Should friends date friends?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by hobogloves99, Jun 20, 2009.

  1. iris

    iris Well-Known Member

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    Make it happen!
     
  2. Just... DOOOOOO ITTT ^^
     
  3. kawaiigirl

    kawaiigirl Well-Known Member

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    anyway, you seem to have your answer already, why ask other people opinion ^^
    If you like him, and he like you, just go ahead :] If you circle of friends are really your freinds, they gonna support you whatever your final decison is ! FIGHT !!
     
  4. hobogloves99

    hobogloves99 Well-Known Member

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    ^yeah, i had my answer as what i wanted, but i wasn't sure what is right and the best.
    THANKS GUYS!!!
     
  5. MissCheekS

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    if u n ur friends like eachother then go for it...i wouldnt see why not... but keep in mind ur no just longer friends when ur dating....
     
  6. lollish

    lollish Well-Known Member

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    If the friendship doesn't mean that much to you, then by all means go for it. Because in the end if things don't work out, chances are you'll no longer be friends.
     
  7. dhunter

    dhunter Well-Known Member

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    what sort of friends do yo uhave if they aren't there to support you...
    yes break up can break cirlce of friends but normal through one of the parties not getting over it and being petty.

    I went out with my friend and ended up marrying her....
     
  8. hobogloves99

    hobogloves99 Well-Known Member

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    seems like the majority of you r telling me to go for it.
    can't live life with regrets i guess.
     
  9. if you haven't fallen into the friend ladder than by all means bang away.... that's the point of dating right?
     
  10. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    If u never take risks then u will always be regretting what u havent done in the past.... so u can live ur life as a coward n play safe or just go for it n see what comes out
     
  11. Phoenix

    Phoenix *~Though she be but little, she is fierce~*

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    before i became bf/gf with my bf....we started out as friends...an now we been 2geva for like 3.5 years..i think u should go for it...no use wondering about what ifs an live with regrets..as others have told u...
    if it doesnt work out then at least u know u tried an then move on init..
     
  12. lollish

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    There are two types of risks: smart risks and idiotic risks. It's up to the person involved to weigh out the pros and cons of their situation and decide if it's a risk worth taking.

    Like I said, if your friendship with this person and all the other friends involved isn't very deep, then by all means, go for it because you don't have much to lose. On the other hand, if you value what you have with these people, then don't risk it. If things go sour, the friends will feel as if they have to choose sides and it'll make things awkward for everyone, thus forcing you to end the friendships altogether.

    I only give this advice because I've experienced and witnessed it first hand. Take it or leave.
     
  13. Natsu

    Natsu Well-Known Member

    just do it. you dont wanna have the "what ifs" happening. you'll probably regret it later ~
     
  14. hem

    hem Well-Known Member

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    too complicated. if you want to stay friends. better to let it be and stay friends. Unless you really like the person and really really want to give it a try. Otherwise, as mentioned earlier. NO!
     
  15. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    wait wtf? ur a girl ? lol but yeh, if you dont date your friends, someone else will :p
     
  16. peachey

    peachey Well-Known Member

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    Yeah, that's what I believed, too. But hey, nothing comes of nothing.
     
  17. hobogloves99

    hobogloves99 Well-Known Member

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    u thought i was a guy?
    very true though, don't wanna watch someone u like end up with someone else
    well no turning back anymore. i've decided
     
  18. Phil

    Phil 香港 PA 社團 揸Fap 人

    lol, yer, always thought u were aguy
    but now i know ur agirl :shifty: haha
     
  19. hobogloves99

    hobogloves99 Well-Known Member

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    ^i know ur a guy though
     
  20. Flames

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    We've even seen her pic....with her dragon tattoo and black formal dress