if someone ask me this question i think my answer is probably being cheated because if i'm too in love with someone i couldn't cheat on him but if he cheat on me that means that i'm not the person he loves the most and maybe this is a great test for a love relatinship.
why would you want either one to happen?? no one wants to cheat or be cheated on. no one plans these things. it just happens. no one can ever say for sure that they would not cheat because life happens and it always throws surprises at you.
its one of those questions that you shouldnt ask others, but you know it happens alot. Personally i choose to be cheated on
it's not a pessimistic question like u said this is a real life question nothing is perfect in this life . in many relationships someone cheats or being cheated on, so talk about reality is not being pessimistic at all
hmmmmm i have in a kinda way been through both..... so i think i would rather be the one to cheat.... because i am selfish and would rather get the better end of the sting....=\ hey im just being truthful.....
i don't want to be cheated on ... if anyone I'm the one doing the cheating haha j.k i would never if you cheat why don't just end it . b4 u cheat
i'd chose to cheat & obvs if u was in love with someone u wouldnt cheat to start with but if it happens while ur with someone ur not happy with i'd say its better than bein cheated on lol
i used to think this option when i was single, but now i realise it's much more about getting ''the better end of the sting''... i dont think i could ever cheat on my bf- i couldnt bear the guilt of hurting someone i love, abusing their trust is the worst thing you could do because once scarred, the wound would never heal.. that's what i think anyway and if it had to be- id rather he'd cheat on me, i would definitely end the relationship because i don't think i can trust him anymore- even if i still loved him.. and being as insecure as i am, i would probably go insane wondering if he'd do it again- you can't be together with someone if you're forever asking questions about stuff.
I think there is a fine line between being realistic and being pessimistic, to be honest. It's like if I were to get up this morning and ask myself, "Hm.. Will I die in a car accident today on my way to work or not?? You know, where I live, in one year, there were 6,420,000 car accidents, about 2.9 million people were injured and 42,636 people were killed, which means about 115 people die every day, which amounts to one death every 12 minutes.." It would be abit weird to ask that, right? Though its the reality of life, I don't go out of my way to think about the possibility that I very well could get in an accident and die from it.. The most I do is at the end of my day, I pray and thank God that I went out and came back to my home safely. People cheat and get cheated on, that is true, that's reality, and as Miss Dawn says, it happens everyday, but to go out of my way to think about which one would I rather have done to me? Um that borders on pessimism, either choice doesn't have any positive effects whatsoever, and that's okay, lol I didn't mean it as an insult in any way, it's your thread and it can be about whatever you like, for the most part-lol I just gave an opinion.
