Would you mind if your bf/gf is not a virgin?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by Nawainruk, Jul 6, 2008.

  1. martinchen

    martinchen New Member

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    wont mind too
     
  2. calmwater

    calmwater Well-Known Member

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    i wont mind
     
  3. T.O.

    T.O. Active Member

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    these days that would be hard to find.
     
  4. AC0110

    AC0110 Let the Fun Begin

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    ^
    Unless you're a pedophile
     
  5. sfucal

    sfucal Member

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    better try your luck with less attractive girls.
     
  6. bbes

    bbes Incredible

    i don't mind rele as long as they don't go sleeping about a lot and have a contagious disease such as aids lol.
     
  7. kinmotsu

    kinmotsu New Member

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    This is just one's own preference...there's really no standard in being in a relationship with a virgin or non-virgin. So my opinion on this....well, I think someone previously pointed this out, non-virgin with non-virgin, whereas a virgin would be better off with another virgin. I stay with the latter one.
    Editted: There are still many girls that are virgins, it depends on what kind of people you know, and I think location matters too.
     
  8. sorjaileo

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    don't mind as long as they still clean...... of coz... if they still are virgin.. that's just a bonus... end of the day... u like the person for who they are now should it be any different... u should reconsider the relationship
     
  9. sweet_heart

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    Well, of course you would want your bf/gf to be a virgin.. but since people nowadays are more open, it doesn't really matter as much anymore. If my boyfriend tell me that he's not a virgin.. there's really nothing I can do.. but to accept it? Well, that's only if you love that person very much to accept it. Because I know some people can't accept these things.. such as parents. Well.. yeah, if you and your bf/gf become intimate.. thoughts along the line of sexual encounters would arise.. but yeah.. I guess it would be hard to accept at first, but you'll learn to deal with it.
     
  10. disordered_li

    disordered_li Member

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    not realli.... can only make sure that they are checked out beforehand if they have... nobody'll be braggin about how many people they've been with anyway...
    And about the virgin wife, unless your planning to marry her early in the relationship then not happening...
     
  11. ralphrepo

    ralphrepo Well-Known Member

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    Warning - Grown Up Talk - kiddies, cover your ears...

    Virgins are worthless in bed; I'll take a whore (that is, someone who is sexually experienced enough and not afraid to satisfy me) anytime over a virgin.

    And further, just because someone is a virgin doesn't mean that they're free of Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STD) either. There are plenty of 'technical' virgins out there, that is, ones who never ever had penetration vaginal sex, but who has done everything else (ie, oral, anal, mutual masturbation, tittie fuck, et cetera). See here: Teens, Television, and the Technical Virgin

    -bigsmiles
     

  12. for a one night stand and the such of course!...... i would love having a gf who is a total nympho, at the same time only has me on her mind. but my current gf seems to have like a mind set of a sterotypical wife towards sex... :tear:
     
  13. safeplayer22

    safeplayer22 New Member

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    if you mind that she should not be your gf
     
  14. AC0110

    AC0110 Let the Fun Begin

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    Same, haha
    Have to wait till marriage come -_-
    Or if I can get her drunk enough -^_^
     
  15. i bet every man's wife that is like that minds... does that mean they should not be a married couple?
     
  16. ralphrepo

    ralphrepo Well-Known Member

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    Er... I think they would call that drug facilitated rape, LOL... :Talktohand:

    Damn... if you're already living the life of a pre-nuptual vegetarian, could you imagine then what would happen if you did get married? You won't be a husband, but a Monk instead... :heherm:

    That's like, pretty fucked up... getting married and not getting any? :nuts:
     
  17. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    ^ i call it desperate to get some choochoo!
     
  18. Flames

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    Not all people get married just to start a family or have unlimited access to sex with that woman...some people just get married to be with their so called "soul mate" >.>"
     
  19. as true as that may be..... a real manly man will not go into a marriage with the mindset of never having intercourse.....
     
  20. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    ^ no la... thats not true...
    i might be naive but i believe there should be some guys out there who can accept it
    if a man really loves a woman n she REALLY doesnt want to have sex before marriage hed respect that
    i could be wrong...its just my idea....