abortion durrrrr!!! like kelly chen i cant stand the look of fat women, blame the HK celebs. if they turn into fat slobs then liposuction!!!-bigsmile
true love like this one only happens in TVB what if ur gf just has a quite big belly and "elephant legs"? that' not consider to be overweight........(i guess guys will still say NO most likely )
that fat girl is vivien y. The series is "A Great Way to Care" the double chin looks so fake.......but the one in Love On Diet is so good
thats gross, if we were married i wouldn't leave my wife for that reason BUT there would be no intimacy and i wouldn't find her attractive any more, actually without being fully clothed it would probably repulse me, so i would discuss these matters before a serious relationship, something i would have to stick to too.
hmm......you know you say fat...but what is considered fat though? I mean like some people class UK size 14 and above as fat, some people class size 10 and above fat, some people class size 18 and above fat...you know, what do you count as fat first? But if a person is unwilling to lose weight and stay like a slob, in all honesty, giving up on yourself like that and letting yourself waste away doesnt make you attractive, even if you fell in love with them to begin with, when they give up on themselves, it does make you think...wtf? Personally, I know being shallow is part of life, as well as success and stuff... so...i would have to go with, if you dont shape up, then you can get up and walk out that door. x
shini_d is right... what is your perception of fat first?? in everybody's eyes fat comes to certain sizes... i'm a UK size 12 and have been since i remembered, some people will say that's average and some say is fat.. i wouldn't dump someone who has gotten fat, just like my BF he's always been skinny and i want him to put the weight on but it's hard too coz he's got a crappy diet but if the person is getting out of hand and is "health risking" fat, then yes i would ask them to lose the weight and sitll won't do it and be a slob and been a "jew may die chung" then yes i will dump him
^size 12....(i aint sure what that is in US size LOL) maybe u just have wider bones. just go to buy those body fat monitor and see if u're fat or not, everyone should have one haaa
Then, what is fat for you guys ? 50kg ? 60kg ? 70kg ? 80kg ? In China, I do not think there is a lot of obese people I am wrong? (I mean young girls)Compared to the United States lol, Usually, asian are skinny.
Some fat is not a problem cos it shows curves in a girl, but if it goes to the point you see spare tyres in a girl or the girl lost her shape then thats too fat
This would be me. I'm Shini.D, just haven't been around in a very long time. But anyway, back to topic... In China, their standards of what is fat is different to those in say America. Hong Kong, China, Japan, Korea... those countries over ruled by thin girls would consider what the UK or US consider as normal as fat cause it is in their countries. So give a indication of what fat is first before the convo continues. x
^ i think the fat thing doesn't depend so much on where you're from but how your partner sees you as. if we measure our weight based on our environment, then might as well die trying becuase like you said, the standard everywhere is different. at the end of the day, we care how we look to our significant other .. right?
If you asked her once to lose weight and she refused. What makes you think if you ask her twice, she will? So, I would probably break up with her.
