Holding hands on a first date

yesterday i had this debate within a group of friends of mine

it started when a guy made this statment "If there is no hand holding on the first date than that's it" (talking about reasons not to go on a second date)

than all the girls proceeding to go against him and saying "No Way" cause it's like saying "your mine" or "I'm open to be yours" and that is definitely not someone for the first date



what do you all think?

 

hahahahahahahaha thats soooo weird... but yeahhh... if you know that guy longer with friends/in group... and you're holding hands... it could be normal... but else... i thinks it's quite a strange move haha

 

imo....whatever feels right?
if both ppl like eachother n feel like holding hands then go for it...

these questions are always there... to hold hands on first date or not? to kiss on the first date or not?

just do whatever u feel like...some ppl hold hands on first dates some people hold hands after 4th date....

there is no law for such thing.. just go with the flow

 

holding hand is for kids

 

^ errr....im not a kid but i still like to hold hands =)

 

people that think holding hands are for kids are kids

 

hahaha...maybe DKNY goes for the real deal on the first date.....-cool2 hahaha

 

he never get pass the 1st date.. maybe thatswhy he says that

 

i would say pedobear but i dont know how old the guys is xD

thing is that people think differently
some hold hands right on the first date, for some it takes time
it just depends how fast you want to relationship to go and what not
so you cant just say just because the guy doesnt hold hands on the first date means that the relationship isnt going to be to good =/
so eh... its all up to the couple

 

I love holding hands... feels sooo.... erhhh... warm! ^,^

 

holding hand is just a side dish, i prefer the main course

 

Both at the right time...

 

@dkny hahahah told u... hes going for the real deal guys

so u prefer steak without the potato mash?
I mean steak is good but isnt it better with the potato mash?


hmmm...i dunno...holding hands is nice... =)

 

holding hands lets others know you are together, prevents some random dude trying his luck with your gf

 

ha/ some french guys i know says if you dont try to have sex on the first date then the girl have no respect for you. -lol right angie? hehe

 

^n some girls say if u have sex on the first date a guy wont have respect for u