Would you help your Ex?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by negiqboyz, Oct 26, 2008.

  1. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    If your ex b/gf ask for your help after s/he had dumped you; will you help him/her?

    My answer is NO. I was tempted to say yes because sometimes, the break-up is mutual even though she initiated the process. For any human being who is ever in a serious relationship pending on your emotional scale, it takes sometime or longer to settle after a break-up. Not as easy to get used to (unless you were never real in love with that person); thus, I don't want to meddle in the ex business and move on with my life. We can remain on a "friendly" term; just not the type you "rely" on all the time. I know it's COLD but at least in the long run, I am not hurt emotionally. There's nothing wrong looking out for yourself.
     
  2. BestOffer

    BestOffer Well-Known Member

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    think about it, she might want to make out with you for a 1-night stand, in that case, WHY NOT? (j/k....)

    depend on what it is REALLY...
     
  3. AC0110

    AC0110 Let the Fun Begin

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    What you said is not very clear..

    It depend what sort of help he is asking from you...
     
  4. xmichelly

    xmichelly Well-Known Member

    what kinda help are you talkin about ... -huh
     
  5. mr_evolution

    mr_evolution ( • )( •ԅ(ˆ⌣ˆԅ)

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    Yeah, depends what the favour is.
     
  6. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    I was referring to "all" type of help .. big and small.
     
  7. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    if we parted as friends n i still care about my ex then i probably would... of course it depends on what kinda help
    but if i can do him a small fave then i dun see why not
     
  8. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    that's nice. i guess everyone's different but just thought a guy will more likely to move on than help the ex where as gal is more sentimental ... lol
     
  9. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    ^ i agree... i've noticed after guys get dumped they dun most likely do not want to see their ex anymore... which is quite a pity somehow...
     
  10. Flames

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    I've seen only idiots who gets dumped, gets taken back and gets dumped again and repeat...just one word to describe them...."idiots"
     
  11. reno

    reno Well-Known Member

    could be sexual :p
    would u say no to that? lol
     
  12. mr_evolution

    mr_evolution ( • )( •ԅ(ˆ⌣ˆԅ)

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    I don't see why not? -lol
     
  13. ralphrepo

    ralphrepo Well-Known Member

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    Why not? Shit, it could be her chance to finally give you a disease. :rl: I wouldn't touch that again with your's (if you know what I mean...) :xd:
     
  14. tonkachi

    tonkachi Well-Known Member

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    it would totally depend on what it is...
     
  15. LMFAO..... use protection....


    I have helped my ex with her computer problems before and i assure you it didn't lead to anything..... I only had one ex who became my friend with benefits for awhile...
     
  16. metzo

    metzo Well-Known Member

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    i still good friends with most of my ex's so yeh ill prolly help them with wateva :D
     
  17. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member


    This shows that you could never be friends with your EX.

    For me, I would (depending on long we've broken up and what the request was).

    Like if it's driving them somewhere becuase they're cars in a bad state, than I could do that a the next day

    If it's something like girl advice, if it was many years later than sure. I want my friend (an ex) to be happy.

    In fact my first BF, that was about 9 years ago. We keep in touch and always ask each other for love advice. It's a fun friendship and becuase we have been together we know each other better than most others.
     
  18. Flames

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    Player LOL
     
  19. emawlee28

    emawlee28 Well-Known Member

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    depends on how long we broke up and if im over that person
     
  20. negiqboyz

    negiqboyz Well-Known Member

    i am still friend w/ the ex; just not "that" kinda friend ...