have sex before marriage is absolutely fine. people these day have sex everyday and many people are doing one night stand too..
honestly its ur own choice to have sex or not . i mean .. if u think its normal then it is .. its wut ur body wants u to do ? look deep inside urself do u want to or not?
- Scientific studies indicate that relationships that involve pre-marital sex fail. A relationship that starts with sex usually last only 2-3 years. A marriage usually runs into trouble in 3-5 years. If a couple have sex prior to marriage, it may start to fade just when the marriage troubles start, the strong sexual attraction may not be there when the couple needs it most. - Sex before marriage changes your future in so many ways!! There are negative risks both spiritually and physically. - Chris, will their love for each other last a lifetime? I suggest that their sexual relations are self serving. You/they are cheating themselves of the intimacy that God intended. - If you have sex before marriage you will never know whether the relationship is based on a true "kinship" with that person or just sex. - I think sex before marriage is wrong because the Bible tells us that it is. Sex comes with a lot of complications that even an adult would find hard to handle, not to mention sexually transmitted diseases. - Dear Chris, sex before marriage? Yes, I did and I'm terrible sorry that I did. Is it God's wish for us? No, it's not. God should be the priority in our life and all else will follow according to His plan, that way you can feel better about yourself and avoid all kinds of consequences for your deviation from God's desires. - Love waits. Your relationship should be able to grow and thrive without sex. I encourage you to develop a relationship that does not depend on sex for oneness. - Though you cannot imagine it now, Chris, sometime in your future you will really regret having sex before you're married, if you should go ahead and do it. You are going to do what you want to do but just know, without a doubt, it is true that sex before marriage will hurt you inside. - If you have sex before marriage you lose your virginity and when you get married you are not giving your whole self to your spouse. - Sex outside of marriage is like playing Russian Roulette. You never know when the gun will fire or the person has an STD. - I can tell you from experience that sex before marriage will ultimately damage your sexual relationship with the one you do eventually marry. It is much wiser to wait and experience that person and have that person experience you for the first time without expectation of things that were before. - If you don't marry that person who you've had sex with, then the person who you do marry won't get the entire you. - Sex is like a beautiful gift. It's only one special gift that should not be wasted on just a love fling. - Chris, sex is a precious gift from God. This gift can only be given away for the first time once. Wouldn't this be a great gift for that one person who will be with you for the rest of your life? - The Bible says that we are not supposed to commit adultery and having sex before marriage is considered adultery, so it is called sinning. - If you love them you'll be willing to wait until marriage to have sex. It will make it all the more special. - If you truly love someone you will respect them enough to wait until marriage to have sex. - It's not worth the risk of pregnancy or STD. It's not fair to your future spouse.
i dont think theres anything wrong with sex before marriage...but i think if ur gonna sleep with a girl, even after the whole using condoms ish, u should only sleep with her if u can take responsibility of an 'accident', like able to take care of the child and the girl
for me i do not believe in sex before marriage. my mom has never told me specifilcally DONT DO IT! but i don't know maybe my natural traditional chinese ways have told me otherwise haha. I think if I were to ever have sex before marriage, i'd have to be able to financially support myself haha (in case something pops out of my stomach haha) of course I'd only do it if me and my boyfriend have had a semi-long relationship
You can read about, watch movies, participate in discussions, and vicariously imagine yourself doing something say, like swimming. But until you actually do it, you're going to be very bad at it. It may seem moronic, but imagine in this year's Olympics, if Beijing was filled with people who never swam, ran, or dove before, what that would look like? -noclue Sex, like any other physical activity, is a learned skill. A virgin, by that standard, is the absolute worse participant you can ever get. It may be of some emotional value to men of sexual immaturity (like Al Queda and their promise of 70 virgins) but for my money, give me someone who has the experience to satisfy me and themselves before I sign on the dotted line for what is to be a lifetime commitment. And this statement: ...is really bizarre. If you really read what it says, you'll realize that there was no love in the marriage in the first place. So, they stay in the marriage for the sex? Please. Find a hooker. Its not only cheaper but a lot less emotionally and financially traumatizing. uke: The whole idea of religion and sex is bullshit. If we were to do everything demonstrated in the Bible regarding sex, we would be sleeping with the strangest people (eg. Genesis regarding Lot and his daughters). Further, there are plenty of women out there with virulent STDs that are technically considered "virgins" by the Christian community; women who have gonococcal pharyngitis (gonorrhea of the throat), or genital herpes on their lips or hands. Also, syphilis and AIDS too, afflict technical virgins; marrying a virgin is certainly not the iron clad guarantee against STDs that Christian propaganda paints it to be. -what? Like anything else you buy, you're going to sold a lot of bullshit before you get to the kernel of substance; sex is no different. And of course, you have to practice safe sex. And when you get to the point where you and your sexual partner love each other enough to remain faithful to one another only (and are sure of the other's status), then you can consider removing the condom. There are probably going to be a lot of people who are aghast and taken aback by my comments. But having been a Christian all my life and having listened to all the sexual inconsistencies and lies (all in the name of God) I've come to the point of openly challenging these "morals" and "ethics" whenever I encounter them. -innocent2 Ralph
I think people can do whatever they want... u will gain more experiences if u do it before marriage so I think is a good thing in a good way or not... oh well...
Even though I do not support sex before marriage, but I believe if anyone that did that must be responsible with anything that arise afterwards. Many young people do it due to a spur of moment and they got panic with the consequences that it will brings, the obvious one having something that they least expect.
Absolutely agree. Sex (or not) before marriage, is not the really important issue here, but rather sex education is. Young people often don't know enough about it and wind up getting more than they bargained for. Sex is something that everyone wants, but one has to be knowledgeable enough about it in order to obtain in on the terms that one is willing to live with. -detect There's a price to be paid for everything and sex is no different. I always tell everyone that sex should always be about personal choice. However, that choice should be informed. There are a lot of agenda driven rationales out there regarding sex, some of them attempting to modify behavior along what someone else feels to be proper. My take is, read and find out about all of them, then decide what one's personal opinion is. And if a decision is made to have sex, one needs to always practice safe sex, or else understand that one may risk health and life for a few moments of carnal pleasure. -inlove -dead Ralph
I was rather surprised with the 'scientific studies' that suggested that marriage that involve pre-marital sex have very high chances of failure. Personally I understand that any relationship has chances of failure, whether sex is involve or not. Even for marriage that did not involve pre-marital sex, somehow after marriage there is also sex involve and after few years, when the attraction is gone, things might happen as well.
having sex b4 marriage was a taboo in the past, but now...i don't think it is...but it's also depend on their partners as well i've already left NL for 3 years, yet i heard most of my friends...today your my bf/gf & the week after your my best friend bf/gf (kinda weird!) yet they also except & keep friends as well, what it's hard to except...
living in uk sex before marriage is pretty much like eating i personally wouldn't have sex before marriage my sister thinks i am going to die an old maid but i think giving your virginity to your husband on wedding night is the best gift no? good thngs come to those who wait
really depends on the person, there will always be temptations to have sex before marriage, if you think that your ready to have sex by all means go ahead, if you want to save it for marriage then it's fine with me. can't really say marriage and giving your virginity away is related. there are people that have divorced and had second marriages. does that make that person bad cause they had sex with another partner before meeting the second time... do what with your body
