birthdays are really special.... i would never do something like that... matter fact! i would love my girlfriend soOo much, i would think about doing some SPECIAL for her for her birthday... thats what a boyfriend should do... gatta realize what is important!
from my experience, when the guy first wants you to be his gf, he'll do anything! then when he gets you, he won't care as much -____-"
ok im a guy so i'll tell you what was probably running through his mind. to start off sometimes we feel lazy and need a little push and have the personality of... ok if she doesnt bother me enough then i'll just ignore it kinda thing. Another thing is... this might jsut be me; but when it comes to traveling thats a big nono. =/