I have been dated this guy for three years, n he is married. At first, he was lying to me that he is single, and I had talked to him for few months. One day, he told me that he had a lawsuit going on, n probably he was going to jail. I was so scared, n I flied out to Denver to see him, and this was a very first time I came there, n also I have nobody that I knew there too. When I came over there, he gave me the fake address, and I went to the wrong house. And I have suffered through a lot of bad time on that trip. I had lost my face, my principal to stay with this guy. When I found out that he had a wife, it was ver painful, but i lover him so i stay with him until now. Since this guy married his wife because he want to get out the house, and also want money. They have been married for about 6 years. But they have their own rooms, and he can't able to have sex with her for the past 3 years. But with me, he want it all the time, and care for me. and think for me. but I don't get it sometimes, that he said it is so stressful for him. One thing about this guy is he love his parents so much, he don't want to get disvorced because he doesn't want his parents to lose their face. He rather his wife said it first. But as a woman who husband doesn't sleep or spend time with her in the past 3 years. What is she thingking????? And I don't know about me now. I have been sacrifice myself to go for this relationship, and lose all my face. which is I never did anything like this before. i used to be a high maintainence girl and so much into my pride. But for this guy, i gave it all up. What should I do now?
[FONT=Trebuchet MS,Bookman Old Style,Arial][FONT=Trebuchet MS,Bookman Old Style,Arial]well, your probably the most gullible person i've ever met and i dont think there is anything anyone could say to improve your situation, if i were you id just try to move on and forget about this ever happening... uuh and maybe take some learning away from the situation.... and on that note: REQUEST FOR URGENT BUSINESS RELATIONSHIP FIRST, I MUST SOLICIT YOUR STRICTEST CONFIDENCE IN THIS TRANSACTION. THIS IS BY VIRTUE OF ITS NATURE AS BEING UTTERLY CONFIDENTIAL AND 'TOP SECRET'. I AM SURE AND HAVE CONFIDENCE OF YOUR ABILITY AND RELIABILITY TO PROSECUTE A TRANSACTION OF THIS GREAT MAGNITUDE INVOLVING A PENDING TRANSACTION REQUIRING MAXIIMUM CONFIDENCE. WE ARE TOP OFFICIAL OF THE FEDERAL GOVERNMENT CONTRACT REVIEW PANEL WHO ARE INTERESTED IN IMPORATION OF GOODS INTO OUR COUNTRY WITH FUNDS WHICH ARE PRESENTLY TRAPPED IN NIGERIA. IN ORDER TO COMMENCE THIS BUSINESS WE SOLICIT YOUR ASSISTANCE TO ENABLE US TRANSFER INTO YOUR ACCOUNT THE SAID TRAPPED FUNDS. THE SOURCE OF THIS FUND IS AS FOLLOWS; DURING THE LAST MILITARY REGIME HERE IN NIGERIA, THE GOVERNMENT OFFICIALS SET UP COMPANIES AND AWARDED THEMSELVES CONTRACTS WHICH WERE GROSSLY OVER-INVOICED IN VARIOUS MINISTRIES. THE PRESENT CIVILIAN GOVERNMENT SET UP A CONTRACT REVIEW PANEL AND WE HAVE IDENTIFIED A LOT OF INFLATED CONTRACT FUNDS WHICH ARE PRESENTLY FLOATING IN THE CENTRAL BANK OF NIGERIA READY FOR PAYMENT. HOWEVER, BY VIRTUE OF OUR POSITION AS CIVIL SERVANTS AND MEMBERS OF THIS PANEL, WE CANNOT ACQUIRE THIS MONEY IN OUR NAMES. I HAVE THEREFORE, BEEN DELEGATED AS A MATTER OF TRUST BY MY COLLEAGUES OF THE PANEL TO LOOK FOR AN OVERSEAS PARTNER INTO WHOSE ACCOUNT WE WOULD TRANSFER THE SUM OF US$21,320,000.00(TWENTY ONE MILLION, THREE HUNDRED AND TWENTY THOUSAND U.S DOLLARS). HENCE WE ARE WRITING YOU THIS LETTER. WE HAVE AGREED TO SHARE THE MONEY THUS; 1. 20% FOR THE ACCOUNT OWNER 2. 70% FOR US (THE OFFICIALS) 3. 10% TO BE USED IN SETTLING TAXATION AND ALL LOCAL AND FOREIGN EXPENSES. IT IS FROM THE 70% THAT WE WISH TO COMMENCE THE IMPORTATION BUSINESS. PLEASE,NOTE THAT THIS TRANSACTION IS 100% SAFE AND WE HOPE TO COMMENCE THE TRANSFER LATEST SEVEN (7) BANKING DAYS FROM THE DATE OF THE RECEIPT OF THE FOLLOWING INFORMATIOM BY PRIVATE MESSAGING ME, YOUR COMPANY'S SIGNED, AND STAMPED LETTERHEAD PAPER THE ABOVE INFORMATION WILL ENABLE US WRITE LETTERS OF CLAIM AND JOB DESCRIPTION RESPECTIVELY. THIS WAY WE WILL USE YOUR COMPANY'S NAME TO APPLY FOR PAYMENT AND RE-AWARD THE CONTRACT IN YOUR COMPANY'S NAME. WE ARE LOOKING FORWARD TO DOING THIS BUSINESS WITH YOU AND SOLICIT YOUR CONFIDENTIALITY IN THIS TRANSATION. PLEASE ACKNOWLEDGE THE RECEIPT OF THIS LETTER USING A PRIVATE MESSAGE. I WILL SEND YOU DETAILED INFORMATION OF THIS PENDING PROJECT WHEN I HAVE HEARD FROM YOU. YOURS FAITHFULLY, DR Fearless fx NOTE; PLEASE QUOTE THIS REFERENCE NUMBER (VE/S/09/99) IN ALL YOUR RESPONSES. [/FONT][/FONT]
geez, it kinda sounds like a movie.... ok honest answer! damn... it must be hard being the other woman... n thats why i dont date guys who have GF/WIFE i wanna save myself all that shit... i see ppl around me falling in and outta love, ppl decide to move on with someone else thats all fine as long as its not sneaking around... screwing a guy whos married what good do u get outta it? some hot n steamy sex? im sure thats not what its all about for u right? u love him? but what are u to him???? whats keeping u with this guy? u dont think u can find someone else who is available? who's not lying to u n screwing someone else while being married? that guy is a PRICK...he lied to u at first when u met him n now hes still lying to u (GIVING U THE WRONG ADDRESS)! Whats wrong with this prick? hes a lame ass liar and ur falling for it... hes probably also lying about his relationship with his wife n he might be lying to u about how important his parents are so u think u can trust him n u think hes still serious with u or what? N no hard feelings but why are u even mentioning his wife... ?? what does she have to do with all of this... her husband is sleeping around so hes a bastard dont blame her for not leaving him shes probably just as weak as u are come on, get urself together n make a move.... tell him to piss off cuz hes not worth ur time if theres anyone to blame its ur dear bf.... pft... i honestly think hes just enjoying the best of both worlds... a " trophee wife" to show off n a chick on the side to have sex with whenever he likes a chick who accepts the fact that hes a lying cheater.....ur the chick on the side who will never get acknowledged....!! conclusion ---> he sucks, u got punked for 3 years, just leave him
I had tried, but I think this time I had to try it harder. I need to take back my pride. Cause I can't do it longer. It's too hurtful for me. Was it worthed for the past years????
old tricks always works. tried and true, those are tricks girls go for. -lol the thing is, you probably can't tell the difference between a good person to a bad person. that is why you fall for this type and sob stories. hate to be blunt but get real. hope I didnt burst your bubble too much, but I think there are lots of honest and " old school" guys around for you to make you happy. Cheer up/
Did you honestly made this account for this thread and dicuss your life story with us here.... (Wow, damn... PA has become a Dr. Phil) But honestly, what the hell are you thinking? The wife probably didn't have sex with him for 3 years, maybe, she knows he has other women outside for 3 years. If I know my husband has been playing around with me, I'll probably cut off his dick and he won't be screwing around for a long long time. Sometimes, I almost wish a girl would fall in love with me that much ^^. But seriously, just dump him, I don't care how you are going to do it, I don't care how much it is going to hurt because it will always hurt until the day you break up with him. Then give it some time beause time will heal all woundw and you'll be back on your feet again. You'll find a better man (alot of PA members are single, not Phil, he's too young). Trust me, not all men are asshole but you happen to find one and you don't deserve that. BTW, where are you from?
well...u put in all this effort to be with a guy who doesnt love u.... i think hes a complete waste of time n space, ive always hated ppl like that... but its not too late if ur really willing to try then im sure u will be fine... of course its hard but just think of how much of an ass he is...hes just using u! remember this u have nothing left to lose, just a lot of more time to waste ur not getting any younger so u better get over this dude n find a good guy who is willing to love u n put u on the #1 spot u deserve btw, dont u have any friends u can talk to? if they know about ur situation they probably tried to convince to get outta this... maybe u can turn to them or family? there's gotta be someone :( anyway.. at the end only u can help urself so be strong la....i really wish u good luck...!!
Past is the past, nothing can be done, dump him, let go of the feeling with him, a person cheating with his wife is nothing but a sex craving monster that only sees woman as a tool for pleasure...been with a despicable man only adds shame to yourself. But since you're not with him like his wife has, you can stay away from him and start over. So go home, take a night sleep and start reshaping that life into something you hope for. Don't give up in love. Like AC0110 said, there's guys who are better than that monster.
what's the point of putting your time into a total idoit! WAKE UP! :Talktohand: your only going to continue to get lies after lies...... there's seriously other things out there to look up to. i guess the good thing is that you've only wasted three years of your life so it's not too late to go out and find someone else to have fun with headbang2 but everything is in your own destiny so i hope that you make the decision you won't regret "there are many other fishes in the sea"-sweat
As a guy .. sure enjoy it but like others said .. get away if you don't plan to ruin your life sorta speak cuz no matter when or what happened, things ain't gonna change for you. you're the secret lover now and forever. parents or whatever shit is just an excuse. if he can pull it off the first time with the fake address, there's gonna be a second one, and a third and a fourth lie .. it goes on cuz you know why? ppl who are gullible and naive like you will always fall for it. i think saving face is the last thing you should be worrying about. if you're truly wanna get out and you can't .. talk to someone or even a therapist or whomever can offer you help .. just fucking stick your hand out to someone local. if this is just a joke or something then fuck off. help is always around if and only if you reach out for it .. it ain't gonna knock on your door. i am sure everyone here will pretty much concur that you should get out of the relationship if you're serious about it .. it's yourself who ultimately make the final decision .. stay or leave .. i don't see the point you posting the question if you're not.
o m g that guys sooo bad ar~ i feel sry for u :( sure u waste a lot of time but however, u finally realize that hes a bad guy, so dont date him anymore otherwise u will suffer again >_< im sure there are still a lot good guys on this world,... so better avoid him la~
I think this is another freaking joke .. she's not telling the whole story .. how she met him and all .. those are important details. If it's real life, then I am sure you should at least know what type of person he is; trustworthy or not; at the very least, his real name and address. If it's over the web, then I say this girl is plain STUPID. You can only believe up to the max of 30% of whatever people put on the web and at least learn to filter out what's believable and what's not .. sound like a kid to me who's having fun with the post. if you need attention, go to your mama and papa .. not here.
that's the last thing she should be worrying about .. bet she's not coming back cuz this post is a joke.
lol so she's saying she wants to stay with the penishead just because she spent 3 years with him and doesn't want those 3 years to be meaningless?
i agree with u but i'm guna give her the benefit of the doubt... lady, forget the guy and just dump him... over the past 3 years, what exactly have u gotten out of it? why are u putting yourself through a relationship where your're not guna get anything out of it?
