Long distance relationship

is does work out u just goto have strong feelin for each other and paitence and not to give up easy u may feel lonely, sad, cold at nights without ur other half but just by hearin his/her voice that keep u warm and feel close togeher if u love that person so much your will to do anything and wait untill he or you move to where u are or he can move to where you are it all about give and take.. their are hard time ahead but nothin come easy in love u may worrie about if he/she is chatin up other girl or flirting around but u goto have faith n trust if there none then u might as well end it staright alway

 

In theory long-distance relationships should work better then close distance relationships, because the long one you only get to see them for a certain amount of time, so you will end up missing them, But if you have a low patience then the relationship can break.

Short one you see them everyday and night which could cause problems like arguments and also you could get bored of them seeing them everyday so it wouldn't last that long.

 

this is one of the reason why i broke up with an ex as we were seeing each other a lot and i had to drift away for a few years and I couldnt see it working with the whole long distant relationship. and it wouldnt be fair on her to have her wait for me to come back.

and now, theres a girl i really like and i think she harbours feelings for me but she lives quite far away at the moment. *sigh*

 

Yup as expected from my post above.

Still you are a brave guy to let her go

 

it's easy to fall for someone while ur taking a vacation at another country... u feel like ur not bound by any responsibilities, u feel relaxed n ur looking for some fun n adventure... but i call them holiday flings... once u get home n go back to ur normal routine u mite not find that person so exciting... i saw a fd got hurt pretty badly with a holiday fling...

anyway for me it depends on how long the distance is... if he's close enough to c me once a week then i'd go for it... "a close distance makes the hearts grow fonder" ... if he's in another country then i don't think i'll work out unless one of us moves to the other person's country...

 

arguments is apart of the relationship that what make u both stronger sometimes u goto have these arguments to understand each other more if there no arguments is a relationship then i goto say their must be something wrong there no such thing as peacful love u just goto appect the bad and good point about one another and try to change yourself to be a better bf/gf and not to change ur other half....bein in a short relationship u don't have to see each other everyday that is surely get bored and have problems coz u goto have some free time to spend with friends as well but of coz most of ur time will be with your gf/bf just see each other like 4 time within a week or if u really miss them 5 time wont' hurt

 

agreed. sometimes arguments makes you understand each other more not that i want to argue with someone, and it helps the other to know whats on your mind if something is problematic. as for short distant relationship, well i got bored quick seeing her all the time and everyday and started to drift away and spent more time with friends instead.

 

nope.... whenever u're too far away from him/her, there'll be lack of communication...
don't speak bout msn or 3G, those thing won't help much in ur relationship...

 

nop i wouldnt pursue it... its too painful to keep it going... sometimes its just not enough to see them like once in a while or contact via phone msn etc....
i would rather just be friends with them unless maybe you are only apart for like a year but will be together after that

 

I would. I mean, if you really like that person and you have the patience to do it, It can work out. it's just really tough that's all. ^o^;;; lol

 

^ poor you, better luck next time.

 

I once had a long-distance relationship.
It worked out for a year or 2, untill i found something out.
Persons who move away, tend to get new relationships easily.
Same with me, i talked to my bf like each day. When i once called him, I heard a girl on the line. And she kept screaming his name. It broke my heart.

 

dat happen to me when i call my gf there was a guy scream out her name but i didn't think of anything about it my heart didn't ache all i think was she was just havin fun with her friends properly getting drunk >.< u can't have negative thoughts about everything that u can't see you only hearin things and hearin is not the truth but seen with your own eyes is

 

Maybe it was his mother? or sister? or step-sister, possibilities are endless

 

Endless, but sweet talking in the background when i call?
Also, his parents live here in the netherlands. As he is studying in taiwan now.

 

sure y na ? unless u guys are like rlly yung .. and knt travel and have to wait a long time to c each other .. but if u guys rlly wnaa pursuee it then . u shud wait .. but beware long D relationships can easily be broken .. by someone close to them or u

 

Ok, ditch that player. Well its better that you found out earlier, 長痛不如短痛

 

well, i already did. But yeah, so i'm kinda afraid that when i'm going back to taiwan, i'll meet him again. Or, i could reveal our past experiences with his "new girlfriend"if he doesn't have multiple

 

i think distance relationship never work out.because cost too much to see each other,....

 

i've been living this kind of love for one year
and we are stronger even now