So my friend (whom I'm living with) has a girlfriend who crashes at our place everyday because she's jobless and has no where else better to be. Normally, I wouldn't mind because she's my friend's GF, except that she's like a f*cking tornado. Every time she exits a room you'll find a mess, ranging from empty pop cans, garbage, dirty dishes, or laundry. She eats out of our fridge (without paying for any of the food), and never washes the dishes. And she has the nastiest eating habits ever. The other day, we bought take-out, so she came over to freeload. She ended up eating my friend's portion because her portion wasn't filling enough, and then when she was done with that, she stared at my plate like she wanted to eat it, too. I swear, her stomach is like a bottomless pit. If she didn't have a fast metabolism, she'd probably be about the size of a whale. Oh, and after brushing her teeth, she never wipes the sink area, so there's excess toothpaste stains all over the mirror and faucet. It's not my sink, but it bothers me every time I pass by to use the bathroom and see it. Her clothes are strewn all over the living room floor, such that I don't even remember what the color of our carpet is anymore. I told my friend to talk to her about it, and every time he does, she's good for about 24 hours, but then she gets amnesia and reverts to her old self again. Despite expressing his thoughts about her habits, there seems to be no change. I'm not sure if this is part of her upbringing and she thinks it's a normal way to live or she just doesn't care. The other day, she was giving my other roommate crap for having a calender of some female models up on the wall. WTFFF??!? You're eating and sleeping at OUR apartment, and you have the nerve to walk around dictating policy?? You're lucky we're not charging you for rent. Jesus Christ, I don't know what my friend see's in her. Roy, I hope you're reading this.
hahahaha just leave this thread open on ur desktop n leave it like that for a few hrs... im sure he will read it.... i know its annoying, ive dealt with this when i lived with a guy....when i got back from holidays...he left the dishes for me n left for holidays too.... it sucks well... not much u can do if uve talked to ur friend already..... maybe u can try n talk to her directly....? not sure if it would have more impact on her.... otherwise the only thing u can do when u cant take it no more is move out............ or if its his place u tell him to move out....
your situation is not that bad .. when i was in college, i lived with one guy (my roommate) and two other girls (friends too); then my roommate has a guy friend who couldn't find a place to live so he asked to take him in .. okay .. sure .. "i'll think about it" .. only to see the guy already moved in when i got back from winter break .. from there .. horrors unleashed .. he started to woo the gal roommate; took up the bathroom for 2 hours every night (together); took over the living room space - tv, stereo, desk, couch ..; ate our food; used our phone for long distance; used condom clogged up the shower and toilet bowl; found under the bed .. clothes and chips crumbs were everywhere; took our parking spot too; and his pets turtle and lizard wandered all over the place ....the guy didn't pay a penny i couldn't stand it so i spoke up .. everybody hated me but i didn't care and nothing changed except now .. the "loose" bills were cleared up and someone paid for them and i haven't talked to anyone of them since i moved out as soon as the lease was up. anyway, advice .. talk to your friend; kick him out; or move out if things get out of control. it's good helping a friend but certainly can't freeload .. that's freaking wrong..
lol seriously that is one mofo biatch you got there!? i take it where you are people doesn't get Jobseekers Allowance like we do in the UK (where people gets on the dole whilst trying to look for a job, of course there's criterias to meet to get it but still money coming through whilst jobless...) seriously if my housemates were like that i would have just got the landlord and have a word but coz she's your friend's GF, i would just tell your friend to either..: ~ make her pay rent, buy food and pay for bills (basicly tell her to get off her arse and get a job) ~ chuck her out of the flat whether your friend likes it or not, coz she is uncopable by the sounds of things ~ get another girl to rent a room at your apartment or soemthing and then you can see a cat/bitchy fight going on where the new girl is like a clean and is happy to have a go at somebody for dirty habits ~ if none of the above works, then don't give her any of your food like your take aways, fridge food well get your own mini fridge and put it in your room and keep it there, and if her clothes are lounging around chuck it in the bin or out in the streets AND if she still doesn't clean the sink, all of you should just force her to do it i mean PUSH her to do it
lol shit if i were you i would have clocked one in his face, and walk out. btw, no offense, but that female friend of yours who fucked around with the guy is a whore. i would have clocked one in her face as well (if it were my friend)
Dude my house mate which is female is the same way. Never washes the dishes, walks on her heels at all hours, slams the door at all hours, leaves dried up tooth paste and spit in the sink and can you imagine a slob with a pet dog? I literally clean up after the dog EVERY SINGLE DAY and when I tell her if she's not going to help clean up after HER dog to atleast try and prevent accidents by taking the dog out and SHE HAS THE NERVES TO BITCH AT ME! THAT SHIT JUST HAPPENED NO MORE THAN 10 MINUTES AGO! GTFO B****!
They've been together for 5+ years. He's not going to break up with her. I've confronted her before, asking if she could at the very least pick up her own garbage and clothes so we'd have some amount of walking space, but she just gave me attitude, acting like she owns the place. I let it go the first time, out of respect for my friend, but if her behavior persists, I'm not going to hold back. Wow, used condoms????!?! wtf..... My friend has more respect for us than to pull a stunt like that. I just feel bad for him because he works 60 hours a week, and his courses are all cut-throat. Then, when he comes home late at night, he has to clean up the mess that she leaves behind. I don't want to make things difficult for him, but if push comes to shove, I will ask him to kick her out or find a new place. That's pretty shitty. You can't move out? Speaking of a slob with a dog... If you can't do something as simple as clean up after yourself, you're not much better than a dog. F-uk, at least dogs are good for entertainment purposes. She's good for nothing but dirtying the place and hogging up space.
Oh she'll be gone soon. I decided to rent out the extra room and she was introduced by relatives. After this no more roommates for me but if I ever do it's reference reference reference. Learned my lesson the hard way.
Concur. Or else, the OP should tell the roommate that if his GF needs to sleep over for free, she's gonna have to start giving it up to the rest of the guys like she's been doing for him; at least 2 Blow Jobs a week at a minimum. Otherwise, get out.
guys .. do you notice the "trend" of women these days .. don't cook, don't do house chores, etc .. what's up with that? i am not saying that women should do all those shit but i think sharing the work is fair in any relationship .. not seeing much of that ..
I've been asking myself the same question. Sounds like a good idea. :biggthumpup: Now that you've mentioned it, most of my guy friends are more tidy than their GFs. Oh, one more thing. Whenever she uses the bathroom and there's a bit of TP left, she'd use just enough for herself and make sure that there are at least 3-4 sheets left on the roll so she wouldn't have to replace it with a new one, which basically screws over whoever uses the bathroom next. Shit, how lazy could you be????!
