Would you still feel the same about a girl if you found out she went through an abortion before? (Talking about Highschool)
If you truly love someone, you are not judgmental of what he/ she did before. Mistakes can be made and we are only human so my answer to the question is Yes, i will feel the same.
ah, i guess it was just a big shock when first heard about it... but yeah, you're right. The more I thought about it, the less and less important it seems.
If you really love her, then you would accept her as whole. And besides, all that is and should be left in history. Focus on the future, because we don't know what will happen tomorrow.
I don't really know how I would feel in reality cuz I haven't been in such a situation. Personally, I think I would feel extremely uncomfortable. Yes, thing doesn't seem serious now but as time goes on and I believe people will have that resentment hidden somewhere. This is different if the girl had an abortion of your child or something related to you though.
it doesn't matter i guess... if i would be a guy, i wouldn't mind. it's only my opinion. maybe she couldn't have that baby? (no money etc.) the other side is if she knew she can not have a child, why without protection?! T-T NVM.
hmm.. going through abortion is a mentally exhausting procedure so i guess it depends on how she took it and your relationship with her before and after
It really depends on the situation etc But I think my feelings and the way I see that girl would still remain the same...
it depends on the relationship you have with her.. im assuming its a girlfriend you're asking about.. because.. a close friend of mine (a girl) was in the same situation.. i was surprised at first of course but after a while.. its not a big deal.. she had a choice and she made it even if it contrasts my beliefs but we're friends and i support her.. but on the other hand im not sure how i would feel exactly if she was my other half... ultimately i think if i love her.. it wouldnt matter.. look to the future and not dwell in the past.. and yes as mentioned earlier.. everyone makes mistakes..
I think it's quite a "normal" decision (depending on the situation ofcoz) to have an abortion when you're still in highschool... soooo... why do you judge the person when you know she did right?
If it were me, I would take a HUGE double take. Not saying that it will end up resulting in a negative fashion, but dont just pass it by. I agree with jackycheunglove's statment. I would also want to know how she decided, how she felt when it happened. I mean if she regretted it, or even just felt very badly about it or did she just wave it off as something simple. I would also want to know if she would do it again if the situation were to arise again. Hopefully things work out for the best!
everyone one makes mistakes... some make small booboos some make HUGE mistakes... the important thing is whether she learnt from them... some girls r dumb enough not to do things the right way even after an abortion... where as others goes through a great deal of pain for the loss of her child... i think everyone deserves a second chance after their punishment... if the girl standing right before u is a whole new person then y drag her past to the present... but if she's still the bimbo she was before then u mite wanna reconsider...
i wouldn't try to let it get in the way of a good thing - she probably had her reasons, so maybe try to understand those?
lol the part of me that goes "HOT DAMN!" would be going overboard but the part of me that goes.. let's be nice goes.. "let's not judge" with something that big the "HOT DAMN" part usually takes over and I'd be like damn woman what's it like to kill off your unborn child.. THAT THING WAS HALF OF YOUUUUU! yeah i can be pretty callous sometimes
