Relationship

Discussion in 'The Rant Section' started by asin777, Sep 11, 2007.

  1. asin777

    asin777 Member

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    Hi my first post. I'm curious how would i make a long distance relationship work? My relationship had just became long distance, we live in two different continent. we both love each other a lot, and yet we can't be together. We are now about to break up, because we don't see a future together. i'm so sadden by it. Any advice?
     
    #1 asin777, Sep 11, 2007
  2. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

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    You dont have to post twice in 2 sections ;)
     
    #2 wind2000, Sep 11, 2007
  3. asin777

    asin777 Member

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    sorry i post it on the wrong forum
     
    #3 asin777, Sep 11, 2007
  4. Retsyo

    Retsyo Well-Known Member

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    If you two truely love each other, the distance doesn't really matter, I go through the same problem too because I do a lot of over sea traveling to England and stuff with my father and my boyfriend is here in the US, but we are still together, love isn't about the distance. He always feels so close to me even though we are physically far. Besides when your old enough you can travel over to see him/her.
     
    #4 Retsyo, Jan 25, 2009
  5. weilinny

    weilinny Well-Known Member

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    I guess the question is will you two ever get to be together long term. If it is temporary, then it can work knowing that eventually you two will be together again, but if neither of you are willing to move to be together, then it's better to end it early.
     
    #5 weilinny, Jan 25, 2009
  6. Great Sage Equal of Heaven

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    well if you both agree on it.. better do it now.. then let it drag on
     
    #6 Great Sage Equal of Heaven, Jan 25, 2009
  7. fable

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    Well...let it go.If my experiences in watching TV drama are anything to go by, long distance hardly ever work. A relationship needs maintenance and i doubt it can be done even with our advanced IT. So cut short the pain, let it go, so both of you can start a new chapter in your life.
     
    #7 fable, Feb 3, 2009
  8. caveman

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    forget it...it doesnt work..soon you will begin to look for others and slowly the love will fade.
     
    #8 caveman, Feb 5, 2009
  9. kol_pol111

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    well true love wont fade away, who knows, maybe you'll meet her in the near future
     
    #9 kol_pol111, Feb 12, 2009
  10. negiqboyz

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    first off, there is NO FUCKING TRUE LOVE in this world. Love doesn't fade away but will change over time. our needs change as we age .. LDR doesn't work if you ask me. If you're a strong believer, then more power to you. But then again, if you're so confident, you wouldn't be making this post in the first place. So yeah .. break it off and find yourself another bitch.
     
    #10 negiqboyz, Feb 12, 2009
  11. ~*Dawn*~

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    i believe in true love... for as long as it last...

    a happily ever after relationship can never b guaranteed... even marriages end up breaking sometimes... if both of u still have strong feelings for each other y do u have to make a decision so soon?? just keep it long distance till u don't love each other anymore... both of u r still young (from te sound of things) if ur not desperately seeking a spouse just let it hang for a bit if it's more painful to end it...
     
    #11 ~*Dawn*~, Feb 13, 2009
  12. mr_evolution

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    But it'll be more painful if you end it later
     
    #12 mr_evolution, Feb 16, 2009
  13. sidhe

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    that was in 2007. i wonder if you worked it out and moved, or ended it?
     
    #13 sidhe, Feb 21, 2009
  14. dkamho

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    Basically long distance relationship never works FULL STOP. I am also in a long term long distance relationship, I have been seperated with my girl for about 1 yr and my love n feelings are not as strong as they used to be. She wants to come over to get married but I just want to be with her and not to get married cos I am not ready. I will give this opportunity to see how much i miss her and want her but my guess it will not work and will prob be over before xmas.
     
    #14 dkamho, Mar 11, 2009
  15. arnica

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    As much as I'd to see your relationship work out .. long distance relationships unfortunately rarely work out. The time spent apart from one another is so painful, and eventually one of you will fall for someone that is close by.

    Good luck with your relationship though!!!

    (Y)
     
    #15 arnica, Mar 11, 2009
  16. jwslam

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    thanks for digging up a 2 year old thread
    as to OP, they're probably apart now
    if they're still together, props to them
     
    #16 jwslam, Mar 11, 2009
  17. thmonkey88

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    it depends when you will see him again and how long this long distance wil keep up. if its going to last longer than 1 yr than maybe it's better just leave it and see other ppl because you're still young! why not go out and experience... you shouldnt tie yourself down when he/she isnt even around
     
    #17 thmonkey88, Mar 14, 2009
  18. caveman

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    forget it. it doesnt work..leave...spare yourself
     
    #18 caveman, Mar 14, 2009