don't be a home wrecker, that's just asshole like... anyways, i only noticed that ur into DB, DB FOHSOH, just got back from Long Beach race
i rly don't see why some of you argue not to go for the girl... she's not married, she's not even engaged... if people leaving their significant others is a sign of betrayal and should be a warning flare to new partners, then everyone would only have had 1 relationship evar in their life times and we all know that's not true... if people are so insecure as to losing their partners, maybe they rly are not good enuff for them... at the very least they're not compatible either since they're obviously not comfortable with trusting their significant other... grow a pair gents... this girl is clearly in play... so play the game...
^ Good point I guess. Haha. Well I'm just going to go for it until she drops the friend or bf line. LoL. Guess we'll just have to see now.
i agree with aoes..... for some odd reason i have been drilled to believe that as long as a girl isn't bound by marriage she is still fair game..
-rockon cuz that's the way it is... interpret it like this... if you truly loved someone, wouldn't u fight tooth and nail for that person? marriage however truly means game over... the only chance there ever will be when someone's married is if there's something eff'd up with the marriage, otherwise, the war is lost gents...
just think about how you get your chick stolen by other dudes. then you will know whehter or not you want to go for it.
But splitting up because the relationship isn't working is different to splitting up because the other person cheated. I wouldn't go with a girl whos cheated on her bf in the past because it shows the kind of person she is. And being married doesn't mean anything nowadays, they can still leave their husbands for another man...does that mean fair game too?? Anyways theres like sooo many people out there, why would you want to ruin someones relationship, unless it was already failing...
that's not how u should EVER think of it... if u think like that, u'll be a spiteful little bitch for years to come... there's a difference between cheating and knowing she's cheating... if you knew ahead of time that she has a BF and ur trying to pry her away... that's a different game then being played by the girl... ur in control... not her... and if u can't keep a hold of her at the end of the day, she's not the one for you... relationships are full of ups and downs... you're gonna get ur heart broken, expect it, accept it... it's life... being a turtle sitting at home hoping u had done something to get that girl 5yrs ago, u'll feel like a worse piece of shit... Marriage, like i said is game over unless there's something wrong with it... like abuse, drunkard, etc... I'd never touch a married person unless i know for sure that there's something wrong with the marriage... You're not ruining someone's relationship for fun... you're ruining it so you can have a relationship... unless u personally think that you're worse than the guy she's dating... then hey sorry bro... i can't help a loser be a loser... I'm not advocating having a one night stand with some girl who has a bf... I'm just saying if u truly like the girl and want to know if u guys can eventually develop into a true couple, by all means go for it...
i absolutely agree with skid.... skid is a good boy i never date guys with GF's...its just wrong.... not just for my own concience but it says a lot about the guy too... i honestly wouldnt advise u to hook up with her...i mean if ur just playing...who cares...just go ahead...but u sound really into her... the danger here is.... she might do the same thing to u... n ur fully aware of the fact that shes already got someone... so when she does the same thing to u.... all i can say is...karma is a bitch =( && people who lie n cheat SUCK!!!! BOOOO
err, how well do you actually know this girl? i mean .. you met her the past weekend, so you've known her for a few days? sure you hit it off like right there, but that doesn't constitute any kind of serious relationship. so do you REALLY like her? and besides, people are interested all the time, but it might not be in the sense that they want to start a relationship with you well if you REALLY like her, then maybe you should do something, but if you just want a fling or something, then don't even, because that'll just ruin their relationship for a fling
I don't want a fling or else I wouldn't be here. =P. I can't say I REALLY like her, cause I haven't known her for that long, but yes, I do like her because of her colourful personality. Really, what's making me NOT back off at the momment, is knowing that the information about her bf is second hand and not from HER. So in some ways, I don't want to back off, BUT at the same time, I'm not going to be so frank (right word to use?) about it as well...if that made sense at all.
honestly, what's the difference in someone breaking up with you for the sake of breaking up with you and breaking up with you for some other person? in both instances there's only one thing you need to know... you were inadequate or incompatible... regardless, that person moved on to someone who they felt was better, someone they felt could satisfy their needs... needs that don't necessarily have to be material, it could very well be true love... the circumstance of why she leaves the other person dictates the kind of person that girl really is... it's not like he's luring her with money and cars... he's legitimately trying to win her heart... atleast i think that's what he's going for... **and after op's last post, this one's a coinflip... at this point if you're not sure u really like her, either find a different target or go right at it, don't half ass it...
there is a huge difference of course... it means shes already looking for someone else while shes with the other guy... maybe thats ok for u... but its against my principals... i mean.. if ur in a bad relationship... just work on ur problems... if u dont think its worth it... u just break up... sounds logical no? u dont just go out fishing while u still have a partner... thats wrong imo... if a guy would leave me because he no longer likes me... ok...theres nothing he can do about it... if a guy was already looking around for other chicks to hook up with....thats not okay with me at all... in fact i think thats kinda pathetic... just looking for something better while ur still with someone id say that guy is a total jack ass i wouldnt want something like that to happen to me...so i wouldnt do it either.
yes, under those circumstances I can see how that's eff'd up... but on the other hand, you can't build relationships w/o time... say she wasn't looking for a new relationship and befriends our OP w/o attraction involved... but suddenly one day she realizes that she does like our OP... you can't help that... that's a clean and honest relationship developing... the circumstance of how someone loses interest in their significant other doesn't mean anything given the point is, the interest is lost... there's so much emotion, discussion and debate on the subject that we forget that it really doesn't matter cuz you can't force two people to get back together if one of them doesn't have interest in the other anymore... all the circumstance will tell you is how the NEXT relationship will develop as that's ultimately why the relationship was formed... that's why it's pointless to even dwell on the loss of a partner who was never suitable for you to begin with...
lol, so ur trying to steal someone's gf. lol u better watch out for that guy . nah, but , if she was like flirting with you, and u didnt know, its not your fault, its just that she was playin with you
