i havent post here at all before so its the first time anyways well i met this girl in summer school and i ended up really liking her but we only started to talk like the last two weeks after summer school ended, i got her msn from a friend so we started talking, and all... after about three weeks i just summed up the courage to tell her i liked her (big problem is that we live pretty far away from each other, and i dont drive yet for another 3 months =/) and like she thought i was giving up, and she asked why guys give up so easily and so i was silent from then on i didnt really know what to say, T_T do long distant relationships work? what should i do? i need some advice guys really long post i know -_-''' advice would be much appreciated
Doesnt make sense, so did you tell her or not? How far away do you live from each other? You did not give her enough reassurance They can work if the love is strong enough Talk to her
haah thanks and yeah i did tell her maybe i should fix that part =/ i live like 45 minute drive from her and since i dont drive yet... its pretty hard to meet up with her maybe i should say one more thing too... she doesnt get to go out to much
awww... 45 min is nothing n yeah like gawain mentioned before... public transport for the time being... whats 3 months if u really like the girl.. my ex bf lived about 3hours by public transport lol.... even if she dont get out much u guys can meet up like once a week right? if u really like her just go for it!
45min it's an okay drive. Since you don't drive do consider using public transport. May take longer but it'll get you there. Most of the time long distance relationships doesn't work out. Lack of communication.
take the bus or sumfin...my bf goes to a diff college from me an thats like 2hrs away..so we do find it hard to meet up at times but we manage...=] if u both want it to work...then why wouldnt it work? good luck -flow
well i guess your right love does take some sacrfrices >< guess i will have to take public transportation for a while till i get my license thanks all
Take public transport and visit her! Last girl I like lives 30min away from me by driving but 1 hour and something for trains. Went and gave her flowers on the sunday before her birthday at her workplace, after work(which is near where she lives). She was so happy.
Seriously, if you really liked her, 45min drive should NOT be a problem. Like all the others have said, take public transportation there. Other alternatives include asking a close friend to drive you there or lie to your parents so they can drive you there (it's preferred that you tell them that you need to go there to visit a college or something). I've had several friends who've taken public transportation and gone the distance to visit their significant other. As long as it's within reaching distance, it can be done. Go for it.
^ Aren't you gonna go meet her now? Don't make things complicated, thats a barrier in stopping you going to meet her.
RIGHT NOW?!?!?! its 9 pm here in Cali haha i mean it will show her im not giving up on her and how much she means to me but i think my parents would kill me lmao
45 min is short distance. During those 3 months that u wont be able to see her that often, take it as a test whether this relationship will work or not. Also, its a point for you when shes asking why guys give up so easily. Seems like its a hint that she likes u also.
i was thinking that too... but lately i've been thinking really negatively haha but ill post some updates when i get around to talking to her
45 min is not that far away... plus, doesnt' mean u both can't find somewhere middle ground to go on dates... 45min drive is not considered long distance! rofl... u'll be fine =) many times i've driven more than that just to see friends... but now that fuel is stupidly expensive... gotta think twice hahaha
Lol, like everyone has said, 45 minutes isn't far. Try having to fly to see your significant other. Then we'll call it far. As it is, if you think she's worth it, 45 minutes isn't bad. And give yourself some credit, hey? You were willing to keep in touch with her even after summer school was over. Says a lot about you, from a girl's perspective, anyways. So go for it! Just keep building the relationship and see how it goes.
