Would you mind if your bf/gf is not a virgin?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by Nawainruk, Jul 6, 2008.

  1. Flames

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    Nope, these thing exist, I've known an elderly couple are that like that, they're still happily together
     
  2. iamejyu

    iamejyu New Member

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    i do mind .. ;O
     
  3. vangirl86

    vangirl86 Well-Known Member

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    virgin or not, it doesn't really matter to me. BUT STDS or HIV/AIDS YES!! No matter how much I love the person, if he has a deadly STD, I think I will leave him.
     
  4. thephillip

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    no i dont mind
     
  5. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    lol...get ur partners to test before u have sex with them lor... otherwise u cant know anyway... its not like u can c std's
    btw, if im not mistaken...all STD's are easy to treat if they are discovered at early stage.... best thing is just to not sleep around n have save sex:p
     
  6. xxsweetheartxx

    xxsweetheartxx Well-Known Member

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    I prefer someone more experienced, I definitely don't mind my partner not being a virgin.
     
  7. ricky

    ricky New Member

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    ask yourself first whether you are a virgin or not before you ask your partner. So let's be fair and square:kekekegay:
     
  8. maumau

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    a relationship is not JUST about SEX!
     
  9. turbobenx

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    i would mind if my girl aint a virgin. To me, that's mean she's been used. I want her still a virgin and "pure"...one...lol.....watever do that means....lol.
     
  10. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    ^ so if ud have sex with ur girlfriend ud be using her? right... lets pray to god that ur a virgin otherwise id say ur a pretty ignorant person for thinking like that
     
  11. vangirl86

    vangirl86 Well-Known Member

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    Yes, of course "testing" is the only way to know. I'm no expert who can tell by just looking at them. Well, not all STD's can be treated, and even if they got STD's after sex, majority of the people DO NOT get them checked just because they think that they did not contact any STD's even after like 5-10 partners. Also, most STD's do not have any symptoms; such as HPV or herpes etc. Symptoms really vary from each individual. HPV, hepatitis and HIV/AID's non-treatable and those are deadly.
     
  12. dcdc

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    i do mind and it bothered me the first time i learned that. but truthfully speaking, if your bf/gf has had any sort of intimate relationship going on before meeting you such as in high school/college etc., it's pretty safe to assume that they've had sex before meeting you. not saying it's true for everyone but you can't expect him/her to have waited for you for that moment...
     
  13. MissCheekS

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    anyway... uve had previous gf's so i assume that ur not a virgin.... ?
    its good that u admit that ur ignorant... cuz i def agree to that in this case :)
    i have nothing against ppl who'd want their bf/gf to be virgin... as long as they dont have double standards...

    Hmmm....funny how u compare girls to cars n stuff =/.... if the girl doesnt tell u shes not a virgin how the hell would u know? its not like u can tell? n dont gimme that bullshit about how girls bleed when they do it for the first time....that shit is fake..
    doesnt happen to ALL girls...!

    but oh well... good luck finding a brand new girl -sorc
     
  14. turbobenx

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    lol, i was just gonna say that ( i've deleted the editing).....but otherwise, no i couldnt tell......but when she admits it, i'll be pissed. if she doesnt, then...u kno, o well. i probably went overboard, when comparing a person to a thing. But technically, it's almost the same. And thx, but i dont need luck......yet, because we're doing fine rite now. and btw, i'm NOT a "Fu some long"....or something like that.
     
  15. Flames

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    I bet your were expecting to give your partner a blood bath on your first time :xd:
     
  16. jpeung

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    depends if that girl is popular and hot. if she is then obviously shes not.
    true that girls nowadays lose their virginity fast
     
  17. snowfxz

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    i dont rly care
    cuz if shes not a virgin..all the better in bed?
    lol just look everything from the different angle..it comes out not so bad afterall
     
  18. karsun118

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    People in this world take sex in either extreme and not for what it is, which is really a natural human desire. If we didn't want to do it, then we as a species would cease to exist.

    More than that, there's always a first time for everything and it's not like you're going to get a lot more satisfaction with a virgin then with any other women (unless maybe the girl/boy is a village bicycle that everyone has been on). Furthermore, like others have said, experience can help in a lot of ways.

    It's sad that losing one's virginity has become a status symbol of sorts in today's world. Does it matter though? I don't think so. It's a person's choice if they want to lose theirs and they think it's the right time. We all make mistakes and shouldn't be constantly hindered by them (if that is the case of course).

    Do I want a virgin? I wouldn't mind if they weren't. Because if it's the right time and we're a match (even for a little while) it should be game on ;). Also the end result is going to be the same I think...hate it/love it.

    Basically what I would like to say, after all that is, don't build it up. Make your choices and stick with them (whether they're religious, ethical or otherwise). We're only human :).
     
  19. cffoo2008

    cffoo2008 Member

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    it is not important as long as she is sincere and cherish our relationship.....lol
     
  20. cybel

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    I wouldn't mind if my partner was a virgin or not. That is definitely not a foundation that I build my relationships on. They are many other things which are more important, compatibility, understanding, communication..