hey guys i got some triangle cr*p going on well i kind of need some help im not sure if i should just give up on this girl or not. well about 1 year ago my best friend started to like me. i told her how i felt (i didnt like her, better if we stayed friends) I was pretty clear about that. So i thought i all ended a years ago. around 4 months ago her best friend (lets call her girl B) started to like me also, and i had some feelings for too. well everything was going fine between both of us untill at one night she told girl B that she still liked me. well thats when the problems started to come. After that night girl B started to push me away. I guess its because she doesnt want to hurt our best friend. Well now girl B is back in college and i wont be seeing her for another few months, but we started to talk less (mainly becuase shes starting to give me one answer questions when i try to start a convo) and she always tells me she has to "brb" but she never tells me when shes back. This has really been bothering me lately. I dont know if i should just give up with her... im also kinda pissed off at my friend that kinda broke us apart. what do you guys think?
i say go for it n don't let go. tell her what u think about the situation. although some girls don't wanna break apart from their best friend. good luck
sounds like you can pimp the bitches. why bother with that one girl?? you can easily hook up with other bitches. screw this one and go for others
hahah.. wtf.. sounds like you need to back off... Bros before Hoes.. and I dunno what the female version of that saying would be..
You shouldn't hate best friend for telling girl B. All girls do that, unless they're considerate. Tell girl B your feelings, and if that doesn't shake her up, then get over it. At least you would know her top priority.
go to B's college this weekend n tell her she's the one u like... tell her she's more important than anything else... u got nothing to lose
i think if they are true friends, you should go after her. you don't like your best friend, you can't make yourself love her she should understand that you can't fake feelings and you like the other girl who is her best friend someone can be happy there...
yea I was thinking of that one after I wrote my comment.. but then I was trying think of something that might have a closer meaning.. Like.. Sistas before... Niggas... -lol.. I only said that one cause I was the Mr. Chi City thread.. hahaha someone think up a better phrase... thas just vulgar.. why would you even use such a language..
lol honestly, i don't know why girls gotta be bitches by giving one word answers if you don't wanna get it going, then fuck, just say it. no need to give the one word treatment. and if dude doesn't like you, deal with it and move on. dudes move on if girls aren't interested, so why shouldn't it be vice-versa? and what's up with the friends hooking up? feels a little weird to me, esp if best friends.... if you are truly best friends, that's fucking dirty imo.... that's like...... that's like..... ewww -sick2
lol i know what you mean those one word answers really got to me. well she has a break coming up.. im planning to ask her out the the movies when she gets back. just me and her, if he says no i guess ill know what my answer is. untill then i guess ill just leave her alone, let her and i have some time to think. i was thinking what is there to lose? if it doesnt work ill just ask her to be friends, its better than what we have now. what do you guys think?
Don't give up. Go for it. You should tell girl B that you like her and not her friend. Surprise her by going to her college and tell her your feelings. You cannot control/prevent other girls from loving you, including girl B's friend. The only thing that matters is you feeling towards girl B is true.
Tell girl B that even if she doesn't want to date you, you wont date the friend either way. But please ask her out on a date in person, and tell her everything you feel about her in person. If you are too scared to express yourself in real life, and choose to do it through email/msn/telephone, you might be putting yourself in the risk of failure. Girl B would be more likely to go on a date with you if you do it in person.
it is over, sorry about that =/ you shouldnt be too annoying, she is already trying to avoid you or maybe she is not even trying, she just doesnt care much anymore and doesnt have time to give you
