Does it feels wierd

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by midnight_blues, Oct 9, 2008.

  1. midnight_blues

    midnight_blues Active Member

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    after a breakup and have to start over again to find a new mate..??? like going through all same process again and again ... picking out whose really into you or not.... :ugh::ugh:
     
  2. Phoenix

    Phoenix *~Though she be but little, she is fierce~*

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    it doesnt feel weird to me....
    cos when i broke up...i didnt look for a new bf straight away...
    took me some time to get over my ex....

    i think i wasnt that bothered after i got dumped...i just let things happen naturally..
     
  3. DKNY

    DKNY Well-Known Member

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    If u are a guy, then of coourse u need to go through the process to find a new one. If u are a girl, i think guys will just come over to ask u out, u dont have to do anything. Its so good to be a girl-shrug
     
  4. ^ not always..... its kind of hard but the opportunity is always there.... even now that I have a gf i see girls all the time that give me a good look and something deep inside says I wish i was still single.... but i have a good gf no doubt about that =P
     
  5. midnight_blues

    midnight_blues Active Member

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    :p DKNY---> im a girl... anyways.. you been with that person for so many years and all of sudden he decides to breakup it just feels weird to me now im single.. before i met him i went "hell" when it comes to dating .. i already know the tricks of trade when meeting guys.. until I met him .. he warmed me up because i was a cold hearted person and now it ----------------........ back to focus on other things for now.. :tear::rolleyes2:
     
  6. Phoenix

    Phoenix *~Though she be but little, she is fierce~*

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    aww -hug

    well seeing as u know the tricks of the trade....u can find a guy in no time...an you'll be warm again -flow
     
  7. bko1

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    it should seem natural, not weird.. concept of survival of the fittest applies? lol
     
  8. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    i dont think its weird at all... at least if u've had enough of being single n want a partner again
    its actually quite exciting to go out on dates again etc
    although it takes quite some energy once u hook up with a guy
    u have to get to know all his friends n his family... n start bonding with them :p
     
  9. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member


    anytime u want some excitement, -lol, message me/ -whistle
     
  10. mr_evolution

    mr_evolution ( • )( •ԅ(ˆ⌣ˆԅ)

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    Nah it's not weird, life is a growing and learning process
     
  11. xmichelly

    xmichelly Well-Known Member

    well then now you're not a cold hearted person and you can open yourself up to other people

    i don't think it's weird to go out and get a boyfriend, not like you're just going to pick a guy right way. but now it'll be easier for you to just make friends and who knows, it might lead to something
     
  12. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    thats y u must keep many "acquaintance contacts"
     
  13. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    NO .. you shouldn't feel weird at all if you're truly over the person. If you'd moved on with your life; then, there shouldn't be any such feeling at all. I think you should get thing straightened up first cuz it's obvious that you're emotionally and mentally not ready to accept another relationship for such "weird" feeling to pop up in your head. When people really move on; they jump on the next ship without a doubt. That's just normal process of life; life goes on as usual.
     
  14. lala_bel_tempo

    lala_bel_tempo Well-Known Member

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    haha, if your not appealing , then what will you do as a girl? lols
     
  15. DKNY

    DKNY Well-Known Member

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    Get plastic surgery
     
  16. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    ewww....i dun want no commitment with dirty perv adrianc
     
  17. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member

    dirty? no commitment needed :) I was thinking of ice skating down the hill/ what were you thinking. as if I dint know -whistle
     
  18. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    ^ u know urself best....soooo...liar liar pants on fireee
     
  19. haha... i dun think it's weird if u've taken enough time to live ur single life n clear ur mind out... when u do falling for another person can b the sweetest thing... -inlove...
     
  20. yeah and then one month later its like crap crap crap.... the beginning is always the best and then the girl start feeling like we don't like them anymore when in fact we are just getting comfortable with being with them :Talktohand: