Do u choose cheat or being cheated?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by lara_mey, May 14, 2008.

  1. lara_mey

    lara_mey Well-Known Member

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    if u ask my mom that she would tell u dont ask that it’s a stupic question if i were i would discuss this and probably joke about that with u. If u ask yourself u will die in a car accident today it doesnt mean to be a pessimistic person i think it’s curiosity and know if it’s probable die like that because people must to die someday in someway. Anyway i respect ur point of view and dont worry giving opinions it’s not insult people and i can’t say it’s wrong or right about what u said im just giving my ipinion like u did!
     
  2. lara_mey

    lara_mey Well-Known Member

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    no offence but if u think that topic is stupic why did u post here? it means that u like to do stupic things?..
     
  3. bbes

    bbes Incredible

    pls don't double post, u can quote 2 things at once. but yea like i sed before being cheated on is better, that way u know urself that u haven't actually done anything to hurt the other person so u won't have the guilty conscience afterwards. besides i don't see why ppl cheat. if u no longer like someone and want to get together with someone else, then just break up with them.
     
  4. lara_mey

    lara_mey Well-Known Member

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    hey ! why can't i double post??
     
  5. hiake

    hiake Vardøgr of da E.Twin

    Because double posting is a resource-eating (unnecessary consumption all the bandwidth) fragging sin punishable by torture.
     
  6. azncrazycooler

    azncrazycooler Well-Known Member

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    Ive been cheated on before and it hurts a lot for so long. you just get so confused and you keep kicking yourself because it hapened but I could never cheat on someone. If i stop loving them I would tell them before loving another
     
  7. haha hiake your whack xD

    anywayz, i think i would choose to cheat rather to be cheated, atleast i can blame myself to be stupid :p and not feel sorry for myself of trusting someone :p
     
  8. lara_mey

    lara_mey Well-Known Member

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    ok i will keep in mind!!!
     
  9. bbes

    bbes Incredible

    haha so creul, i guess u do make a gd point though.
     
  10. millymai

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    i choose neither too!!!! just broke up if u gona cheat!!!!
     
  11. xdly

    xdly Well-Known Member

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    exactly... you never choose to be cheated on... and yeahh.. u can choose to cheat your bf/gf.... but that means u can also choose to end the relationship... then there's no reason to go to cheat him/her.

    sooooooo... no choices for this!
     
  12. xunx

    xunx Well-Known Member

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    i think everyone don't wan to be cheat on or been cheat when u have such a nice gf/bf dont yall think so, as for me i choose neither
     
  13. Kaitou_Kid

    Kaitou_Kid Well-Known Member

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    i think i would choose to be the cheated. A recent scandal just happened and omg the outside ppl are cheater h8ters. and the image of the cheater is tanked ten fold by the second.
     
  14. Chibi12

    Chibi12 Well-Known Member

    I ould like to choose neither, cos either way both will be hurt, by to be cheated on means its not my fault, n shows me what kind of guy he is.
     
  15. lara_mey

    lara_mey Well-Known Member

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    I'm glad that people post and tell their opinions or the reasons why u guys choose cheat or being cheated on but i think that it's wrong for those to post and say "i choose neither"
    It’s like a question in a test exam with two options as answer if u don’t mark any option u failed that question. It’s not wrong to tell what u think but it’s not appropriate to respond the question!
     
  16. vangirl86

    vangirl86 Well-Known Member

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    I hope "neither" exists. To cheat on someone you love is just as worse as getting cheat on. One needs to reflect on their current sitatution and emotion/feelings to determine whether they want to be the one to cheat or the one to be cheated on. 9years ago, I've seen this question and also answered it. I picked to be the person cheated on because I never ever want to do anything that will hurt the guy I love(ed). I rather be the one in pain. I was young and naive and obviously not aware of what they called "true" love. Today, I really don't know how to answer this question. I don't believe there is a right or wrong answer to this. We will always be influenced by people in our lives and environmental factors in making decisions.
     
  17. i guess it's good to experience both... u learn something from all ur experiences...

    but then again it also depends on the situation... if he found someone he really loves n rather b with then i should let him go... i guess i'd call that "moving on" rather than cheating... haha... but i wouldn't want my guy to sleep around or go to prostitutes... that's just nasty...
     
  18. bbes

    bbes Incredible

    haha. i wouldn't understand why ppl would go to prostitutes when they already have someone.
     
  19. neither do i...

    maybe they just wanna try something different... "sun seen gum" -shrug
     
  20. ms irene yu

    ms irene yu Member

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    i would never want to be cheated on b/c that would just hurt me too much so i'd rather do the cheating. sorry