When would you say the 3 letter words "I Love You" in a relationship?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by qkchrissy, Jul 3, 2008.

  1. AVANT

    AVANT Well-Known Member

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    I generally don't. I find ways of expressing it through my actions instead. However, because I don't say it, they still have doubts in their mind, which isn't a bad thing at all.

    When I finally do say those words, they have a much deeper impact because she doesn't have any doubt that I mean it.
     
  2. pokeyuoh89

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    My friends and I say, "I love you" to each other once in a while. We say this because we truly love our group of friends. I don't want to sound like a cry baby or anything, but one time my friend actually made me cry when he told me that he loves me. I have to admit that I didn't expect to hear those words from him, but I am truly happy to have him and all my other friends beside me.
    Now, when you want to use those words on you other half, you really should wait until the time is right. You most probably will know when the time is right to say those words...
    I personally haven't met the person that I can go into a relationship with, much less say those words to, but hopefully that day will come soon! and hopefully i will pick the right time to say it too. :)
     
  3. emawlee28

    emawlee28 Well-Known Member

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    humm . i only say it when i truly mean it , i try not to because it gets old when u say it too much and learned that frum the past ....
     
  4. anitram

    anitram Active Member

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    there's a time and place for you to say it, you can't over use it or else the opposite will just hear it like a broken record and these words will just be less and less meaningful
     
  5. misz_m

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    the first time my boyfriend said i love you...it was right after his prom...

    see...he went with another girl because i was gunna go...but i ended up going after someone else persuaded me to. the other girl liked him and we both knew that. but i was okay with it

    during his prom, some things happened and he felt really bad because it seemed like he was juggling two ppl's feelings at the same time

    and so after the prom
    i had a few drinks and i started saying things like...'im sorry you feel so bad...maybe if i hadnt existed, you would've fallen in love with her and you wouldnt be in this situation'

    and at the moment he said
    'but baby, i dont love her...i love you'

    and that was the first time he said it...

    for those three words to be said, it has to be at the right moment, the right time...

    not just carelessly thrown around
     
  6. Jamien

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    Well, I say it to my boyfriend whenever I mean it. It's not a word you can simply say all the time without meaning it cuz then the 3 words just loses its meaning.

    It's really important too tell the person you love that you love him. Cuz who knows, you may not have told him or her that day and that person met an accident and passed away. You may never say it to the person again.

    Whenever you truly feel it, just say it.
     
  7. jiavis

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    when it is required?
     
  8. Cirrus

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    When you feel the moment is right.
     
  9. When i know in my heart she is the person i feel that deep sensual connection with, it would have to be with someone who definitely makes me feel incredible.... its so hard to describe the feeling i get when i know it is the right time to say it.... it just comes....
     
  10. Flames

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    So true...when I said that to my computer, it gave me a BSOD!!!-madsign1-madsign1-madsign1
     
  11. renegade

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    When you feel that the person is THE ONE...
     
  12. Flames

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    But how do you know if she's the one???
     
  13. themvp

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    have sex with her! Kidding, trust me you know when it's time.
     
  14. anti

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    you onyl say I Love you when u really really mean it from the bottom of your heart don't just say it coz u u feel like u goto say it then it have no meanin to it

    then do u know when it really love? when she bump into things u go staright to her n ask if she hurt...
    when she crys it hurt u thousands time too see her tear flow down her cheeks...
    when ur with her and ur heart beats and go weak on ur knee.....
    when u hear her voice u will think is the best voice ever and u won't want her to stop talkin..
    when u hug her and dont' want to let go u just want her in ur arms forever in and wish that the time will freazzz so u both will be togher forever yea something like that but i stop right there coz am tired LOL


    if u love someone why Would you be afraid to say it unless your not really in love with that person and bein in a relationship u shoulnd't worrie what their their reaction would be all that matter if that u say i love you and really mean it from ur heart

    bad break up with a previous ex affect your thoughts ? of coz it will in some point they will be a barrier to stop some feelin going into you it be hard to get pass by


    i stop for now too to tired to type anymore XD
     
  15. WeakNiZ

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  16. Flames

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    ^....ummmm...what do we count that post??? LOL
     
  17. reno

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    if we count urs... of cos we count the rest :p
    lol
     
  18. Flames

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    ^ no...do we count that as a useful reply or spam...
     
  19. an0nymous

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    say it when u did something really wrong. to get yourself out of trouble.
     
  20. Flames

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    ^ Doesn't work for my computer when it has BSOD xD