i dont know...i read that lots of u said that stuff like miss u, wish i could be with u etc shouldnt be taken that seriously... but i actually only say that to a guy if i do really like him... i wouldnt say i love you that fast tho...n also like u mentioned about that girl...id only say it if i really mean it... reading this...seems like u guys havent spent much real time together or gone through anything together so perhaps she mite not feel "love" and i think its good that she doesnt use those words like they dont mean anything this word is being used too often by ppl who thinks its just a random word and dont understand the meaning (not saying u dont so plz dont take it as offense) i mean think about it....wont it mean so much more if shed say it to when she really means it and feels it in her heart? it gives the word so much more value....dont u reckon.... anyways...i do think u should ask her to clarify whats going on in her mind and give u an update on what she wants and where u guys stand....so yea go for it!
ul need to have a serious conversation with her to see what she sees the relationship as and where it'll go from there... good luck..
go for a serious conversation atmosphere kind of thing and tell her directly i think you will find it more suitable then playing 20 questions and i guess you see what happens from there cause no one ever wants to get their heart broken but you i think its better then the feeling of being lead on
Its very common happend for all of us on internet. She give you flower or heart and you think like she is interested in you or you fallen love with her ? Just think that maybe she is her style the way of talk ? Also its very impotent for you that maybe she is not she, She is boy (he) and try to fool you ? Some of your friend ?
sorry i havent been checking this thread too often... im kinda taking the passive approach to see waht she does first i guess >< anyways.. i know this girl in real life (met through friends)... not just some internet friend. im not naive enough to fall in love with some virtual internet person... i just meant that i talk to her through msn mostly Also, i dont think its just her "style" of talk because she didnt talk like that before....
OMG!!!! grow a back bone and step up to the plate! just be straight up and ask her what her problem is. why play the game of sitting back and waiting to see what she does. you're not in high school anymore. be an adult and ask or just drop it and move on. she probably was interested in you at first and now she isnt or maybe she just sees you two as a casual fling when you are in town. no strings attached. why bother with a long distance relationship when the two of you have no foundation to build on? it would be so hard to make things last. good luck but i think you should just move on
babs is somewhat right maybe you did miss an opportunity and i can you that i have missed many in my life too... = ( it comes when u least expect it!
Are you two even an 'item'? Because to me it sounds like you two are just good friends? Well maybe you have deeper feelings towards her than she has for you. I think you're overanalysing things a bit too much... Just straight out & ask her whats going on between you two. Are you 2 just friends or more? I don't think she's using you from what you've told us, because she's not asking you for sex, or using you as her sugardaddy. Maybe she's just a bit too friendly, likes her cuddles & closeness with you but doesn't want anything more? ASK HERRRRRRRR. It'd be a shame to lose a friendship over a few misunderstandings love.
maybe the girl was just horny when you two saw each other! she got her kicks and now she just misses you as a friend.
what!!!!!!! she got her kicks and now she's moved on. i didnt say there was a problem with it. i was merely giving him another angle as to what may have happened here!!!!!!
ok.. so i started talking to her again and its as if nothings happened... im wondering how i should proceed...
it sounds like she's playing you, some girls like the attention and wants all the guys to like her even if she doesn't really like the guy.. I would confront her, be direct and let her know what's on your mind.. whatever her answer is, you'll know what to do next. Chances are, she won't become your gf..
i dont know how to ask her... everytime i play the situation over in my head but when i see her i just enjoy my time with her.. im too scared to ask >< well.. she and I had a great time with a few friends =) but ... as she was about to leave she seemed to get more distant and quiet.. i dont know what it means.. is she just tired? she does seem to work a lot...
set a day and time of place to hang out. if she declines, move on. playfully touch her. if she moves away, move on. OR call her up and say we need to talk. then let out your feeling that you like her a lot. tell her you want to be her forever and would die for her and that you would walk a thousand miles just to see her, etc. in conclusion, sorry bro. life is too short in chasing after girls who don't like you back. move on.
