You are giving me a headache... Wak Yeh Um sai wak Choot Chiong dude Tim tou wai zhi. lol. Look.. even supermodels have their phobia of losing their contours. While men most of the time, wants to be the alpha male to be on the hunt and very often we have been misunderstood. I dare say that many guys are kids at heart and cheeky. I will tell you this though, there is always a price to pay when we succumb to temptations. Unless we are total bastards, best to do the right thing. That is why our lives are ran by a minority who holds most of the wealth and power Check out this vid. You find wisdom in it http://tinyurl.com/2kc66d
well we'll never know how he's going to treat his life down the line.. whether this is something that's nothing.. or a precursor to something big.. we'll never know... you should see this instead.. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kLDitGAUrno
Nice gangsta jam. Hes wicked ! lol Nb will find a way. We all do somehow. I try to remember the things I have "forgotten".. Nice little contentment in a package actually is easy. We complicate it too much sometimes I think...
well apparently everyone has their own interpretation of the word "cheating" one big applause for getting back to ur senses n not going further than kissing *clap clap*...but u obviously u do think u did something bad...otherwise u wouldnt b asking why u dont feel guilty etc blablablablabla.... i dont know whats wrong with u, maybe uve become a bit sensitive since the radio incident....so weird...always hating but ok whatever u like douche-hellothar
i was lil worried when u said u wanted to tell her... confessing to a wife is different from confessing a priest... it's much harder for a wife to forgive and pretend nothing ever happened... and i'm really glad u realised how much u love ur wife i really do hope u'll do whatever u can to make her the happiest woman on earth
its called forbiden fruit dude. you are playing with taboo stuff in a married life that is why you may not feel guilty because some where deep down you like it thus it is exciting. this matter may be known as cheating or a mistake, lol in your case it would seem to be niether as it only happen once, but from your wife point of view, it may be an act of cheating or intro to it. lol the next time you kiss her that is if it does happen again, ask your self if you like it or like the girl her self. XD
I honestly think that this is probably the best decision. So, have you spoken to the female colleague ever since or is it just awkward at work?
I agree with you. cheating is cheating. well guy do you like your ur girl kissing other guy? If your fine with that i don't know what to say and if you not ok with it then don't kiss other girl. If i got a girl that kiss other guy she getting a boot.
i think so too .. no, we have not seen each other since .. we actually work different hours - hers schedule is from 5:00 AM - 2:00 PM and mines is between 9-6 or more..
Maybe you don't feel guilty because you feel like your wife didn't do a good job in keeping you satisfied.
Cheating is Cheating, but shit also happen in life and life goes on... You try something, you learn something and you will always grow and the cycle will never end... Just follow your heart and be happy because sometimes even things that turns out bad could have been worst, therefore, cherrish those moment that you have... Shit, I'm tired...
Ya'll just blowing this small incidence way out of proportion. A kiss is just a kiss. If it was intenional, then it's cheating. But yeah, everyone has their own definition of "cheating". If you're such a sensitve person and define something so petty to be cheating, then you have serious problem.
lol or maybe u can see it from other's perspective, like i said i know these things happen n u didnt have the intention to do it but in my book: it is still cheating cheating for me is being unfaithful to ur lover PHYSICALLY (kissing, sex) or MENTALLY/EMOTIONALLY (going out on dates with another while u have a wife, telling another woman u miss her in a special way) Maybe ppl who do see this as cheating think u have a problem for thinking this is not cheating i never said u had a problem for what ur thinking but u havent answered my question from before, if ur wife was to kiss another guy would u think its cheating (ud probably say no now cuz u did it urself ?) here's something ON CHEATING "Some couples simply believe that cheating constitutes doing anything, whether verbal or physical, that one would not do in front of their significant other. Such examples would include: expressing attraction to another person, electronic communications, kissing, making out, and sexual relations. Many people consider cheating to be any violation of the mutually agreed-upon rules or boundaries of a relationship, which may or may not include sexual monogamy. For example, in some polyamorous relationships, the concepts of commitment and fidelity do not necessarily hinge on complete sexual or emotional monogamy. Whether polyamorous or monogamous, the boundaries to which people agree vary widely, and sometimes these boundaries evolve within each relationship." source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cheating everyone has a different view of cheating n a kiss is just a kiss n it can mean nothing but if i have a bf n i kiss another guy its still cheating some couples have an agreement that they can do whatever they like as long as the other doesnt find out, hey, whatever floats ur boat n if u didnt think this was wrong n all that then why were u even thinking abt telling? i dont care abt what u do or dont do, by all means, kiss every girl u can get n tell urself ur not cheating im just giving u my honest opinion like i always do, i am not here to make u feel better but to give u another point of view just because ppl dont agree with u doesnt mean they have a problem negiq if everyone in this world had the same point of view there wouldnt be so many difficlties?
What I want to know, are you conscious from what you are doing? Do you realize that you are kissing your colleague? Are you aware that this is not your wife? If you can answer these questions with yes, then probably you also love you colleague. In that case I think you are cheating.
I appreciate people's opinions but some of you really think way out of this world .. I guess the bottom line is that we define cheating and love differently .. on that note, perhaps even marriage. After thinking about it for many nights, the only rational conclusion to me not feeling guilty is that I don't have any feeling with the kiss. That's the end of it. I weighed it against my marriage and I don't feel it's anything important. Telling my wife would only create problems for our marriage cuz we all know WOMEN with their insecurity and imagination. Marriage to me is when two people commit to one another .. our hearts and emotions .. not physical per se cuz we all know that death is inevitable. That doesn't mean we go out and sleep around or whatever. I think it's more important that you're staying with your wife/husband because you truly love him/her, love to be with him/her, and cherish him/her. On that note, I don't classify my incidence as cheating. Honesty and communication are important of any relationship too .. for me, rather than lying, I simply left it unsaid to avoid something which I knew would happen having said it .. That's not lying per se but if she does ask one day, I don't think I will hide it either.
