lol sorry that's just not how it works... walking away admits ur immaturity to handle the situation... letting ur feelings/emotions overtake you so that you can't calm down during the argument is another way way of saying u can't deal with an adult conversation... if ur boss calls u out in the work place, are u just gonna walk away and deal with it when both sides calm down? like when u get ur ass fired? no, u sit down and u talk it out then and there... all the tweeners out there that complain about "drama" are a buncha losers that dont' understand what it really means to be adult about something... you argue because you think you're right, fact is you're not... otherwise there wouldn't be an arguement in the first place... are your parents always right? no, but if you're gonna go against what your parents believe or say... atleast give them a heads up or talk about it b4 doing it... if u willingly disobey then ur an idiot and u deserve to get shat on afterwards... again... if you really are as adult, as mature as you say you are and truly think ur parents are unfair, unjust, move ur ass out... otherwise... stfu...:Talktohand:
Different situations, you use different tactics, I'm sure everyone agrees with that, but sometimes people have to know when to back off, pick your battles. That's pretty much I wanted to say, I'm speaking about arguments in general. Aoes, are you a parent who argues with your kids a lot cause you sound really pissed...lol
I just think the parents are in a bad mood and just want to scold someone because of the pressure from society. There are also problems associated with the financial as well as work based stress.
No, I'm not a parent... and won't be for a while... I know my limits... sure, different situations calls for different tactics... but if u choose to walk away from confrontation it will just continue and snowball... either you don't stir shit up in the first place, or u confront it... walking away after starting shit up is irresponsible... arguing with ur parents isn't a war, it shouldn't be a war... so unlike a war, not everything goes... if u think ur right, u step up to the plate and take it... don't be half assed and walk away only choosing to step up when u can win the argument... when u lose, you apologize and think it through, try to learn something rather than fcking up again the next day... if u urself can't admit defeat do u think ur parents will?
your parents will think they are right until you become an adult...... once they see you are capable of being independent they will take your side of the story....
Always look things from both sides, you have your reasons, they have theirs, you may think their's might be wrong, but it may turn out that they are correct in the end
well, i think its a good thing that you can argue with your parents, you should enjoy it ^^ and let them know what you are thinking. Some people can't even talk to their parents lol.. I mean, some parent just don't talk to their child ... Like i have a father, but since i'm able to talk, we didn't have a real conversation. It's always like, he's asking me to do something and that it. lol .. You should let your parents know what is your opinion, and they are not always right, sometime we learn from child xD
Haha i know the feelign too! It's from both of my parents too! Just what lala said I just agree with them for the sake of it so reduce the amount of arguements, and to bite my tongue then bitch about them to my boyfriend or to my sister, kidna relieves the stress a bit too Also, since i have been to uni i have hardly been talking to them and we have very less arguments now, i think it's because i appreciate them more and they appreciate me more too now that i don't see them until i'm on breaks. So my advice is that either don't tlak to them as much or just bite your tongue until you leave home, then things may change OR you can just lock yourself in your own bedroom like Intraland does
my dad is pretty weird sometimes too..they think theyre always right cus they have more "experience" in life.
