Ok, To get this story started... I like this girl -blush2 and when we first met we became friends like instantly and since I was one year younger then her the girl started calling me her little brother. (Im 16 btw) So as our relationship progresses we have our times and sometimes I get mad sometimes she gets annoyed but we are still just friends or *brother and sister* Then my friends start to tell me that they can tell I like her and i had a think about it and then I realized they were right This girl felt like my first crush and feelings start to develop really quick and then sometimes the girl will be like oh Shawn do you like me because yeah you better not or I'll smash you. Then I ignored her thinking she could be bluffing or joking and I told her. She never wants to talk about us being together if i even mention it she starts to get really pissed off and like always changes the subjects. The thing she always says is "Shawn your my little brother, I just cant see you that way, It's disgusting (So in other words shes saying it's incest...... *see thats why i'm saying shes going nuts*) but I dont give up and tell her to give me a chance to speak and I told her how I felt and how i knew how she felt but the thing was that we are not brother and sister so it is not wrong in anyway and I told her she can't use age as an excuse because when i asked her If i told you i was 19 and you liked me and we went out and a week later i told you i was actually 16 would you break up with me? She says no i wouldn't so now I just dont get why is she so stuckup about the Brother Sister thing... I mean its not real just a nickname i guess and does that 1 year difference really matter =.=! Give me your opinions :jump: Fellas don't you agree that this girl is like yeah going whack =。=
yeah bro I know what you mean but I forgot to add but shes like I'll try to get the thought of you as my brother out of my mind and to think of you as something else, and the point I was trying to make is not her rejecting me as in her saying im her little brother and getting it into her head , i mean if you dont like me just say it to me? instead of saying little brother and stuff.... then shes like yeah its hard but i will try
she dosnt like you . sorry man its cause shes older and older guys are known for going out with ppl who are younger or the same age .. if she usses violent words like smash u she must be wun of those girls wgho want a mature guy balling with money ~
^dont be mean 16 year olds have feelings too! @OP: i agree with kodak... shes just not into u... maybe the brother n sister doesnt make sense to u but it just comes down to the fact that shes not attracted to u in a romantic way so this means that u should give up n stop pushing... if she liked u she wouldve gone for it already... this whole age bs doesnt matter if she was attracted to u
ppl are dating in a much younger age. Like around 12, so 16 is considered normal nowdays. I think there should be a way to work things out. You have to prove that u are mature.
she just wants to be friends with you, if you wanna remain that way you shouldn't push it lol. she's trying to reject you nicely and not make anything feel awkward between you guys.
well .. she's not into you and like to remain friend w/ you without hurting the relationship too much or even cause any awkwardness between you two. if you're really into her .. keep trying and perhaps one day, she may change her mind...lol
haha thanxx nah according to emawlee28's recent threads shes been raged at and bf ditched her or sumthing so shes all agro and lalala so let her be =D but yeah mmmm yeah i sorta know she didnt like me just wanted to get it out of my system but the thing that annoys me most is how shes like yeah i will try .... so im like is dat a consideration @.@ and also emawlee she says that to everyone its just her way of talking like personalitie not everyone who says im going to smash you means it -.-!
something else meaning not a little brother...but just her normal friend lol....she's pretty much trying to do her best to keep this friendship where its at and you're just getting the wrong impressions and some hope after she says something random to try and calm you down?....aye but i dunno how little girls feel, go try your luck i guess. tons of time ahead for you to figure out and experience things
haha.. n u still like her -tongue2 anyway she actually made it clear enough that she doesn't like u although she took the long winding road rather than the straight path...
don't waste your time man. it seems like she won't change her mind, theres plenty of other girls out there man. don't get stuck on one girl lol.
yeah she is not going to go out with you to be blunt >____< i started liking this girl but i already knew it wasn't going to happen but i tried asking her anyways and to no surprise she said no :tear:
