i just want to rant in this thread. so you can feel free to ignore it. I am writing this because i am mad and being irrational. But i am mad so it doens't matter. This is the problem. On this coming saturday, its my 19th birthday. I told my boyfriend that i wanted to go to this city 2 and a half hours away from where i live. I just wanted to go there to eat and shop. He agreed to go with me. Our plan to leave early in the morning so we can have lunch there and then shop in the afternoon. We would leave in the early evening so i can come back and have supper with my friends. It was all settled....until he told me that he can't go no more. Why? because he has training to do. At first i was okay because i thought it was important training. (He's in the navy) but it turned out this "training" is playing sports all day. He told me that. I told him to go and do the training because its more important but truthfully i am really sad. I really wanted to go but he can't go. I know I can ask other friends to go but i dont want them to spend the gas money to drive there with me. So now i am sad, dissappointed and writing this note. Many thoughts are going through my head. He told me he feels bad. Actually this is exactly what he texted me "I just feel bad hen I think about what you said. Of how i can't always be there for you 24/7 therefore you are not trying to depend on me". In the past, he asked me to depend on him more. But i said i can't because you won't always be there when i need you, there is always more things that will be more important than me, and those will be first priority. I guess he still remembers And i know its inevitable that i wil happen. but on my 19th birthday? i didn't expect it. Now I always think back to my 19h birthday as how my boyfriend let me down. I know i am being really selfish in the wya i am thinking but i can't help it. I will NEVER depend on him for things again. Going to this city for my birthday was the first thing i ever asked him to do for me, and it will be the last. These are going to be the first tears i shed for him and the last. I will be stronger and not need him no more. The end. PS. guys aren't jerks =) im juss being irrational, selfish and full of tears.
omg...not to be mean but i would not let down on sports day also....guys love sports and to actually have a chance to play in the navy after all that hard traning would b a treat i konw that your bf let you down and he should not have promised before therefore he is a jerk for breaking a promise.. would you be more angry if he didn't promsed you before and chose the navy instead? and not all guys r jerks =) only guys like mrangiecheeks
^lol mrangiecheeks i see that msangie found a bf then xD well first of all happy 19th :] i know what your going through... but you cant blame the guy... i mean hes in the navy, not like he has a choice whether or not the attend the training session.. dont fret too much
happy 19th, lol what a jerk, leaving his girlfriends's Birthday (thats like a U CANT MISS DATE OR U DIE ) for playing sport......
no what makes me mad is, i quote "I have the option to not go in and go with you" that is from the text message.
ah well, for my 19th b-day i worked for like 11 hours, came home, ate some cake and went to bed. No reason you can't have a good time if you dont have work/school. just call up some girlfriends and have a slick night out. and btw, judging from your text msg's your bf sounds like a bit of a douchebagel. i mean who would choose playing sports with a bunch of other sweaty dudes over a day of fun with his girlfriend? no offense lol
lol, doesnt that make u wonder, what your place is in his heart, its Sport or You and he chose Sport......
dude...id be pissed off too...training (PLAYING sports) is more important than my BDAY wth? I mean on any other day id be flexible and let it slip but its a special day wo.... hmmm....id give him a hard time about it... i mean u dun have to be the most important person in his life...but sports...come on... its def. not a valid excuse... btw...its good to see ur not all bitter but just pissed atm n thats why u say guys r jerks... i know a lot of em are... but there are actually a few good ones out there too la... stay positive dont listen to kodak ok...there is a reason why that guy is single !!!! n its alll very obvious to us.... why that is! @kodak shut up "mr i wanna hook up with other guys from tdot" lol
its ok... ill be the bigger man and let angie say whatever she wants because she is prob in her sad mood...getting rejected is not easy but u're just not my cup of tea =p
Wow, never choose a military bf, not reliable. Haha, my gf broke up with me on my 19th birthday while i was eating my cake. Imagine how harsh that was to me. Maybe u should try again on ur 20th birthday, if still the same, then break up with him.
lol guys you are killing this thread. on topic : it sux what ur BF did, but well.. you shouldnt say that he should go to the training, saying that and then rant about that all guys are jerks aint helping ur relationship at all. you should talk with him about it.. instead saying "i will never depend on him anymore", what kinda relationship is that?
Been in such a situation as well.. Actually not bday-training shit... But hanging around with mates instead of me... In the begin I also said: Go hanging around with them. He thought I didn't see it as a problem... But in meanwhile I was sooooo pissed about it. Talked with my friends about it etc... And I came to 1 thing: JUST TELL EVERYTHING IF YOU'VE PROBLEMS WITH ANYTHING HE DOES (OR DOES NOT).
^lol dly but idd you really should communicate in a relationship, else you can just break up with him if you act like this zhouxianwen
it's not that funny mr resent... been in bad times because of that. glad everything is turning to the better side rite now.... :$
well its kinda both fault of you guys larr, you guys didnt communicate enough, but lesson learned init? now its going all good ^^
this is already my xxxth lesson... but still make faults... but we're learning everytime just dont give up when you're in worse time.
