Do you ever get over your first true love?!

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by t20lau, Dec 15, 2008.

  1. Natsu

    Natsu Well-Known Member

    yeah will get over it but she will always be there in your mind popping up once in a while ~ definitely wont forget ~
     
  2. lillogadget

    lillogadget Member

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    The first love didn't work out for a reason. It's your last ones that count. I guess you could say yeah I did get over it.
     
  3. tiffystars

    tiffystars Well-Known Member

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    hmm... there's always gonna be that soft spot hahaha... when you think back and think "aww.. man..." and then the guilt comes..and then it dies off again pretty quickly. I'll never forget my first true love... he was special. and i rarely ever speak to him these days. but that's life. everyone changes!!
     
  4. gladiator

    gladiator Member

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    that person will always have special place, who knows maybe one day we'll meet again
     
  5. cyn029

    cyn029 Member

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    of course you do! If you don't it'll be unheatlhy for you. It just feels like you never will when you actually are going through it. In a little bit of time, you start asking yourself why you were even with him/her in the first place.
     
  6. sars4tw

    sars4tw Well-Known Member

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    First true love....obviously she has a very special place...took 2 years to get over it though.
    Almost got back together...sure wasn't a good idea. Still friends...lol
     
  7. andrewf444

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    The first love will always remain in our hearts 'cause that's the first time we receive special affection/love/touch from others 'aside from our parents/families. Prolly that's why people say breaking up for the first time hurts the most
     
  8. Sweetsumigirl

    Sweetsumigirl Well-Known Member

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    I know for me it's hard to forget my 1st love. After we broke up I went to college in another town. When ever I go back to my home town and see some of the ppls we use to hang out with it reminds me of memories. Its been 4 years since we broken up and its still hard for me to let go. I have dated 2 ppls already after him but none of them has givin me the same feelin that my 1st love gave me. For me I don't know when I'll get over him but I have learn and mature thru the experience. Like I learn not to talk about and try not to remind ppls around me of him. I keep all these emotions to my self.
     
  9. wizama

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    It is hard sometimes trying to forget, but hey it isn't the end of the world. There are so many girls out there. There will be some that are better than your first love.
     
  10. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member

    i dont think you do,
    unless it ended badly

    for me, my first love ended badly, but he still has a special place in my heart.
     
  11. ih8nayms

    ih8nayms Member

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    Always and always
     
  12. ggbggmoi

    ggbggmoi New Member

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    yes u will get over your first lvoe but u will definitelty remember him or her as they have played an important role in ur life at one stage
     
  13. kokoronohikari

    kokoronohikari New Member

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    I don't know. It really depends on how invested you were in them. Like, I don't think I'll ever get over my first love (I really REALLY liked this guy, though sometimes, I'm not even sure why) but some people are able to move on past their first love, which is a good thing, developmentally.
     
  14. lovinglyxx

    lovinglyxx Well-Known Member

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    i like what u said here, very true :)
     
  15. 5131420

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    Don't really know what to say, cuz I'm still together with MY FIRST LOVE..
    But, I don't think I'll ever get over him and stop loving him.

    But there's one thing I'll be sure of and that is.. I'll never love someone else the way I love my bf.
     
  16. xdly

    xdly Well-Known Member

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    Dunno who my real first love is :p
    All of my exes are still friends with me...
    But they're too busy with their own life yet :D
    Same for me hahaha
     
  17. yeah... i'm all good as long as he's not in my life anymore...
     
  18. xdly

    xdly Well-Known Member

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    Aawhhh Dawn.... *hug*
     
  19. hahaha... thanks DL... i'm all good... just don't want old memories refreshed to confuse my emotions....
     
  20. xdly

    xdly Well-Known Member

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    yep yep... just enjoy your present and future ;)