more memories will just mean more pain.
that really does suck... its gonna take time whatsoever to forget him, so just try to break contact with him, its hard.. but in the end its the fastest way to get over it, and you gotta be strong girl
Sadly, thats not always working. The way I see it it seems like he decide to move foward by himself, so just hang around him and be friend with him. No point of getting more attach to him. You gotta move foward by yourself and have yourself a wonderful life just to make him jalous
never knew u lived in the UK but yea best thing to do is to spend every moment possible with him these past few days and then when he leaves u can still keep a relationship if u rele love him and one day u can move in with him or u can get him to move down to where u live. unless he rele doesn't love u as much as u love him. cos all i see is u making the sacrifice. i don't rele see him making the sacrifice.
are you thinking this relationship going to be THE ONE? i would never consider moving to another country for a guy i'm just dating, but if your engaged that's a different story. Are you two breaking it off? if so than just spend time together to yes build memories and have fun Are you to doing the Long D thing? If that's the case, than of course spend time, but then discuss a lot about your future how to see each other, when one will move back or not Cause he it's never going to move back, or your never going to move there there is no point wasting your time "together" and not taking time to get to know otehr people stay close friends, and encourage each other a lot
well it all depends i mean what is the reason for separation you know? i mean if it was because she wanted to then i would make it the best time of her life so that she will remember me that way... i dont know if that makes sense but yea
