Michelle's asking for love advice? Oh my ..

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by xmichelly, May 28, 2008.

  1. xmichelly

    xmichelly Well-Known Member

    Yo guys. I don't think I've ever posted in the love and relationships section, so this is kind of weird, but I want advice :) I've asked a few people already but meh ... the more the better, right?

    So there's this guy at school .. that I have a small crush on. So I met him last semester when we were in AP physics together .. and everyone in the class said he had a thing for me ... but I never noticed. My friend told me recently that last semester, he always talked to her about me. When we first met, he messaged her on Facebook, and said something like "Oh your friend Michelle is always smiling in class" and then after a while he was always like "oh today in class Michelle did this and blahblahblah" ... So NOW, after we're not in the same class anymore because I dropped physics :( and we don't talk that much anymore, I started liking him a little .. just because whenever we see each other he always says hi, and he's always putting his arm around me. It probably doesn't mean anything .. but yeah ... can't help it if I have a crush on him. So he's going to graduate soon, and I probably won't see him anymore. So I was asking people if I should ask him for his phone number so maybe I could call/text him sometimes. I got the idea because today some guy asked me for my number out of nowhere, and it seemed like a good idea. BUT, I thought it was weird how the guy just suddenly asked me, so I'm kind of scared to ask this guy. Gosh, I know this is kind of stupid .. because it's not like I'm asking him out, just for his number. But the thing is, I've never made the first move (if this is even considered a move) so I don't know how it's supposed to go.

    So I'm asking:

    Should I ask this guy for his number? How should I do it? Would it be weird???

    (This is embarassing LOL but it's ok .. I probably won't ever see any of you ever






    except maybe Katie :shifty:)
     
  2. -shock chelly!! GO TO YOUR ROOM young lady!! better yet GO TO CHURCH and think about what you just said!! -nono
     
  3. KT

    KT H E L L O K T ♥

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    oh yes you will baby :shifty:

    do you two talk a lot? well, it wouldn't hurt to get his number haha. you know, as "friends" :naughty:
     
  4. sounds like KT wants you to molest him..
     
  5. just go for it, fuck the fact that boys actully have to go behind the girl blablabla

    its so stupid that so much girls think like it, but.. if you have a crush on him, why dont you just ask him, it wont look weird really...
     
  6. KT

    KT H E L L O K T ♥

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    oh yeah? sounds like Ecko wants to keep him all to himself..
     
  7. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    haha, tell teh guy u feel hyphy around him ^^:naughty:lol then u want his number hehe
     
  8. fearless_fx

    fearless_fx Eugooglizer

    you dropped physics? aiyah, you better study harder and do better in school young lady. aiyah aiyah



    less embarassing thing to do is to ask for his MSN contact or w.e instant messager he uses. thats significantly more casual and easier to do.

    from that point you can set up a date if you want, but in the digital age, id go for email first.



    there is a downside to this though, when you add someone you like to an instant messager, its damned hard to talk to them.

    conversations usually go like this

    "hey"

    "hey"

    "sup"

    "not much"

    "so you added me, i see"

    "yep!"

    "cool"

    "soooooooooo....."

    "yeah.... soooooooo.... sup?"
     
  9. skid

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    lol it won't be wierd...its pretty normal for people to ask for other peoples number

    if he says hi to you when he sees you...just say hi back...then try and stop him for small talk
    and then be like "oh by the way whats your number?" and pull out ur phone

    always works haha
     
  10. well.. maybe the younger ones doesnt look weird.. but asking for someone MSN sounds geeky if you want to know someone :p and if you like him.. i think you atleast gotta give him the impression that you dont just only want to be friends. :p
     
  11. lala_bel_tempo

    lala_bel_tempo Well-Known Member

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    its normal, i ask people for their phone numbers on a regular base, of course more females then males.
     
  12. jdm_s2k

    jdm_s2k Well-Known Member

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    everyone gives out a phone number if someone asks...

    its only nice...and polite to do so...

    esp if u know the person

    here is the problem !!!!!! k? take note!

    they just wont answer your call when you do! lol...

    they just say im busy etc...sorry ttyl?
     
  13. KT

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    -rotfl so true hahahahaha
     
  14. lovinglyxx

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    u only thought the guy who asked for ur number was weird because he was kinda random right? did u know him?
    so if u ask ur crush for his number i dont think he'll think ure weird!! cos u 2 used to be in the same class and he does talk to u anyway, i think go for it- if uve got his number u can txt him or call him out whenever u feel like it- u can do this even as friends! if it doesnt work out as a love type relationship (as he's graduating, but i hope it does if that's what u want!) u can always remain as friends! :)))))) nothing to lose
     
  15. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    lol , ok mishy, heres the plan, u go to the guy , ask him for his number then Run for ur Life. lol dont u learn these lovey dovey things in Dramas Geez =P
     
  16. KT

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    now.. I don't know about chelly.. but you seems didn't learn correctly :rolleyes2:
     
  17. skid

    skid Well-Known Member

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    lol yep just get his number and msg him randomly... sms flirting ftw
     
  18. metzo

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    ask for his email, talk to him on msn or wateva for a bit then ask for number in middle of convo =P

    ie "oh btw wats ur mobile???"
     
  19. KT

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    lol, i say talk to him on AIM first.. then be like "omg you're graduating! i'm going to miss you! give me your number so we can hang out during the summer or something" ;)
     
  20. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    lol , u can say this to him
    Michelle: hey, Mr X, i know u talk bout me to all ur friends ,
    Mr X: hey , how u know
    Michelle: i dont care -curls hair- and flirt
    Mr X : so u know Ngor Ming Kao Lei ?
    Michelle: Cut the crap and just gimme ur number ,
    it works ^^ ,