Why do guys prefer their friends over his girlfriend?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by zhouxianwen, Sep 28, 2008.

  1. zhouxianwen

    zhouxianwen Well-Known Member

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    so me and my boyfriend have been dating for three months. at first we would always see each other and are always together. But lately after he became friends with this guy(lets call him mr. x). We see less of each other. He chooses to hang out with the guy and we talk less and less. Whenever I am with him and mr. x comes to say hi, mr. x does not acknowledge me nor does my boyfriend any more. I seem to be a no body to them. What am i suppose to do?? Break up with him, or confront my boyfriend? I aready told my boyfriend that whenever Mr. X is around, mr. x doesn't acknowledge me and doesn't even think i am there. So i dont like Mr. X. I am thinking about breaking up with him, but i still like him..any advice?
     
  2. DKNY

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    Maybe he is gay? haha, just kidding. U have to know wat type of guy is ur bf. Does he care about wat u told him? Some guys just act "big" in front of other guys. So I think u need to understand him more since u guy are only dating for 3 months. Finding the one u love is easy, but finding the one who loves u is hard.
     
  3. THF20

    THF20 is a Chinese

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    Not all guys do.

    My gf is apart of my world, so I won't be like that dude.
     
  4. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    coz its 在家靠父母, 出外靠朋友, lol doesnt mention anything like 出外靠女朋友 :p
     
  5. zhouxianwen

    zhouxianwen Well-Known Member

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    well my boyfriend seems o care alot. he is aways asking, do i care if he ralks to other girls? BE cause he gets jealous when i talk to other guys. So i dont wnat him to talk to other girls then he won't talk to them. But this mr. x guy i dont know.I told him he is your friend not mine, so i dont care. ahhh guys are confusing.
     
  6. well sometimes us guys find hanging out with guys is less .....annoying lol
     
  7. zhouxianwen

    zhouxianwen Well-Known Member

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    lol i would like to think that i am not annoying because when we are together i dont say much or do much anyways. Iunno
     
  8. Phoenix

    Phoenix *~Though she be but little, she is fierce~*

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    i think its a matter of compromise....when it comes to hanging out with your friends or partners....
    does ur bf notice that this mr X is like not acknowledging u?
    what does he say about it?
     
  9. zhouxianwen

    zhouxianwen Well-Known Member

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    well i told him that I dont like mr. x because he does acknowledge my existence and he noticed too. but thats all he said. he told me he noticed too and thats it. nothing much. my question is, is this guy worth dating?
     
  10. DKNY

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    The beginning of the relationship is always the sweetest. If it already like that, I will leave the guy first before our feeling get too deep.
     
  11. fearless_fx

    fearless_fx Eugooglizer

    i wish my name was Mr. X, i could be a superhero
     
  12. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    BROS BEFORE HOES =p
     
  13. jdm_s2k

    jdm_s2k Well-Known Member

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    LOL!!!!!

    i think we all need personal space....
     
  14. MissCheekS

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    if my husband would say that...hed be sleeping on the couch for the rest of the week
     
  15. Aoes

    Aoes Well-Known Member

    ^marriage is different cheeks...

    why else u think guys are so reluctant to get chained down eh? ;)
     
  16. DKNY

    DKNY Well-Known Member

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    Cheeks is already married???
     
  17. reno

    reno Well-Known Member

    he could always go other places to sleep =D
    lolz

    but yeah
    every guy is diff, so it doesn't mean its always like that
    plus, guys still want their freedom to be able to hang out with friends to do wateva they can't do wen they're with u
     
  18. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    haha, yer different place, lol, prob get a different chick's bed or something :p
     
  19. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    keyword = IF
     
  20. Flames

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    but the if could be if your husband says it not if you have a husband :xd: