Had a girl last xmas, took her out on a date and from that day on, became gf n bf. But days after, we broke up after i kept askin her why she doesnt respond to my texts or calls to her cell phone. She has since sed im not her type and said it was over, which has made me hate her so much to the point of not wanting to be friends with her anymore. Since we go to the same uni, I hardly look one eye at her and yea, its been like that since we started Semester 2. So guys..any reason to give her another chance (be friends again) or hold that grudge like 4eva til she admits and apologises? Some of my friends say no for leading me on in that way
^ its harder to hate someone than to like someone... so let me get this straight...you went on 1 date...she doesnt answer your txts etc...you broke up with her...and she says your not her type..??...did you guys officially bf/gf..? mebe ya should be the bigger man here and just forgive her....since its been a while nows...??
Be wise and forgive and forget, these playing bitches will never get a good end.... And also its better to have a friend than losing one.
well, i don't see why you have to hate her la... she told you you're not her type in the beginning, before things got serious.. it probably would've hurt more if you guys got more serious..>.<
Dont be hating, just walk away and forget about her. Mayhap reflect on what you could do better in the future.
errr .. well is she asking to be your friend again? and besides .. you went out for a few days .. no need to hate her
Sounds like she was never interested in you; and she went too fast with you in the first place without thinking if she likes you or not. I don't think you should take the relationship serious, cause you guys didn't even date for that long; in fact, it's not even a relationship so you guys didn't really date. I think the only apology she should acknowledge is not being informative about the break up. She should've elaborated, like tell you reasons why she chose to be your girlfriend in the first place. Other than that, no need to hold a grudge on a girl for that long. If she's not asking for you to forgive her , you shouldn't expect one at all. I believe she wants to loose all possible connections with you; cause she didn't end it up all that nicely, so she didn't want to be friends even. I don't believe that she was THAT wrong; she was just not that into you.
perfect analysis of my situation. I dont even know why she led me on in the first plc, hence thats why i hate her for so long. I gues it was my bad luck, i dno, but if she has to get another man, i wish he could do the same back to her so I would feel less hurt like the way she done it to me. No wonder she probably had so many relationships i think, prolly she done the same thing to me with her previous bfs or somethin.
why does it bother u ? just live your life and if ur roads meet again, you have all the time to think if u will forgive her
Be a better person and just let your emotions shimmer down. Learn and live, mayhap you might find a better person than her in the future.
Don't hate her because it won't change anything. If it's too hard to be friend with her,simply say a 'hello' when you see her. Maybe then one day she will realise how bad she has been (dating you when she knew you weren't her type)
Yes, just forget about her. You will find your life so much lighter when you do this. Go look for another girl, forget about your desire for her to have bad karma, just forget about her completely. Also, this makes you a better person, no girls like guys who hold grudge on a girl just for that. That being said, if any girls know that that's your personality, they wont date a guy like you.
I think you should let it go for your own good. Having such strong hate feelings are just not good. Forgiveness will take time, but the feeling of hatred needs to go. That's my advice.
i don't want to be mean or anything .. but just wanted to get a few thoughts out. actually this will probably sound a bit mean, but meh ok so .. you guys dated for .. a few days? did you two actually say you were bf and gf? well i'm just saying that even if you did, a few days doesn't count you go and wish that something bad would happen to her, not cool. that seems pretty immature, imo. ok she was wrong to just ignore you and break it off like she did, but it's not like you two had a serious relationship going. and i'm thinking you would only be hurt if you REALLY liked her, but obviously not because then you just started hating her and did SHE say she wants your forgiveness? seems to me like she doesn't even care. and its not like she's the worst person in the world, she's not waiting for your oh-so-important forgiveness. it seriously isn't the most important thing in the world to her. if you want to forgive her then go ahead but i don't think she gives a damn basically i'm thinking you're just as bad to hope that something bad will happen to her. so it seems like you're acting really high and mighty asking if she deserves your forgiveness
So you hate her cause she "rejected" you? cmon... grow up.. guess it was kinda a hint when she ignored you, but since you kept bugging her she just had to say it harsch.. And yea.. you always will see the negative side of someone when ur not in love of someone anymore.. but does that mean she doesnt have any good sides which might let you like her?
with the amount of time wasted holding this grudge against her, you coulda done something else.... shift your energy of hatred of her away from her because it is useless....dont you think?? only YOU can make you feel the way you feel...not her
