Really Confused.Need some help

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by S.N.Gaara, Sep 24, 2008.

  1. S.N.Gaara

    S.N.Gaara Well-Known Member

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    Lol don't know how to put this but.. I just got into a relationship. Kinda weird cause we did the cuddling, hugging, and even kissing b4 actually confessing. This my first :p so I thought it was pretty funny/weird.

    Thought to myself for awhile about this and even asked a close friend, didn't really help much so I wanna know what you guys have to say -sweat .

    I've been wondering, How do you tell the difference between a really good friend and a boy/girl friend.
     
  2. t20lau

    t20lau Well-Known Member

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    Seriously?! What kind of question is this?! I mean come on do you kiss, cuddle and hug all your good friends? Cause I sure dont kiss or cuddle anyone thats not my GF!!!
     
  3. Natsu

    Natsu Well-Known Member

    you're in a relationship!!! so be happy ^^

    good friends, dont hug, cuddle and kiss at all. boyfriend/girlfriend do.
     
  4. mr_evolution

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    Ask yourself, do you wish to spend eternity with him/her?
     
  5. Phoenix

    Phoenix *~Though she be but little, she is fierce~*

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    i hug my good friends though.....
    -rolleyes
     
  6. jdm_s2k

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    how old r u guys first of all?
     
  7. a bit far..... LMFAO

    orr.... think of this in another view.... do you want to make it official that you can only have the one girl.... if it aint official you are allowed to hit on other girls :shifty: :whistling:
     
  8. Aoes

    Aoes Well-Known Member

    qft!!!!!!!
     
  9. S.N.Gaara

    S.N.Gaara Well-Known Member

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    Actually I have thought of that before and ya I do :p . And were 18/17 to answer your question jdm.

    Lol it's just that I have so many questions that I want to ask her but then again I don't want to hurt her. Q's like how far did her last relationship go.. and periods.. how do they work all i kno is that she starts to leak blood and mayb get moody
     
  10. what the hell does that stand for o_O
     
  11. kdotc

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    hahaah wat kinda question is that???boyfriend/girlfriend u're dating but good friend u're not =p
     
  12. lovinglyxx

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    lol.. did u enjoy kissing her? yes = wana be in relationship, no = just friends. seriously, friends with benefits are not the way forward :p lol. simple!
     
  13. Aoes

    Aoes Well-Known Member

    Quoted for Truth! :)
     
  14. ProjectD

    ProjectD VIP yay :]

    just think about what would you would do with a good friend.. and what you would do with a girlfriend ...
    simple as that
     
  15. reno

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    its not just abt hte kissing to judge it by
    u can always take it further :whistling:
     
  16. S.N.Gaara

    S.N.Gaara Well-Known Member

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    :( lol i suck at this kind of stuff and thats why its over already lol
     
  17. Flames

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    Oh well too bad thats life, just prepare yourself for next round
     
  18. brown_bear

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    ooOOo wow ya actually followed up with this and told the ending....


    there there....plenty more fish in the see~~~!

    and by your "lol" at the end...im guessing you're all okies with it nows...good job (Y)
     
  19. cybel

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    *hugs* I think the problem with some relationships that start out the way yours did is that one doesn't know if its a serious relationship or not. Honestly, I find, the best way is to ask.. You might not like the answer but at least you'll know what the other person's thinking..
     
  20. S.N.Gaara

    S.N.Gaara Well-Known Member

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    What sucks is that i still care >_> and she let me off easy by telling me shes not ready for a relationship.. iunno if thats the truth or she just doesnt have feelings.. so im pretty confused haha. So i thought to myself that I shouldn't force her but.. she's shy so iunno if she'll come to me what do i do? Im just waiting and its annoying b/c theres some weird feeling that keeps bugging me =.= ne wise advise oh asian ones :p