i had a relationship with my gf for 2 and half years. it's been recently so far, her brother introduce her to some kind of online games. she have spend most of her time for the games.....and day by day pass by the way i see that we spend time alot less then before......so i decide to called her 1 day and told her seriously, is the game more important than spend time with me........well she's reply ( you are asking non sense )......i'm really serous about that question, so after that we stop talking to each other....should we broke up????? please need sum advice. thanks
i think u need to talk face to face with her.... i'm sure you dont want to break up and neither does she... but its just the gaming situation thats come between you two... just call her out...an have a convo an let her know how u feel an see if a compromise can be made... surely your relationship is much more important than the game.. so good luck..
thanks for sum advice.......we actually come to talk to each other, let's talk back then before she's played game....we used to hang out really late and long....but now everytime we went out and eat or plan sumthing to do on the weekend...always been rejected, keep on saying she's wanna go home and play game...i mean com on, it's that really fuking important to you....i mean it's just game, it's not just happen like 1 day or 2.....if it like that than i can live with that.....but it's keep on for more than 1 week......i'm seriously put our relationship on the line to see what's going to happen???? would that too reckless to do????
it would, you would be really siew hai if you gonna make sucha fuss about she playing games, how often does we guys watch football and hang with our friend while the girl actully wanna hang with us? you also gotta see the other way around,
sum kind of game i think it's called cabel so based on 2 replies earlier, are you guys saying i should be patient out????
i think you should be patient but give her an ultimatum.. cos u guys been out for 2 an a half years...not worth breakin up over a game...
or what most of the times works, try to play it also? its just like when girls also play the games i like to play, try to make it work instead of forcing her to stop playing the game she likes
oh come on... a couple can't spend all their time being glued together... ever heard of "distance makes the hearts grow fonder"?? it sounds pretty stupid to throw away a 2.5 yr relationship over some stupid online game... maybe u mite wanna try playing that game n get a better understanding of her... it sounds like u still care abt her... put some more effort into the realtionship...
god seriously ... how old are you mind i ask...? if you're having a cry and considering breaking up over a game, then I'm pretty confident you'll have plenty of challenges ahead of you. either break up now, or grow up a little ay? I'm not trying to be harsh or anything, but its only healthy to leave a gap / little breathing space between one another. Learn to communicate
dawn does sound better -huh but wow that is interesting... a girl... playing games nonstop... and the GUY feeling jealous... wow..
just join her and play with her. i wish my gf plays games with me so i dont get her annoying me n making me spend time with her doing stupid stuff.
talk face to face talk serous, never over the phone people appreciate it when you talk to them in reality don't give her much of an option, limit it down e.g. is this game that important ( a yes or no answer) how important an i to you? etc.. when you talk face to face, things change.
