so i am with this girl for 2 years and 5 months we spend a lot of time together but during these 2 years and 5 months.. we always had trust issues due to her always hiding stuff from me and lying to me about it. i keep telling her about what i am feeling, wanting her to stop lying and be honest with me. she said she would stop lying and she promises me. but in the end she always seem to lie to me then she says its not on purpose and make up excuses for them, making it like its not her fault. i had try to let go of this girl but i cant cuz i love this girl and she was my first love. everytime i try to break up with her she always wants me back and i always give her chance i really dont know what i should do anymore i always turn down going out with frends to places she will get mad at me for like the club etc... i stopped going out all these time for her and now all my frends are distant i just stay home everyday... all these for her what do you guys think i should do?
sounds like you're whipped bro. there is no solution to your level of whippedness, if you try to change it she will leave you. so either you run with it, or you get out and start anew with another lady.
I use to be something like that. but u seem worst. i only give up some boys event for her. the reason i think she keeps doing it to you is because she knows u will want her back. She wont really change until she really lose you. so i say lose her for a while and she want happens but there is a chance you will really lose her. Everyone has a first love but how many do end up with their 1st love? i can tell you close to 0%.
Just dump her and move on, unless you are in your 30s then you screwed. Just picture she's having sex with another guy all the time and lied about it, that will get you pissed off, or maybe it's true. Damnnnn!
wot kind of stuff does she like abt?? is it something like lying abt wot she had for lunch or who she goes out with??
^ yeah i totally agree i mean you love her and all but it seems like shes making your life a living hell dump her and find a new person cause everytime you get back with her you know that she is gonna lie to you about w/e she lies about to you lol so yeah dump her and find a new person
I think you should just go cheat on her. Lol. You dont want the relationship anyways and you dont know how to break it off, so go hook up with another girl and see how that goes. If it goes well then you have a reason to break up if not then dont tell your gf lol. So now your even and there is nothing to worry about
the answer is simple. She does not love u and a controlling type. U both r not meant to be together. So move on and find one who loves u. The reason I'm saying this is, when u love some one (like u love her) u will never want to lie to the person. What kind of relationship would it be if there is no trust? It will never go anywhere it would only makes life more misserable. Also, in a relationship, one must have their own friends and time for them self. U cannot let her stop u from having fun with your friends. Unless u have been clubbing/with your friends so often to the extend ignoring her, then its not right. Communication is the most important aspect in all relationship. If she can't communicate, always giving excuses, don't u think u deserve a better girl to love?
thx guys i been thinking if she really love me or is she just acting like she does, last night she just came over to comfort me and things have gotten better she said lot of stuff that sounds pomising i think i am gunna believe her one last time and if she does lie to me again i am gunna break up with her and move on. its gunna be hard =/
Well if she's lying to you all the time, half your relationship is already a lie. Ask yourself if you can really deal with it. I can't deal with a person who keeps lying because then I don't know when to believe that person. One day she is going to tell you the truth about something really important and you won't believe her because she lied too much. Or she's telling you a really awful lie and you're such a dummy to believe her. Habits that you carry really long in a relationship is hard to berak. I hope she can do it but if she really lies to you again, I think you should leave her and leave it all behind. If you get soft hearted and take her back, she'll think that everyting is ok even if she lies because you'll surely take her back. So for her own good, break up if she really lies to you again. And tell her to deal with the fact that you have friends and need to socialize. You are her boyfriend. A human. You need to get out and do boy stuff sometimes. She herself should get out sometimes. Discuss it with her. Ask her to stop being controlling and trust in you. A relationship with no trust is not a relationship at all.
yer, if shes already lying to you , then everything else could be a lie , lol, so good luck on trying to make her good again
well you know thats a lie.. haha how many promises was broken? or should i say how many lies were said?? question her!!!! if you think shes telling the truth thats a lie. if she smiles that a lie. if she cries you know damn well when she saw you she couldn't hold back to laugh at your stupidity, so she had to laugh even harder to cover it up with tears. You are on the leash! when will you break off and find your true path?? not with this liar you arent.
yeah bro you are definitely whipped....... real good...... either you man and and take whatever comes out of it and find another woman or just continue being pushed around..
