Telling parents about your bf/gf

yea.. my bf alwys come to my house.. hv meal together.. then mar know lor.. parents not reli dumb!

 

just tell them that i have a new gf and ask them if they would like to meet my new gf

 

double post !! sorry

 

They will find out eventually... but dont force your partner to tell their parent... it will be a nightmare...

 

tell them you have boyfriend/girlfriend and ask if they want to meet them. no biggie

 

Mine found out... hahahhaaa.. it wasn't too bad, i expected my mom to have a right go at me becos ever since i was little she said "NO DATING UNTIL AFTER UNIVERSITY".. is that even possible!??!!!.. so yeah anyway, they found out and my mom was just like "i hope its nothing serious" - as if i was just gona go out with my bf for the "fun" of it? i was like "well i'm not gona play him around" type thing.. but anyway, a year and a half on we're still together and he's met my parents twice lol.. some ppl are lucky that their parents don't mind the dating business (attitude more like westerners - more open), but i don't think my parents coulda stopped me anyway bcos "lui dai lui sai gaai"!!! hahahaa :bb

 

yeah id let my parents find out themselves then id invite both families out for yumcha if both have found out for about a month or so xD

 

i dont say anything. i just bring them home.

 

I let them find out themselves haha i just slowly go out more and more and staying over and they get the jist of things, then when its came to light my dad goes well at least we know that your not gay then! lol

 

i tell my parents im gay. and when they ask me where i'm going i only report the guy names.

 

just bring a girl back home and they will know it ur gf don't need to tell them anything !!

 

so bring a girl back first.

 

thats y the guys stays overnite =P
then no need to answer any questions lol

 

Well, telling parents about your bf/gf is a good thing; of course, only if you're serious about the relationship and that it also has "marriage" potential. It's always better to hear the news from your own children than through someone else; where parents' curiosity may lead to disaster such as eave dropping on your calls and/or spy on you. Give the heads up will be good too if you do decided to bring him/her home for dinner. You certainly do not wanna catch your parents at a "bad" or "embarrassing" moments; not to mention the unneeded hospital visit if your parent/s have heart problem. lol....

 

nope telling my parents = death ^_^, i rahter just hide them until the time is right lol

 

Er... Depends on how the parents are. If the parents are the understanding sort then go ahead and tell your parents. If your parents are the traditional sort that goes "you aren't suppose to date until you're 25 or finished studying, then no point telling them. They won't understand. You can persist and it might work out eventually but be prepared for a lot of pain, tears and pressure in between.