Long distance relationship

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by Natsu, Jul 31, 2008.

  1. Japen

    Japen Active Member

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    i'm in this relationship and it hold 1 year ^^ and longer ;) but sometimes its really difficult -.-
     
  2. Natsu

    Natsu Well-Known Member

    keep it up :D
     
  3. vshiva

    vshiva Member

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    not really like long distance relationship, break up pretty easy
     
  4. sars4tw

    sars4tw Well-Known Member

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    Long distance relationships never work! They can happen, but the success rate is LOW LOW LOW!
     
  5. azncrazycooler

    azncrazycooler Well-Known Member

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    I'm about to have one .... sucks to read all this. Girl is going away for one year.
     
  6. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    ^ if shes only leavin for a year...for say like internship its do-able right hehe... be strong la... n u can always go n visit her n she can come visit u too...
    i know people who've done it before... if u guys have a good relationship it should be fine...
     
  7. wudimax

    wudimax Member

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    but must consistenly use phone to keep in contact so that relationship still can maintain
     
  8. moremoret

    moremoret Active Member

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    i was against distance relationship, but end up in one hehe. DIdnt like it, too much problems. phone bill to expensive. Talkin on msn and webcam not the same as person to person
     
  9. peichuen17

    peichuen17 Member

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    Me too. Well, you need a lot of hard work to make it works. And it is really mentally and emotionally tiring no matter how much you love that person. I would personally suggest that both person need to make effort to be physically together asap, or else it would break anytime soon.
     
  10. Natsu

    Natsu Well-Known Member

    what happened?? still going or .......? :(
     
  11. abubin

    abubin Active Member

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    I have seen a lot of long distance relationships broken. Even for a relationship with strong foundation. I am not saying it won't work but it depends on a lot more than faith and love for each other.

    There are also temptations from outside factor such as sexual desires and relationship opputunty. For example, as a man in LDR (long distance relationship) all is fine and he go to work socialize a bit and go back home. But what if he met someone whom he clicks well? Relationship happens and the next you know the LDR is forgotten. You are lucky it didn't happen to you or your BF yet....:whistling:
     
  12. hot wings

    hot wings Well-Known Member

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    I would never fall down that road again. its just too hard to handle for me
     
  13. whiteskwirl

    whiteskwirl Member

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    Been there, done that. It doesn't work. You can only get so close to a person without seeing/being with them. Once you reach that point, there's nowhere left to go.
     
  14. jazlynnyee

    jazlynnyee Fantabulous!!!

    really depends alot on love, determination, communication and trust...if u can do that..i don't see why not :D
     
  15. lala_bel_tempo

    lala_bel_tempo Well-Known Member

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    No

    From experience, distance will fade the feelings...
     
  16. definitely not the same feel man.... i would like to hold my girl not talk to a screen......... all the time i wanted to see her......
     
  17. Cirrus

    Cirrus Member

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    I personally think long distant relationship never last in the long run.
     
  18. themvp

    themvp Well-Known Member

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    If you really love her/him, it will work out!! But it's tough though.
     
  19. download-888

    download-888 Well-Known Member

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    i don't think i'll persue it cause it ussualy does not work out.
     
  20. lancerWRX2003

    lancerWRX2003 Banned

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    It depends on ur age. I'm currently have a long distance relationship. I live in a defferent state than my gf cuz of college.