I wouldn't mind. Everyone has done it by the time they are 21 unless you are weird and doesn't go out alot.
this should be a non-issue...unless you're extremely backward and been living in a cave all your life.
ugh..I think I would mind considering how i'm still one and they're not... but thats my opinion, so yeah.
i think whether the person has had sexual relations with his/her previous partner/partners shouldnt matter to his/her current relationship because the past is the past
lol idk right now yeah, cause im a virgin i want him to be one also, unless im not then it doesn't matter but as long as i am it does lol!
rather than wanting a virgin girlfriend you should be looking for a virgin wife, boyfriend/girlfriend results in you not being a virgin for long! if its not your intentions to marry and settle down with that person then i see the whole boyfriend/girlfriend thing as being pointless, just be friends. that may be a prudent decision lest you become his next conquest.. been there, done that, NEXT!!
master g, obviously doesn't have the same trial and error view as us... lol if my girlfriend was a virgin and we dated and we did have sex before marriage then wouldn't it be the same if i married her? since she still would have only been with me. Finding a woman who is a virgin that you know you will be sexual happy with is hard to find, like i said before, if the two of you aren't sexual attracted to each other its going to be a rather stupid marriage as seeing as at least one side is incompatible.... Sex is as important as anything within a successful marriage.
I agree..... and relationships arent guaranteed for life!! so non-virgins look like they're doomed if all guys say they want virgins!
why live in trial error when you can learn from others? isn't it wiser to do that? people use trial and error as an excuse to indulge in their seeamingly pleasurable ''mistakes''.... Having sex with your gf then marrying is only an attempt at fixing the problem, just because a man and woman can have sex does not mean they can live together in marriage, this scenario usually results in divorce. another fact of life is that sex does not sustain a relationship, after a few weeks or months you will get used to the sex, sure it will still be nice (for some) but it wont be anything new, this is one of the reasons why people try to experiment with perverted forms of sex, if the focus is on sex it always results in infidelity/divorce down the line. If you aren't sexually attracted to each other then i doubt you would be boyfirend/girlfriend, have you or anyone else you know ever gone out wth a girl that you/they are not sexually attracted to?, makes no sense, if your refering to that 'good in bed' stuff the media throws at you.. i simply dont buy it. a man and a woman is compatible if you know what i mean, i wont go into detail
well, i am married so not gonna talk about the virgin part. but i just want to say that from my past dating experience, when i went out with those gals, i never thought about "sex". things just kinda moved naturally. it's silly to think that one is sexually attracted to another before dating or anything. compatibility is beyond physical sometimes; mental and emotional are just as important. the only time you should talk about "sexual attraction" is when you're a player who's out with the goal of looking to get laid. for any serious relationship, sex is definitely not the way to start things off.
forget trying to find a wife who is a virgin...finding a girlfriend wh is is alrady a huge challenge.. nowadays its hard not having sex. thus most ppl have sex before they hit 18. anyways I am not a virgin and I do not mind is she is not one either
i dont think i'd mind...but then i'd go paranoid or something...cos i'd be scared they always compare me with their previous partners.... =/
I would mind if my girlfriend is a virgin or not there is no actual way for me to find out but it will be nice to get the feeling that she is still a virgin
