Why do guys prefer their friends over his girlfriend?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by zhouxianwen, Sep 28, 2008.

  1. DKNY

    DKNY Well-Known Member

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    call Mr. x out for a date. Try to take as much intimate pictures as you can with him. Then intentionally let ur bf see the pictures. Haha, that way, ur bf will never play with Mr. x again.
     
  2. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    ^ n she might get dumped too (N)
     
  3. johnny14

    johnny14 Active Member

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    If u can't even talk to your bf about your concerns and work something out, then perhaps you're not that important to him or high on his priority. Maybe it's time to move on. No, I mean NO relationship should be this stressful...haha.
     
  4. gentle_br3eze

    gentle_br3eze Well-Known Member

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    just confront your bf if you want the relationship to work. guys are very slow. tell him how you feel and talk it out.
     
  5. zhouxianwen

    zhouxianwen Well-Known Member

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    guys are slow...so true... i have mentioned to him how mr. x doesn't talk to me but he doesn't do or say anything. instead he just laughs and finds it funny...why?
     
  6. giovannidattoma

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    Maybe you are being over-possessive.

    Maybe your boyfriend bad-mouthed you in front of his friend, that's the reason why mr. x doesn't wants to speak to you.

    Maybe it's time to sit down and have a nice chat with your boyfriend regarding your relationship.
     
  7. ynot138

    ynot138 Well-Known Member

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    Not me, my GF is always come first. Guy friends second or third. You should dump him and stick around with me :)
     
  8. mangomango

    mangomango Member

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    Guys have sex and fun and last only few minutes, with their gf, but with his friends he has fun with them long time...
     
  9. lala_bel_tempo

    lala_bel_tempo Well-Known Member

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    is your bf turning gay?-rolleyes

    serious
     
  10. lala_bel_tempo

    lala_bel_tempo Well-Known Member

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    you sound like a horny guy
     
  11. transition

    transition Well-Known Member

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    bros before hoes??? LOL

    i dunnoes sometimes guy talk can be hard to understand for girls =]
     
  12. tkt138

    tkt138 Active Member

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    What?? Just break up with your boy friend and stay with me. I always want to be with my girl friend than my guys friend. He or you must did something wrong.
     
  13. JspecEfini

    JspecEfini Well-Known Member

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    well a guy can use his friends as wingmen to pick up more women.
     
  14. d15z1sux

    d15z1sux Well-Known Member

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    should get your boyfriend to formally introduce him to you, maybe mr x is just shy or something. maybe a bit late for a formal introduction? but your bf can say oh btw i never introduced my gf to you. mr x this is ________ bla bla bla.
     
  15. d15z1sux

    d15z1sux Well-Known Member

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  16. aznxtonyx

    aznxtonyx Member

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    I think your just thinking too much, i am sure when you are with your boyfriends, your girlfriends are probably wondering why haven't you spend time with them. It is just a guy night/guy things where he might just want to share to his friends how wonderful you are?
     
  17. tuatiao

    tuatiao Active Member

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    Just clarify with your boyfriend whether he prefers spending time with Mr.X or you. If he selects Mr.X, you are better dump him for a better man...and don't waster your time on him.
     
  18. xdly

    xdly Well-Known Member

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    You should tell him the way you feel... so that he can find a balance between gf and friends ;)
     
  19. They don't. It's just that they can 'do stuff' and communicate in a different, guy way with their guy friends. They also enjoy your company as well. They're just two separate things, but they should be balanced.
     
  20. ribbit80l

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    talk to him....let him know how u truly feel